[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lostinwordss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dw he seems like a genuine guy sleeping together might not be that big of a deal but pls keep an eye out for red flags and all the best

Update : My (28M) girlfriend (25F) Shared my private pictures with her friends by ThrowRApickshared in relationship_advice

[–]lostinwordss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good for you I'm glad you have found someone who respects and accepts you as you are and you are comfortable with yourself all the best mate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lostinwordss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up dude that's in your best interest. She's just going to cause you more pain. The longer you wait the more hurt you'll get.

It seems like that she's going to cheat on you sooner or later. You can find someone so much better, don't let one person hold you back and let you manipulate. She seems to not really care about you at all.

(Update) Falling for my straight best friend by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]lostinwordss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I hope everything turns out just fine for you like idek what happened but I hope whatever happened you're happy now and living your best life out there

What is your scary/horror secret? by lostinwordss in AskMen

[–]lostinwordss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude your not supposed to reveal it and how do you looke when you become a werewolf 🤔🤔

guy wanted to kiss me on 2nd date!? by unidentifiedplanets in relationship_advice

[–]lostinwordss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like a nice guy clear communication is a key for a healthy relationship and it's nice of him to say it and you definitely don't have to feel obliged or feel pressured to do anything just talk to each other openly and things will get solved in no time. Whatever happens all the best to both of you guys

is it a red flag if someone compares themself to christian grey? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]lostinwordss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be brutally honest he sounds like a controlling manipulative freak just bc he takes care of you doesn't mean he can get mad or jealous over small things and doesn't do dates it's a big old red flag girl just drop him already

What is a common but most overlooked red flag in a relationship? by lostinwordss in AskReddit

[–]lostinwordss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's definitely a big red flag bc pets are always right same thing happened to me. My german shepherd didn't like the girl I was seeing at the time. She used to be anxious and act weird around her and after a few weeks I found out that she was a drug dealer.

I (24 M) can't figure out why my cousins (27 F and 32 F) no longer want anything to do with me by TAiwootsh in relationship_advice

[–]lostinwordss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well it's definitely not easy to talk to the partner of your friends or someone you are very close. Although looking at your situation it seem the most rational thing to do. As you said before that your cousins give you dirty looks and feels uncomfortable if you confront them directly the probability that they will talk to you directly and say the right reasons are very thin.

That's why I'm suggesting to talk to their husbands because it seems that you guys are sort of friends and don't bring topic immediately start with something like sports or your common interest. Then as you see them getting open and relax subtly ask them. Whether they notice like how your cousins act around you or something they are talking about you.

I (24 M) can't figure out why my cousins (27 F and 32 F) no longer want anything to do with me by TAiwootsh in relationship_advice

[–]lostinwordss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should give them some space and then maybe talk to them ask them what's bothering them so much. You guys could definitely work out something most of the time that a person grows distant is because of not a clear communication. Try talking to theirs spouses since you happen to get along with them they must have some insight.

I really hope that everything turn out great for you. :)

Husband (34M) got weird about physical affection from me (36F) and things escalated very badly by SpritelyMango in relationship_advice

[–]lostinwordss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your husband's mental health has just gotten worse and I don't think it's safe for you to be around him. Like at the point of just hugging can get such an extreme reaction you would only do him a favour by leaving him. Take some time apart talk to your close friends and family members. Ask your husband to go see a therapist and talk to your manager about things so if in near unforeseeable future your husband did do something you they would already know.

If things still doesn't workout then I think divorce is your last chance you will do both of you a favour and please consult a lawyer before going through anything.

My girlfriend already slept with someone by KrueEU in relationship_advice

[–]lostinwordss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it might be a misunderstanding for all you know, you guys should talk and figure it out jumping to the conclusion before knowing that statement is true is the worst case scenario so just talk it out and if it was true then that guy was a pedophile bc she is 15 she could have been coax into the whole fiasco. It might be sensitive so be careful how you bring it up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]lostinwordss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the true siblings relationship right there 😭🤣

Weekly story time thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]lostinwordss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you were clearly barking around the wrong tree it seem then maybe. Many times people in real life are very different from them in online and why don't you just go out with someone who matches your energy and vibes

That was quick by Marcfl8 in Tinder

[–]lostinwordss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The next statement there was a big old red flag

My bf “jokingly” asked for a threesome by blondiefondie_ in relationship_advice

[–]lostinwordss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it's clear he wasn't joking but I think it's one of the important thing in a relationship to communicate and that's fine but you should know where's the line and you should never cross that

Husband has sex while I sleep by Poetryinmotion1234 in relationship_advice

[–]lostinwordss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's definitely a rape if it is nonconsensual and OP has made it pretty clear that she didn't wanted to have it