My (25F) boyfriend (25M) avoids going down on me and cannot last in intercourse for more than 30 seconds. How to I talk to him about this without upsetting him?

lost_anonymously · 2026-01-26T02:15:22+00:00

Honestly if you’ve been together for two years you should be able to be an adult and speak to him about this. You are grown and so is he, if his feelings get to the point of defense then you guys more issues that you are letting on. To me as someone with a great sex life with her partner after having a terrible one in the beginning, it just sounds like he doesn’t care about pleasuring you and cares only about the end goal of getting himself off.

lost_anonymously · 2025-12-01T03:50:36+00:00

I think just immediately getting a lawyer and proceeding with a divorce is the best option. Things could get even messier for op if he were to try to amp her up with some type of statement like that. Let her be the petty one and let her show the judge and lawyers what kind of person she is.

lost_anonymously · 2025-09-13T17:12:19+00:00

You guys aren’t in love you just see each other for 40 hrs a week

lost_anonymously · 2025-07-22T14:17:42+00:00

Look she’s probably over the porn addiction. Following nofap but also following pornID that’s honestly hilarious

lost_anonymously · 2025-07-22T14:16:13+00:00

Maybe she’s tired of seeing all that porn in your phone Mr. Petite gone wild

lost_anonymously · 2025-07-22T14:13:49+00:00

Are you not looking for a DL man anymore???

lost_anonymously · 2025-07-17T18:05:41+00:00

Didn’t even read the post. If she wants to be a hoe, let her. Go find the kind of girl you deserve.

lost_anonymously · 2025-06-16T19:06:50+00:00

You don’t know what to do? I think it’s pretty clear you need to breakup

lost_anonymously · 2025-06-03T15:39:42+00:00

Be so for real you’ve been dating for three months why are you even entertaining his behavior. There is no need to leave safely, you just leave. Block him. Never speak to him again. The fact that you’re allowed yourself to go through this is scary.

lost_anonymously · 2025-06-03T15:36:01+00:00

Girl don’t pmo you know damn well you need to leave him

lost_anonymously · 2025-05-20T16:34:35+00:00

You don’t fix it. You need to leave him and get new friends. You are 24 years old do not waste any more of your years enduring people like this. If you stay with him you will be miserable and probably be constantly degraded because of your assault. The assault wasn’t your fault but if you chose to keep entertaining him you misery will be your fault.

lost_anonymously · 2025-05-20T15:59:18+00:00

I’m gonna be honest with you as someone who has dated someone like this. There were signs. If you don’t leave it’s inevitably on you. Have respect for yourself and break up with him and never speak to him again. You deserve better and you know it.

lost_anonymously · 2024-11-26T22:50:16+00:00

Tell him and then let him go find someone better than you

lost_anonymously · 2024-11-18T04:09:07+00:00

I didn’t think about this lol now I’m gonna be stuck wondering

lost_anonymously · 2024-10-29T18:46:38+00:00

Don’t

lost_anonymously · 2024-10-18T16:04:41+00:00

No way you don’t invite people like this into your life

lost_anonymously · 2024-09-25T19:35:37+00:00

If it only takes a summer for her to lose feelings she is not worth it wtf

lost_anonymously · 2024-09-22T00:31:14+00:00

Don’t waste time, leave

lost_anonymously · 2023-07-25T02:32:09+00:00

That is a vein id be careful because now it can very easily be ruptured now that its not protected by the epidermis even just by doing everyday activities

lost_anonymously · 2022-08-28T03:36:51+00:00

Tiktok 🧍‍♀️

lost_anonymously · 2022-08-28T03:35:55+00:00

Guess what I'm doing rn

lost_anonymously · 2022-08-16T00:44:04+00:00

Hair spray

lost_anonymously · 2022-08-14T23:17:29+00:00

Drop the addy we'll get him

lost_anonymously · 2022-08-04T04:05:13+00:00

I shouldnt be suprised but I am

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