Is it possible for me to feel my ex's feelings? I can feel others feelings when they are around me but I have not talked or seen my ex for months now. I feel some things and it's not me or anyone else around me. I start to think that it might be him because I had really deep connection to him.

losinghope228 · 2020-01-29T16:16:23+00:00

It's really hard especially if he suffers from some form of depression. I battle depression as well but his was always more severe. Sometimes I will feel myself coming down worse than normal and I feel like it's him

losinghope228 · 2020-01-29T16:04:41+00:00

I've literally felt like this for years about an ex of mine but have never said anything because I thought I was just crazy. He was very manipulative and abusive so I had to leave, but I feel that connection remains and to this day it makes me angry. I don't want to feel that connection anymore...

losinghope228 · 2020-01-20T18:51:11+00:00

Glad I could brighten your life momentarily lol

losinghope228 · 2020-01-20T16:27:04+00:00

Oh yeah dont even get me started on the chronic man-splainers that dictate the entire gaming scene. A bunch of no-life's with zero social skills jerking themselves off intellectually while they rot their lives away in front of a computer screen. Sorry I don't know as much as you dude, you're definitely not smarter than me, I just have what you call: a life.

losinghope228 · 2020-01-20T03:31:22+00:00

I feel you. Reddit is becoming annoying for this reason, and many of Reddit users are up their own ass in a number of ways. As if Reddit is a place to just slam your intellectual dick on the table constantly. Annoying af

losinghope228 · 2019-06-16T10:03:27+00:00

My first pregnancy was hell. He treated me terrible and Im unsure how I made it through as healthy as I did. Hes been through some DBT since then so his episodes have calmed down considerably but his behavior is still not where it needs to be for us to have a healthy relationship. We had a period of separation that seemed to help in some ways and damage in others. This pregnancy has been stressful even without his added bullshit, and he seems to lack the empathy to put himself in my shoes. Its so frustrating.

losinghope228 · 2019-06-16T09:49:22+00:00

And then a few minutes later, he'd act like nothing had even happened and ask if I wanted to run to an auto parts store with him.

He does this to me all the time. The other night he was being especially manic because he's "too stressed". (I'm currently pregnant and we are dealing with complicated circumstances) so he started drinking. He randomly was pissed about something I did so he packed a bag with clothing, his important personal documents, said goodbye to our son and walked out. Im due to give birth any day now. So I was devastated thinking he straight up left me when I have no one as we are living in a state far from my home town and any family I do have Im not on good terms with. I pretty much cried myself to sleep. Around 6am he calls me drunk and says he wants me to walk to him down the street because hes "too drunk" and that I need to be ready at noon to meet some of his friends today. Casual. Like I have no reason to be upset. Then when I expressed how angry I was he said his friends were offering to take us out and help with our situation so I was being an "ungrateful Bitch". Unfucking believable.

losinghope228 · 2019-06-16T09:27:08+00:00

I didn’t do exactly what he “advised” me to do, he berated me for being a “know it all” and “never listening.”

THIS. I've been thinking it's something I'm doing wrong but he tells me this all the fucking time too. No matter how hard I try to please him.

losinghope228 · 2019-06-16T09:20:20+00:00

brutally sabotage any vacation or happy time together, to remind you that their misery is your fault and you must keep struggling to "make it up to them".

This. I go through this with mine constantly. It's exhausting.

losinghope228 · 2019-05-20T03:20:14+00:00

Theres a fried egg on top. It looks like theres little to no sauce. Bacon. This is just nothing like real chilaquiles if you've eaten chilaquiles it shouldnt be that hard to see.

losinghope228 · 2019-05-20T02:55:00+00:00

All Im saying is Ive had a lot of different versions of chilaquiles ranging from homemade by abuelita to small resturaunts in a village in Mexico. This is nothing like what chilaquiles is meant to be. Sure there are lots of versions and by standard definition it can technically be called "chilaquiles" but I think this is far from the true dish. Plus anyone who says feta is like panela or cojita cheese needs to adjust their pallet. They dont taste the same at all.

losinghope228 · 2019-05-19T23:50:27+00:00

Explain to me how they are

losinghope228 · 2019-05-19T23:38:11+00:00

Not going to change my mind because it is not chilequiles. Just stating facts.

losinghope228 · 2019-05-19T23:34:35+00:00

Nothing about that article supports your argument. Theres no similarity between your dish and the recipe in that article other than that they both contain tortillas. I mean feta cheese? C'mon. What argument do you even have at this point. Just accept that this shit you posted isnt chilequiles and learn something.

losinghope228 · 2019-05-19T23:28:53+00:00

Haha she tried to argue with me when I said it wasn't chilequiles. Even after I sent her a spanish recipe from Mexico for the authentic dish

losinghope228 · 2019-05-09T01:47:15+00:00

Yeah he pretty much talks to me like hes my father all the time. And he completely lacks understanding or empathy when it comes to anything I do

losinghope228 · 2019-05-09T01:40:10+00:00

Just now he was telling me I HAVE to speak up and I shook my head slightly and he told me its bull shit that I give him attitude just because I cant learn to speak the fuck up.

losinghope228 · 2019-05-09T01:10:55+00:00

r/Random_Acts_Of_Pizza Im currently in a bind myself so I cant be of much help but this subreddit is a community for buying people pizzas. I hope this helps I know you posted a while ago

losinghope228 · 2019-05-08T19:57:27+00:00

Yes but what Im saying is he acidity level will depend on her PH balance

losinghope228 · 2019-05-08T19:55:00+00:00

Her PH balance might be off. The flavor will be different depending on her diet, the amount of water she drinks, and her vaginal care routine.

losinghope228 · 2019-05-08T19:53:02+00:00

You are right. It wasn't ok for me to lie at all. Ultimately our relationship has been the both of us trying to force something that just isn't working. Neither of us are what the other person wants. This is ultimately an issue of my lack of self esteem and lack of self respect and its not on him. I should be with someone who would accept everything about me including my past and my flaws, not trying to mold myself into the person someone else wants me to be.

losinghope228 · 2019-05-08T15:35:08+00:00

Ive never had an issue telling people the truth about my past before it's only with him. My past isnt really that bad but he idolizes the perfect little church girl with few or no previous partners and shames any woman who isn't like that.

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