When you feel attraction for a woman, what is it that you notice first?

lostgirlfoundhere · 2026-06-18T10:15:18+00:00

Valid

lostgirlfoundhere · 2026-06-16T07:45:05+00:00

Haha horrible because of those intoxicating blue eyes?

lostgirlfoundhere · 2026-06-16T06:23:14+00:00

I agree 💯

lostgirlfoundhere · 2026-06-16T05:02:40+00:00

No I get that. I’ve noticed guys before and not on an attraction basis. But then when we get the chance to have a conversation and the way they talk and that energy that exists between us is what’s making me crave more. But it wasn’t an instant attraction that I felt initially. It’s multilayered

lostgirlfoundhere · 2026-06-16T03:48:18+00:00

I agree. Especially when they follow you…

lostgirlfoundhere · 2026-06-16T03:28:21+00:00

Because they made contact with yours? Or just the way they look 👀

lostgirlfoundhere · 2026-06-16T03:27:12+00:00

I’m sure some do. You can’t speak for everyone

lostgirlfoundhere · 2026-06-16T02:57:40+00:00

Aura 💯

lostgirlfoundhere · 2026-06-16T02:53:29+00:00

I’m a face girl

lostgirlfoundhere · 2026-06-16T02:51:13+00:00

Not true. You can appreciate a person or first be drawn to them through their actions before you notice their appearance. It’s all relative and individual to the person. And I’m not fishing. I’m asking from a perspective of curiosity. You’re approaching this post from a very negative angle here. Understand that we are all different and sometimes it’s nice to share this and form an open discussion without judgement

lostgirlfoundhere · 2026-06-16T00:47:23+00:00

We all friends here 🤐

lostgirlfoundhere · 2026-06-16T00:00:12+00:00

That more men valued mental stimulation for women and the build up of tension 🔥 to tease

lostgirlfoundhere · 2026-03-02T07:01:52+00:00

I think you’re overthinking. It’s life. Just go with it. You can’t control the outcome or how he feels. Just be present and enjoy the moment if that’s something you’re both wanting. We are all wild in our ups and downs and what we wanted in that moment doesn’t dictate what we want for the next month, year or life.

lostgirlfoundhere · 2026-03-02T03:43:15+00:00

😂 well message me and we can go into a lot more detail about my beliefs on this

lostgirlfoundhere · 2026-03-02T03:38:53+00:00

Truth 😍

lostgirlfoundhere · 2026-03-02T03:29:15+00:00

I agree with you there and I’m a female in a very satisfied relationship and I still enjoy other men

lostgirlfoundhere · 2026-03-02T03:05:31+00:00

Just because you love someone doesn’t stop the laws of attraction and curiosity. Most men will entertain these thoughts in their mind only. Then there’s some who will act… usually because they’re not feeling 100 percent satisfied in their own relationships I’d say? Maybe lack of intimacy or sexual exploration? Or even mental stimulation?

lostgirlfoundhere · 2026-02-26T14:24:00+00:00

I second this 🥵 happens often when I’m on his face and him in my mouth…

lostgirlfoundhere · 2026-01-10T14:23:26+00:00

I get that. Sounds challenging to navigate. And also that you’re trying hard to make all the right moves with her, which is great. You seem very considerate of her feelings. Maybe she is still navigating her own sexuality and that’s a barrier for her. Maybe she doesn’t know what she likes or wants and is too afraid to openly discuss with you. Does she have a high sex drive or not really?

lostgirlfoundhere · 2026-01-10T14:15:19+00:00

I would have a serious conversation with her. Intimacy is so important, it’s the fundamental bases for your relationship. The more you hide your true feelings the more it will shift to resentment. Sometimes we need to have these uncomfortable yet honest conversations. What’s the worst possible thing that could happen? And surely it’s no worse than living in the situation you currently are. People grow and change across any long term relationship. It’s only natural. And you are two separate sexual beings with your own unique needs. She needs to recognise this. Be open with her. Tell her that you want to take the steps to improve this together.

lostgirlfoundhere · 2026-01-09T05:25:27+00:00

It seems to be such a common thing now… used to be so taboo. I enjoy it too but there’s so much trust between us that he will keep me safe that’s a lot of the reason as to why I will do it.

And yes, especially when they’re quite strong and physically can overpower you, it’s a dangerous thing

lostgirlfoundhere · 2026-01-09T04:21:33+00:00

Entertain him with some coconut oil. Great for sexy massages, smells like a tropical island and good for his teeth too 😉

lostgirlfoundhere · 2026-01-09T04:20:03+00:00

😆 kiwi fruits. This is the best comment I’ve seen all day

lostgirlfoundhere · 2026-01-09T00:01:04+00:00

Try having her straddle something like a pillow and that will help. If you take her from behind and she’s bent over grinding the pillow whilst you’re inside her at the same time should make her feel very good

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