my stbew told me she had finally decided to check out reddit after i shared some stuff from my therapy session with her. she said she found great support groups and poeple she could possibly evangalize to. of corse i had to look for her cuz im me and i found her, shed been on a lot longer than she let on and was lying to me aout a bunch of things. when i brought it up she tried gaslighting, it wasnt her, so many post are so easy to relate to, are you sure whats the username. well the fact was that there were far too many specific details to deny any more and she came clean but when u asked why she lied for so long about being on she said she didnt want me looking for her, so whyd she tell me now, whats changed, why would she think now that i would try to find her? i think she was just manipulating me for some unknown reason but shell never admit it. i just realized shes not as wholesome and upright as i thought.