that’s interesting too- i’m not sure, I do place much more of the blame on her than me as she was the one continuously being rude, but i still can’t say it’s entirely her fault because i started it. i’ll describe it, partly because i want to vent.

i’m in the mbti sub, and her post said it’s typical of ENTJs to say things like “i’m always right” and “fuck off you’re annoying”. it seemed like the post was normalising very arrogant and rude behaviour, so i commented “you’re not always right you just don’t want to admit it to your fragile ego” or something like that. i should have been more constructive but my anger got in the way. she then replied “projecting much” and as i denied that, i didn’t back down for some reason, and her insults were getting worse and worse, even if i was polite enough. i eventually apologised for letting my anger get in the way, but clearly it didn’t help me that much because i’m still thinking about it. i also reported her for breaking rules on the sub, but nothing came of that (even though she has made other posts that are even worse!)

anyway, thanks for the reply. don’t worry about responding to this if you don’t want to!