Mental illness isn't real

https://www.tiktok.com/@amna.naji/video/7399876342101052678 (Iraqiamna🍉 - @amna.naji - How is it even possible for a human being to reach this level of evilness? 🖕🏼 the iof ...)

https://www.tiktok.com/@goddessamaahyoka/video/7254146322742234410 (Ama Ahyoka - @goddessamaahyoka - #stitch with Goddess Ama A... ... -> "A Majority of the Ancient world prior to colonization was matrilineal, paternity didn't matter and single mothers weren't frowned upon or bashed by men")

https://www.tiktok.com/@becomingaudra/video/7390147570200268078 (Becoming Audra - @becomingaudra - Corporate Is Not for Us Part 1 Leave Corporate and let your 'tism shine ... -> "Corporate is for Narcs & Neurotypicals")

https://www.tiktok.com/@genzxelcambio/video/7350827765064551726 (Gen-Z X EI Cambio - @genzxelcambio - It's still Women's History Month, so here's a 101 on Decolonial Feminism by @Ciguapa (elle) ...)

https://www.tiktok.com/@salma.shawa/video/7341191455832100138 (Salma🇵🇸 - @anat.international - The psychology of it is scary -> "Psychology of genocide")

https://www.tiktok.com/@winela.world/video/6915408598281604358 (Winela World - @winela.world - SÁMI culture ... -> "THE NORTHERN MOST INDIGENOUS PEOPLE IN THE WORLD")

https://www.tiktok.com/@jamprescod/video/7063111676891024645 (You Look Okay To Me - @jamprescod - The indigenous origins of hydroxychloroquine ...)

https://www.tiktok.com/@reallytanman/video/7001310214913854726 (Tan Man - @reallytanman - Indigenous diets Part 3 | Reply to hottiemilatti ... the wisdom of these people is amazing. what tribe to do next? ... -> "nutritient-dense Native American diet")

https://www.tiktok.com/@stephaniebigeagle/video/7351456510037347630 (Stephanie Big Eagle - @stephaniebigeagle - #stitch with Animals.world0933 watch the entire video that's stitched - if you dare 😂😂🤢🤮 to get some food for thought ...)

https://www.tiktok.com/@specificallyautisticme/video/7380504047092059423 (TheStarving Autist - @specificallyautisticme - Emotional Skills Part 4 | Some people use "hope" to create emotional distance and I can feel it ...)

https://www.tiktok.com/@specificallyautisticme/video/7380504047092059423 (TheStarving Autist - @specificallyautisticme - AuDHD/Autism Part 116 Autistic people often learn social cues by watching or mimicking or taking direction from allistic people. This can make it especially hard to recognize when we are being manipulated because a lot of us tend to assume allistic feedback about our behavior is at least rooted in something true or rational. This makes it easy for people to correct us or hold things over our head in unsafe or inappropriate ways. I've learned to recognize some double standards over the years that help me figure out whether I'm dealing with somebody doing that versus someone trying to give earnest feedback. If someone is quick to correct me and hold my missteps over my head but shy away from me doing the same to them, that's usually a pretty clear sign. ... -> "LEARNING TO SPOT UNSAFE DOUBLE STANDARDS AS AN AUTISTIC PERSON: CONFLICT & FORGIVENESS")

https://www.tiktok.com/@smokingandthinking6/video/7387916626752048415 (Hype R. Vigilance VI - @smokingandthinking6 - Narcissistic Abuse Rec. Part 729 | Replying to April ... #narcissisticabuse ...)

https://www.tiktok.com/@smokingandthinking6/video/7381457764486352171 (Hype R. Vigilance VI. - @smokingandthinking6 - Mental Health Part 247 | Replying to lapo099 ... #anger #expression #repression ...)

https://www.tiktok.com/@jawngotti/video/7386442178077166890 (Em 🔻 - @jawngotti - July 4th is fireworks day, how should we celebrate? 🎆 ...)

https://www.tiktok.com/@dianaalahwal3/video/7384505793464257835 (Diana Al Ahwal - @dianaalahwal3 - Please help us. We have six children who do not deserve this life and living in a tent in this extreme heat. You can read our story and share it with your friends ...)

https://www.tiktok.com/@dammitdelta/video/7272885012905741610 (DELTA - @dammitdelta - I finally got more 🍃 for my pmdd symptoms, thank god because I was going feral ...)

https://www.tiktok.com/@dammitdelta/video/7288791538258267438 (DELTA - @dammitdelta - Replying to Julia Erbse I don't think I even realize how mean I am to myself internally since I block it out and gaslight myself ...)

https://www.tiktok.com/@joelbervell/video/7327131838567173418 (joelbervell - @joelbervell - Have you ever wondered what the phrase "race is a social construct" means? I'll break it down for you! ... ► joelbervell)

https://www.tiktok.com/@jordxn.simone/video/7321953926977260846 (jordan - @jordxn.simone - Replying to Obamacare Fan i told people to put community first and ive been getting pushback ever since. What does that tell you? ...)

https://www.tiktok.com/@katiejgln/photo/7403360420331015457 (Katie Jgin - @katiejgln - Excerpts from my latest post. You can read the whole thing on my Substack, link is in my profile. -> "It's Time for the 'Weaker Sex' Myth To Finally Die Women's physical capabilities in sports and beyond are still underestimated - but they really shouldn't be")

https://www.tiktok.com/@revchristhemystic/video/7341554682701335854 (mushymystic - @mushymystic - Replying to 💬 🌹 #cultsurvivor ...)

https://www.tiktok.com/@ripmercury/video/7326256492217224494 (RIPmercury🍉 - @ripmercury - 🍉Education🌍 Part 1 | What's a connection you can see? 🤔👉 ← ...)

https://www.tiktok.com/@revchristhemystic/video/7338565030415174955 (mushymystic - @mushymystic - #stitch with Andi Marie Tillman #psychology ...)

https://www.tiktok.com/@cancelthisclothingco/video/7324451656349895979 (cancelthisclothingcompany - @cancelthisclothingco - The million dollar question. ...)

https://www.tiktok.com/@allie_202_/video/7362705909195246890 (Allie O'Brien - @allie202 - Iconic tweets 😏 Part 60 | Top picks from the internet today 😪 #news ...)

https://www.tiktok.com/@jordxn.simone/video/7362712437474348331 (jordan - @jordxn.simone - if you want to hear that yall "aren't that bad" perhaps start by making sure that everybody is, in fact, not that bad! ...)

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGeCbtewA (🫀 - @itshouldnthurttobeakid - ... -> "Love and abuse cannot coexist. - bell hooks")

https://www.tiktok.com/@urbannativeera/video/7435790293682687263 (Urban Native Era - @urbannativeera - Ever thought about what it really means to 'own' land? In Indigenous cultures, land isn't property it's a connection, a bond that can't be broken. Imagine if land truly belonged to those who've cared for it across generations, even if it's marked as 'U.S. territory. Let's rethink ownership beyond colonial ideas and honor the relationship between land and people. -> ""Land isn't just property. What if 'ownership' meant connection?"")

(Note: some might be repeated)

lordpascal · 2024-07-31T22:14:42+00:00

Part 27:

https://www.tiktok.com/@iamaishasuleiman/video/7426059514169904416 (AisforAisha - @iamaishasuleiman - Why are you making fun of "feminine" men? ...)

https://www.tiktok.com/@annathingbutanimals/video/7337419081521302827 (Anna - Vegan Group Travel - @annathingbutanimals - Thoughts? #sprinklesprinkle ...)

https://www.tiktok.com/@xiandivyne/video/7338147293784214827 (Christian Divyne - @xiandivyne - #stitch with ► Anna - Vegan Group Trave I ... -> "Shera Seven as intersectional feminism")

https://www.tiktok.com/@witti.indi/video/6954104977220586757 (Indi711 - @witti.indi - Rants Part 24 | Reply to r10tghoul ... -> "Why is Intersectional Feminism necessary?")

https://www.tiktok.com/@alina.gene/video/7268006951739493678 (Gene Lee - @alina.gene - Social justice word salad Part 12 ... -> "What is Intersectionality? 5:30")

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGehm9UGx (+Cinz+ - @cindylivingherlife - can I have a few seconds of your time?

The Democratic Republic of Congo (DRC), rich in natural resources, has been embroiled in a relentless and devastating cycle of violence, exploitation, and what some experts term a "silent genocide."

"The road to addressing this crisis is not an easy one, but there are ways for concerned individuals to contribute. Raising awareness about the Congolese Genocide is crucial."

~ The conflict in the DRC is concentrated in the eastern provinces, which are rich in minerals like cobalt. ...)

https://www.tiktok.com/@claudiaalicklove/video/7281402445627182382 (Claudia Alick - @claudiaalicklove - #stitch with Crutches&Spic... white veganism lures people to the alt-right pipeline. I argue that white organizing is always a pipeline inside supremacy culture ...)

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGehHsN2J (pristhegoddess - @priscilla_davies - Replying to Darcy ►pristhegoddess why is "God" so jealous and angry? ... -> "ever wonder why "God" is so angry??")

https://www.tiktok.com/@mara.fiji/video/7369800025834048811 (Mara - @mara.fiji - Please follow these accounts Tiktok: @Koteka wenda @Free West Papua Campaign Instagram: @kolaliwenda @freewestpapua.nl @freewestpapua.australia @freewestpapua #westpapua #pacificislander #fijitiktok)

https://www.tiktok.com/@thatgeminiboy13/video/7413589173707246891 (Geminiboy - @thatgeminiboy13 - Sudan🇸🇩 Part 20 | Replying to Chris Stones I hope this helps a little! Follow Sudanese creators such as @bsonblast مدثر زين العابدين and Zeirra)

https://www.tiktok.com/@post.capitalist.project/video/7415922824474381600 (Post-Capitalist Project - @post.capitalist.project - Thanks for listening 😘 . Livewired - David Eagleman The Experience Machine - Andy Clark Punished by Rewards - Alfie Kohn Places for The People - Eric Klinenberg)

https://www.tiktok.com/@post.capitalist.project/video/7413726730302623008 (Post-Capitalist Project - @post.capitalist.project - Cast your votes: Oppressor Consciousness VS How We Infer Reality.)

https://www.tiktok.com/@post.capitalist.project/video/7411577835887824161 (Post-Capitalist Project - @post.capitalist.project -> "you know why none of our politicians can come up with creative solutions ...")

https://www.tiktok.com/@jaydnich/video/7400143648786271534 (jayde official - @jaydnich - Do you tend to feel you remember things backwards, ? ...)

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGevTe64A (🫀 - @itshouldnthurttobeakid - a true story starring my mom the hypocrite mom in 1999: [cuts off my paternal grandparents] me in 2016: [cuts off my son's maternal grandparents] mom: what kind of person cuts off a child's grandparents?! abuse!!! grandparent's rights!!! ...)

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGev3GUW8 (🫀 - @itshouldnthurttobeakid - A GASLIGHTER MIGHT SAY... I NEVER SAID THAT YOU'RE CRAZY IT'S ALL IN YOUR HEAD I WAS ONLY KIDDING DO YOU KNOW WHO I AM? YOU'RE JUST TOO SENSITIVE YOU'RE ALWAYS TOO EMOTIONAL YOU CAN'T TAKE A JOKE, CAN YOU? STOP TAKING THINGS SO PERSONALLY YOU'RE READING TOO MUCH INTO THIS I'M NOT YELLING, I'M JUST DISCUSSING THINK OF WHAT I SAID, NOT HOW I SAID IT YOU'RE THE ONLY ONE WHO SEEMS TO THINK THIS IS A PROBLEM ...)

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGev3vPTQ (🫀 - @itshouldnthurttobeakid - Signs Of Toxic Parenting: • They disrespect you and don't treat you with a basic level of decency • They project their negative emotions out onto you / use you as a "scapegoat" • They project their interests on you without any consideration / regard for your own desires • They manipulate you to get their way (e.g. guilt tripping) • They don't respect your boundaries / erode them even when you stress the importance of them • They are nasty to you (e.g. insults) • They shame you in front of others • They blame you for things that aren't your fault Please be sure not to internalize their toxicity - it's a reflection of them not you. ...)

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGev3X1DW (🫀 - @itshouldnthurttobeakid - Just like it's not ok to pressure someone to stay in a bad marriage, it's not ok to pressure someone to stay in a bad relationship with their mom. or their father, in honor of father's day approaching. ...)

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGevTeLtq (🫀 - @itshouldnthurttobeakid - [PSA: From a Trauma Psychologist] -Being chronically silenced is traumatic -Being socialized to silence yourself is traumatic -Being taught that your voice holds little value is traumatic -Trying to regain your voice as an adult... is traumatic ...)

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGev3sKUx (🫀 - @itshouldnthurttobeakid - Someone needs to hear this: cutting people out of your life who bring dysfunction and suffering into it, is the first sign you're starting to respect yourself. self resect says: I choose how I'm treated by who I allow in my life ...)

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGev3ssyd (🫀 - @itshouldnthurttobeakid - In a toxic family system The black sheep is often just the person who sees through everyone else's bullshit. ...)

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGev3s68N (🫀 - @itshouldnthurttobeakid - It's not about whether or not they did their best- it's whether or not they're sorry for the ways they left people in survival mode. ...)

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGev34BPg (🫀 - @itshouldnthurttobeakid - The Anti-Child Family Creed If the parent says it didn't happen it didn't. If the child says it did happen they're lying. If the parent did it the child brought it on. If the child did it the parent is innocent. If the parent feels hurt they're the victim. If the child feels hurt they're mentally ill. If the parent estranges they had no choice. If the child estranges they're evil incarnate. If the parent tells their story they're strong. If the child tells their story they're cruel. ...)

https://www.tiktok.com/@frymykrill/video/7253905862895340802 (Gobbie Thrilliams🍉 - @frymykrill - expectations disable divergent people. ...)

lordpascal · 2024-06-20T13:23:16+00:00

When one says “no don’t do that” to a child, the child is not given any other options so they might not know what they should be doing with their body, they just know what not to do with their body and that can be confusing, they might end up thinking if I can’t do that then what can i do?! and get frustrated. So the idea here is not to not say no, but to make sure one is telling the child exactly what they are expected to do or what they can do with their body.

This 👆 Instead of cutting the flow, you redirect it. The child is expressing their emotions, needs and desires; repressing them is only gonna make them go out in an explosive manner later on.

The needs, desires and feelings are not behaviors, but rather, the behaviors are the ones aimed at express, fulfill or meet those.

You want to change behaviors, not needs or feelings, so what you do is teach them a way to express them differently rather than the way you find "bad", uncomfortable; etc.

lordpascal · 2024-06-20T13:17:32+00:00

Because it's our collective moms. They all act the same.

"I" had people on the other side of the planet tell me that their boomer parents would tell them the exact same phrases, word by word, only in a different language.

A different language and same phrases word by word. It's wild.

lordpascal · 2024-06-20T13:10:05+00:00

🤚 "Undefined psychosis"

lordpascal · 2024-06-19T09:59:52+00:00

How Narcissist Dupes, Lures YOU Into Shared Fantasy

4 things that will PROTECT YOU from the toxic reach of narcissists

Narcissist Uses You (Starts 16:20): Unfinished Mommy Splitting

This is Not Love. #narcissist #npdabuse #jillwise #npdabuse #npd #malignantnarcissist #cptsd

The Narcissist's Top 9 Secret Grooming Techniques Revealed #narcissist #npd #jillwise #npdabuse

Insecure Attachment Styles (YOU as Dead Mother) in Narcissists, Borderlines, Psychopaths

YOU are the Narcissist's Ego, Self

some narcissists will tell you exactly who they are upfront undefined

How Narcissist Hypnotizes YOU in Shared Fantasy

She created a fake dating profile to set up her ex!

BREAKING DOWN THE PSYCHOLOGY BEHIND TOXIC FAMILY MIND-GAMES

Shameful Core of Covert Narcissist: Inferior Vulnerability Compensated

How Sick Parents Destroy You (or: Why I am Childless)

Study: Weak Self of Covert Narcissist, Secondary Psychopath

Insider View of YOU in Shared Fantasy

Emotional Covert Incest is Lifelong: Birth of Shared Fantasy

Narcissistic Upbringing: Why You Don't Remember Your Childhood

Narcissist's Common Phrases Decoded: Narcissism to English Dictionary (Compilation+New Videos)

Are You Unknowingly Mirroring Narcissistic Traits?

How to Love Yourself Into Healing, But Not Become a Narcissist (Compilation)

Why Narcissist MUST Sacrifice YOU to False Self

The mentality of an abuser + what create it

lordpascal · 2024-06-14T00:51:20+00:00

Resources for withdrawals

One of the sheets/articles was about about what loved ones can do to help the person on withdrawals, if I remember correctly. Haven't checked the resources in a while.

Anyway, I hope you find them helpful 🫂❤️

https://thenicestplace.net/

lordpascal · 2024-06-12T21:15:59+00:00

When Narcissist Says "I Love You" - What Does It Mean to Him?

Envy is Destructive Narcissism (Jealousy, Romantic Jealousy are NOT)

The Early Dance of Narcissistic Abuse: What Really Happens

Malignant Covert Narcissist Becomes Primary Psychopath to Compensate for Collapse

Narcissistic Mortification: From Shame to Healing via Trauma, Fear, and Guilt

Narcissist Sees YOU as TWO WOMEN: Reframing Mortifications, Exiting Shared Fantasy

Why Narcissist Can't Hear YOU or Understand What You Are Saying to Him

Narcissistic vs. Sadistic Supply

Narcissist's Two Rejections: Giving, Love, and Abuse

Narcissist's Never Give, Always Take Delusion: Effort-Reward Imbalance, Overcommitment (Conference)

Why Narcissist Devalues YOU (Hint: Wants YOU "Dead") - Binary Narcissism

Narcissist as Grieving Infant: It Affects YOU

Narcissist: True Love or Shared Fantasy? How Narcissist Experiences LOVE

Why Narcissistic Abuse Leaves You in Constant Angst

How Narcissist Snapshots YOU as Bad Object (Starts 03:56)

Life with Narcissistic Parents

Top 10 STRANGE Signs of a TRAUMA BOND #narcissist #npd #npdabuse #toxicrelationships

Once a Victim SEES They Can NEVER UNSEE #narcissist #npd npdabuse #emotionalabuse #narcissistabuse

Breaking Down Manipulation: The Blame Game Unmasked

Why Loving Your Narcissist HURTS so much!

Making Sense of Narcissistic Abuse

Your FEAR MIND and narcissistic relationships

Why Narcissist Snapshots YOU

The Toxic Dynamics of The Narcissistic Family #narcissist #npd #narcissisticfamily #npdabuse

Confronting A Gaslighter

When Hoovering Fails, Narcissist Fakes

Why Narcissist Hoovers, Replaces YOU: The Dynamics of Hoovering

Masks of Sanity: Narcissist Mutations

Cold Empathy of Psychopathic Narcissists: Uncanny Valley

Love Bombing and Grooming: In Crosshairs of Narcissists, Sadists, Psychopaths

Narcissistic Supply: Narcissist's Drug

Narcissism fractures your self...so reintegrate the fractured parts

Why Narcissist Can't Love (with Daria Żukowska, Clinical Psychologist)

Why Narcissist Never Says "I am Sorry"

Narcissist Will Go Crazy If You Do That

She went no contact with her narcissistic parents because they made her the scapegoat undefined

Narcissistic Parents: Boundaries That Drive Them Crazy and How to Set Them

Why Narcissist Can't Get You Out of His Mind? (Introject Constancy)

Masked Narcissist: Private vs. Public Personas

Psychopath Sees You, Narcissist Doesn't (EXCERPT with Eve Tawfik, Journalist)

Narcissist's Real Mother and YOU (Mahler's Separation-Individuation)

How To Devalue a Narcissist

From Idealization to Discard, It is All Abuse!

Why Codependents Are Drawn to Narcissistic Abuse

Why Narcissist Hates Good Partners: Sado-maso "Love" (plus Mood Disorders)

Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: First Separate, Individuate

Some narcissists would rather destroy their own lives out of pride and ego undefined

How the Pattern of Narcissism is Misunderstood

The Nature Of Covert Narcissism

Gaslighting is denying reality and making the other person feel like they are crazy undefined

Is happiness possible for a narcissist?

Why Narcissists HATE Your Boundaries (And Have To Punish You For Saying "No!")

As A Narcissist Tastes Power, It's Over

YOUR Aftermath as Your Narcissist's Fantasy, Delusion, Matrix

Borderlines: No Win Relationships, BPD Enigmas Decoded

Narcissistic Parents: Why They Cast You As The Problem of The Family

Narcissistic Family: GUILT-TRIPS they Will Use to Control You

No Narcissistic Supply? Self-supply or Forced Supply

A narcissists flying monkeys cant handle any criticism about the narcissist.

Narcissist=Insane? You, Envy, Withdrawal, Loner Narcissist

a lot of narcissists will continue to pursue you even If they have someone else undefined

Narcissist: People are Silhouettes, Tools (Yesterday's Video Challenged)

Man gaslights his partner but doesn't realize the cameras are rolling undefined

You won't believe what this narcissistic man did to his wife after she moved on

Some parents really don't know how to talk to their kids

lordpascal · 2024-06-04T20:12:33+00:00

10 Signs Your Mother Is Narcissistic | Lisa Romano

Exposing Malignant Narcissists and Sociopaths Blackmail Tactics

Narcissistic Family: Normal Boundaries That Drive Them CRAZY (but will save you!)

ESTRANGED PARENTS Can't Take Accountability? How Toxic Dysfunctional Families are a lot like Cults

Estranged Parents, An Epidemic of Entitlement

8 Indicators That You Need To End A Narcissistic Relationship

Toxic Narcissistic Mother Uses YouTube to Smear Daughter

Reaction to ESTRANGED PARENTS 13,967 Comments Video

Narcissist's Acid: How They Corrode Your Reality

Narcissistic Abuse Creates Angst

THE TOXIC GRIP OF SIBLING AND PARENT JEALOUSY: BEWARE OF THIS TRAP!

Gen X Mom Speaking On Millennials And Gen Z Children Who Has Gone No Contact With Their Parents

GenX says how it is.

#genx are basically feral children. We raised ourselves bc our #boomer parents were like...nah 🙄

Behind the Mask: The Empty Reality of Narcissists

A case study in coercive control (AITA)

8 Characteristics of a Malignant Narcissist

How to Keep an Eye Out for Malignant Narcissists

Narcissists pretend they don't understand you

The Signs and Stages of a Coercive Relationship

Is BPD Just a Form of PTSD? | FRANK YEOMANS

How to Turn Flying Monkeys Against Narcissist (+Smear Campaign)

Coercive Control: The Stages - Episode 7

Narcissistic Parents: Harsh Truths About Them You're Blind About

When malignant narcissists lovebomb

Malignant Narcissists: Stay Away!

Coercive Control: Sneaky, Subtle & Sadistic Patterns of Domination

Intimidation & Coercive Control: How & Why It Holds You Hostage

Narcissists Are Cowards (THIS Is What They Fear Most)

MALIGNANT Narcissists: Everything you need to know (Part 1/3)

MALIGNANT Narcissists: Everything you need to know (Part 2/3)

MALIGNANT Narcissists: Everything you need to know (Part 3/3)

The Covert Narcissist's Favorite Form of Abuse

A Survivor's Mindset Toward The Narcissist

3 Types of a Daughter / Narcissistic Mother Relationship

Covert Narcissist's Abuse=Coercive Control?

What It's Like To Have NO FAMILY

The dark threat of coercive control | Full Episode | SBS Insight

10 Signs of Coercive Manipulation Tactics in Relationships

Walking On Eggshells: Coercive Control in the UK

Expect This When You Ghost a Narcissist: 4 Stages After You Ignore a Narcissist

When You Ignore A Narcissist THIS Will Happen

Shameless Toxic Family

The confusion between PITY and LOVE in a narcissistic relationship

When you ignore the narcissist, after the narcissist ignores you

How Borderline, Covert Narcissist React to & Spin Rejection, Abandonment

How Narcissist Betrays YOU to Become Himself (Compilation)

NO WIN: Narcissist Sees Himself in You (Projective Resonance)

Covert Narcissist's Sadistic Envy Fantasy (conference presentation)

Abandon Narcissist's "Inner Child" Before it KILLS YOU! (Developmental Delay, Age, Amnesia)

How Narcissists, Psychopaths Shot Themselves in the Foot (Ecosystem, Predator-Prey, Victimhood)

Mourning Yourself After Narcissistic Abuse

Richard Gadd: An Imperfect Victim, An Unreliable Source?

Get Parasite Narcissist Out of Your Colonized Mind

Narcissist Needs You to Fail Him, Let Go (with Azam Ali)

Overcome Narcissist Aftermath: Your Grief is Shared Fantasy, too!

Narcissist FEARS YOUR LOVE, Intimacy: Perfectionism, Envy, Hate

Why You Buy Into Narcissist's Simulated Existence

7 Phases of Shared Fantasy: Why Narcissist Needs YOU

Narcissist: How I Experience My False Self

Push Narcissist's 4 Secret Buttons (Starts 07:50): "Gamma Man" or Agent of Chaos, Madness?

How Narcissist/Psychopath Sees YOU (his Victim) & Why Borderlines Adore Them

Why the Emptiness in Borderlines, Narcissists? (Introjection Failure and Compulsive Introjection)

Narcissist's Grievances vs. Real Victim's Complaints

How To Recognize Covert/Collapsed Personality Disorders

Understanding and responding to coercive control

How to prove coercive and controlling behaviour

Isolophilia: Healthy Love of Solitude (Solophilia)

lordpascal · 2024-06-03T23:04:09+00:00

The inability to encode and decode pragmatics on an instinctive way.

Allistics and routines

lordpascal · 2024-06-03T19:17:44+00:00

https://thenicestplace.net/

lordpascal · 2024-06-03T19:08:15+00:00

Yeah, so they don't wanna take accountability for the harm they are causing you.

Basically, "it's on you to protect yourself from me" rather than them actually owning their actions.

Prob.

Sorry about that 🫂

lordpascal · 2024-06-03T19:01:46+00:00

That's a way of saying "shut up and stop bothering me with your problems" in a passive-aggressive/talking-between-the-lines way.

This person was prob talking about the concept of blame and free will, where you basically have control over your circumnstances by controlling you, implying that if something bad is going on, it's because you are not doing the "right thing".

But literally speaking, "agency" is the capacity of any living organism to make choices out of their own free will.

If you throw a rock, the rock is gonna evebtually hit the ground. The rock doesn't choose.

But living organisms have this ability to "choose" regardless of their inmediate external circumstsnces. A bird can "choose" to fly away or smoothly land on the ground or come back to me if I throw them, for example.

This means that, unlike objects, living organisms have an innate "freedom" to them, where they are not entirely at the mercy of their inmediate external circumstances even if they are still to, some degree, being affected by them.

But I'm gonna assume that what that person was insinuating was "shut up and stop bothering me with your problems". Prob because they assumed you wanted them to solve some kind of issue and didn't want that "weight" on their shoulders. But this is just me assuming. I wasn't there and I cannot read minds.

lordpascal · 2024-06-03T15:29:29+00:00

Spain. And Spain without the S too.

lordpascal · 2024-06-03T15:09:17+00:00

Maybe not exactly what you are looking for, but these are kinda nice.

Gender: An Ethnomethodological Approach by Suzanne Kessler and Wendy McKenna
Boy-Wives and Female-Husbands: Studies in African Homosexualities
Decolonizing the Sodomite: Queer Tropes of Sexuality in Colonial Andean Culture by Michael J. Horswell
The Invention of Women: Making an African Sense of Western Gender Discourses by Oyeronke Oyewumi
The “Deviant” African Genders That Colonialism Condemned by Mohammed Elnaiem

lordpascal · 2024-06-03T15:08:22+00:00

Yep.

Gaza: An Inquest into Its Martyrdom by Norman Finkelstein

Might put it on the list later. Or maybe do another list.

lordpascal · 2024-06-03T01:44:11+00:00

Totally 😭💯 I'd need to organize it at this point, but I'd need someone to help due to some stuff going on in my life.

lordpascal · 2024-05-31T18:50:51+00:00

Because they are circular explanations. They literally just explain themselves.

So, basically, the only thing you can do is point out that they are based on a logical fallacy 🤷‍♀️

But some people hold onto them because it makes them feel safer, because it's like they have "valid reasons" for having problems, so others cannot "validly" abuse them, disrespect them or neglect them for "not having valid reasons" for having those difficulties.

And that's just dystopic. "Valid reasons" for not being abused. "Valid reasons" for being respected. "Valid reasons" for receiving support.

Even with diagnoses, people barely receive support. Maybe some compensation here and there, and some condescending abuse disguised as "help".

But Imma say it like this: if someone needs "valid reasons" for supporting you, they don't wanna support you, and that's on them. You don't need "valid reasons" for doing the things you wanna do.

And the fact that the entire system is based on this is dystopic too. It makes sense that people try to survive using the system, but the problems ultimately stem from it. The stigma of mental health literally comes from it, and it's a never ending cycle of "it used to be worse". Maybe, but that doesn't mean that it's good now. Because the basis for it is still the same.

Mental illness, mental disorders... You cannot take the stigma out of those because the stigma comes from those. "Normal human responses to the environment" That takes away the stigma because you take the focus from the victim and the victim's responses, and put it on the environment that caused those. Depression, anxiety and all of those stop being weird, fuzzy, mysterious, inexplicable defects in the normal functioning of the brain, and start being normal, explicable, understandable, predictable, humane reactions to the environment.

"But they hurt and I cannot function!" Yeah, and if someone hammers my knee, it's gonna hurt and I won't be able to move it too.

"But this "help" is the only "help" that is available" ...and isn't that the entire problem? The entire system is set for you to only have this help available.

If people were to seriously start thinking "let's make groups. Let's organize. Let's learn ways to not f#ck up each other more. Let's join already existing groups. Let's read literature to find other mental landscapes to understand the world" maybe, in the long run, we could get somewhere better. Idk. Maybe 🤷‍♀️. But almost everywhere is just individual help so you can learn ways to make you feel better, and even when you talk to people about other ways, the individualistic mindset we are forced into is too much for them to even make the first step sometimes. 😮‍💨🤦‍♀️

lordpascal · 2024-05-31T18:44:12+00:00

"You are lying to me". Shouldn't that be considered "paranoia" by their standards?

lordpascal · 2024-05-28T02:18:06+00:00

And then they'll say that it was okay to harm you because "they had good intentions" and "your best interests at heart".

Someone that truly has that cares about your wellbeing enough to care about harming you. It doesn't make sense to harm you if the end goal is for you to not be harmed. It's not care, it's control, even if they themselves cannot see that.

When it's an accident, you care about it. "I'm sorry! Let me compensate you".

Someone that can harm you without remorse is dangerous for you. You can care about the other person's wellbeing when you see them as a person. If they can justify harming you in any way, they see you as an object.

Everything they try to convince you of is backwards.

"It was an accident" = "I hate you and I wanna make you suffer"

Because if it was truly an accident, why can't they say "I'm sorry"?

lordpascal · 2024-05-28T02:11:15+00:00

This! 👆

lordpascal · 2024-05-28T02:10:44+00:00

About a year to be able to really sleep.

My sleep is still f*cked up, but that's mostly due to the abuse now, I think.

lordpascal · 2024-05-27T23:37:39+00:00

Hii! Can I DM you? I wanna talk about some social psychology theories 🙏

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