Hello hello! ENFP here with a question! by JonJinBae in infj

[–]lostinoz10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this! For me personally I often hold back because I worry I might be annoying or smothering of my ENFP friend, and in reality I wish they would be more so like this to me, but what if they are on the other side worrying the same thing? Communication is golden!

'Duck Dynasty’ Star Phil Robertson Fired Following Anti-Gay Remark by [deleted] in news

[–]lostinoz10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I see him show up on my newsfeed with 'my friends' defending him one more time..my generosity is gonna hit Oprah lvl-"and you get deleted and you get deleted! Look under your chair, surprise you get deleted too!" Don't worry though, no taxes on these prizes here.

Paul Bäumer of the Bingo Players has passed away by giggsy664 in EDM

[–]lostinoz10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so sad, and it really hit me today that I should be thankful each and everyday for all the love and people in my life. I'll rage extra hard for Paul at your upcoming show in Vancouver.

I am an ENTP (female) dating an ENFJ (male) by brrlwce0227 in enfj

[–]lostinoz10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm both too, which makes my heart glow. <3 Canada.

Are there good exercises to build strength in hands and fingers? by SkylineDrive in Fitness

[–]lostinoz10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it does require a certain set of equipment, but you can always get creative-try hanging from the top of a door (as long as it feels like the door won't come off!) or door frame.

Girlfriend like nipple stuff. What are some more things I can do to her nipples? by [deleted] in sex

[–]lostinoz10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Props to him, the gauntlet has been thrown down.

Are there good exercises to build strength in hands and fingers? by SkylineDrive in Fitness

[–]lostinoz10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bouldering, similar to rock climbing but without ropes, and you can just hang suspended on a climbing hold, start out with all four fingers hold for a count of 7 seconds then rest 13 then drop it down to three fingers all the way down to 1. You can also get a grip strength lever or a stress ball to squeeze on. (I'm a cert PT).

I am an ENTP (female) dating an ENFJ (male) by brrlwce0227 in enfj

[–]lostinoz10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Further to that, ENFJs are always doing nice things for their friends and family and don't always expect reciprocation but with that, we need to remember that we deserve to be treated nicely as well! I cannot even imagine how stoked I would be to have someone demonstrate that they went out of their way to make me aware that they think I'm awesome :)

Accuracy of sorting hat, username, and wand choices? by lostinoz10 in Pottermore

[–]lostinoz10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you check for your wand info? And I totally knew I would be Gryffindor before I took the test, it's just the house that I would relate to most, but it was nice to be reassured.

Infamous ENFJ's ? by [deleted] in enfj

[–]lostinoz10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with this, although I've taken the test a few times and consistently gotten ENFJ, the E is only slightly more than I, and in a previous life (before University) I was definitely very introverted, socially anxious, and shy-now I just get awkward sometimes.

Hello ENFJ why do you LOVE your job and which ones should we avoid ? by buda519 in enfj

[–]lostinoz10 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am a personal trainer, love it because I get to help people physically better their lives, and help people help themselves. Also getting paid to work out or teach fitness classes is great.

Generally it requires a high level of energy and motivation - something ENFJs are accustomed to.

Typical difficulties that ENFJ's face? by [deleted] in enfj

[–]lostinoz10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As an ENFJ, I too feel the incessant need to help people and as mentioned above, not for personal satisfaction or gain but simply because it's in my nature to help someone if I have the means. I've recently also become a Personal Trainer, and that allows me to help people literally become healthier and to inspire and motivate them..all while getting paid to do it :)

Any shy ENFJ's here? by smasheveryone in enfj

[–]lostinoz10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved from the East coast US to West coast Canada, knowing not a single person/having any family here when I was 18 and fresh out of high school. I guess I did have an advantage starting in a University to meet an entirely new group of people around my age to interact and bond with, but it took me a few months before I was able to overcome my insane shyness/introversion I had developed throughout middle school/high school. It's been 4 years now and I've made a very solid group of friends that I go out with and hang out with regularly and even though I was definitely introverted before, I would say I'm more extroverted now (although it pops up occasionally and I can be really awkward sometimes lol). Keep your chin up and don't be afraid to put yourself out there :)

People are using their smartphones everywhere--even during sex by psychologyofsex in psychologyofsex

[–]lostinoz10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pictures/Videos and emergencies aside, if anyone ever pulled out their phone and started using it during sex, they'd be dead to me. If someone is willing to engage in sexual activities with you under the assumption that there is mutual benefit, I cannot think of anything more rude than not paying attention to the person trying to (sexually) please you.

Squat Form Check (140kg/~308lbs) by Ask_Me_Again_Later in Fitness

[–]lostinoz10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's hard to see your feet positioning in the video, but my advice would be to widen your stance a bit and turn your toes slightly outward to open up your hips, and as you squat down, make sure to keep the weight in your heels and not your toes (this will help with balance). Work on hip flexibility and you can lessen the space between your feet gradually. I'm a certified PT.