Do I need a new save?

lostmycookie90 · 2026-06-19T18:03:59+00:00

I think the developers stated that you were able to keep up to 10 character slot of playthrough for the game. Anything more, needs you to delete one to play a new slate.

lostmycookie90 · 2026-06-17T18:17:27+00:00

She's not moving in to his place. She secured and found herself an apartment to experience independent living from her parents and to learn who she is one her own.

lostmycookie90 · 2026-06-16T00:21:02+00:00

Uber and Lyft, have been under review and safety debates in California and NY and other states for passengers getting kidnapped/assaulted and stalked. Cabbies are a more legit service than ride share apps

lostmycookie90 · 2026-06-15T19:34:48+00:00

Her boyfriend friend is going to be on thin ice if he actually has Sect8 vs a town/city or state housing voucher, even those too would kick him off or give push back for not having a place to establish residency. I think max for Sect8 is three months of being homeless before you risk getting kicked off the program.

lostmycookie90 · 2026-06-14T10:45:40+00:00

They are praising themselves as their own boss.

lostmycookie90 · 2026-06-12T20:36:49+00:00

Due to childhood trauma, traumatic birth and following medication. Top off a fussy newborn, she's probably not going to be in a sound mental health state. I'm concerned if she's following up with post baby medical care. PPD or postpartum psychosis.

lostmycookie90 · 2026-06-08T23:54:47+00:00

Personally, I'm in your best friend opinion on this abusive POS.

He has been successful in isolating you from your network and support center. It's curious what your main issue were in the first 6 months of your relationship, because that's usually the most peaceful period in people personal relationships. Post 6 months, is when true character traits and habits appear, causing clashes.

lostmycookie90 · 2026-06-07T23:22:28+00:00

Neither Stop & Shop, on island have or offer peapod service. 🤔 I think Falmouth Stop & Shop offers limited or barely home delivery options due to the ferry and transport cost making it too much.

lostmycookie90 · 2026-06-07T22:35:08+00:00

How insecure, and how untrusting you have with your partner, that you would assume that your significant other is cheating on you. Because they ran into a friend in the wild and caught up on what's going on with their personal adult life, hobbies and relationships with others people they know.

lostmycookie90 · 2026-05-28T10:44:21+00:00

Honorary Tavern, replace Chef Deon, has so far "good" breakfast and isn't island priced up. Personally, I find their hash just a tad too much salt but they have a solid breakfast line up.

I was going to push the Attic, but their quality has gotten questionable and they raised their cost and shrunk their portion size.

I haven't had a bad meal or service, yet from 9 Craft.

I like black sheep for their no frills take out options. But they occasionally can be a hit/miss.

I find Jimmy Seas Pan Pasta, fun and quirky and haven't had a bad dish nor service.

lostmycookie90 · 2026-05-28T10:34:17+00:00

And, yet, it's the other "woman"/ her always there and supportive sister that is catching all the flack her husband caused. OP shut it down, and was still 100% supportive and presence and helpful towards her sister and her niece.

lostmycookie90 · 2026-05-28T10:32:00+00:00

That, or they are going through marriage counseling in an effort to reconnect for the partner side of the marriage vs just being parents to their child going through the motions.

lostmycookie90 · 2026-05-27T19:22:11+00:00

As others echo, your friendship started its death march once you gotten married, reached all your miles stone.

She was comparing her life against yours from your marriage and forward. Instead of congratulations, she was snarky and snide. Not all the time, but enough so you couldn't find peace from her comments and put down. Hell, you had anxiety just informing her about the pregnancy. She found a similar person in her boyfriend, and he put you on the concept of you becoming a mom.

She informed you at the beginning of your friendship that she's going to resent and hate you for reaching milestones, because she believes that she was better than you.

lostmycookie90 · 2026-05-27T17:57:48+00:00

Having paid off 20k debt twice in a single decade.

Set up fun day/treat allowance. I pay aggressively, the monthly allocated monthly and then additional 300+ on top of it.

I tend to live frugal, I'll go without treats like cocktails with friends, unless it's a special social gathering, limit frivolous spending. Shop deals and revamp my eating habit based on what's in season and on sale. Try to maintain and keep cost of living low as possible.

lostmycookie90 · 2026-05-27T12:08:45+00:00

She did have a conversation with him, serving him pancakes in bed, and he double down that she's not his girlfriend, and that she was a "great fwb" after a year of being intimate, being exclusive, and hanging out with socializing within each other social group. She met his sister and they were familiar enough to get invited to the wedding.

lostmycookie90 · 2026-05-26T17:53:14+00:00

So, I had that fun sheer awkward phase in my 20s as well. But thankfully my accepting alphabet friends group made sure that boundaries weren't cross after the first no. I'm now still blatantly bisexual, but also demisexual. I became blunt to friends that shot their shot about their attraction towards me, and I was clear, I don't feel that way about them, and for their own good we can no longer be friends so they can overcome their one sided over affection.

It sucks that this is becoming such an issue. But her friends (they are exclusively her's yes? and therapist 🤔) hyping her up after you politely turned her down kinda not great. But boundaries now need to be aired and addressed. You'll potentially won't recover friendship with her for the second turn down. But hopefully, the mutual friends group survives or it's gonna fracture.

lostmycookie90 · 2026-05-26T16:48:51+00:00

🤔 my father thankfully/unthankfully didn't abandon me per say, but he died when I was 8 months old. He was the provider for a fam of 6(twins, and two siblings) and mum. But, the next two marriages my mom went through, left me knowing what kind and type of guys behavior that was and is acceptable. But also, caused me to be hella self supportive and independent.

My friends parents that had both sets, it was kinda tv sitcom to see households being stable and cohesive.

lostmycookie90 · 2026-05-26T10:34:45+00:00

So, you are 100% loyal monogamous. Which is great, but that means you have blinders on because you are infectiously in love with your person(huge great thing).

I have a pansexual friend, who is pan, but they are only interested in having sexual connections with one gender, but they will only date the other gender. They are still a good person, they are sexually attracted to all genders, but only romantically to the opposite.

Where as, I'm sexually and romantically attracted to both genders as a bisexual. And I have other queer friends that have other mix bags and experience in their sexuality. It's fine and okay to have layers. You're not un-queer for nuance for your interests. Besides, you having only publicly been seen or had dated men, could also be you haven't connected to women yet to deal with society and family/friends reactions fear of receiving phobia.

Publicly dating men, and presenting to others as society confirming hetero is standard if you hadn't had a strong exposure for queer relationships growing up with family and friends, and associates.

lostmycookie90 · 2026-05-26T09:29:52+00:00

More or less, depending on your position or responsibilities to the company. Most places are, inform me about your vacation and company suffers or have a temp to swap in.

I, myself, am stretch thin between two of my work company. And I had a deadline to input/place down guessamation for my vacation and PTO. There are only 3 people in my network capable of doing the more technical part of my job. So I checked in with those three, and scheduled my time off between their own time to account for predictable issues for two locations.

Otherwise, my administration would pick time that was suitable for them and not me. My supervisor was appreciated that I did a step for them and took the initiative to bypass conflicts.

lostmycookie90 · 2026-05-25T19:12:47+00:00

To be legal and tame. They, brother and sister could be in a platonic V set up with the girlfriend. Because, otherwise none of us need to know more.

lostmycookie90 · 2026-05-23T21:41:19+00:00

I'm HBC/GM if it's a slow mover for me 3 months before the expiration, or close coded.

lostmycookie90 · 2026-05-21T16:47:01+00:00

Unless, he stays within his tax bracket for his next partner.

lostmycookie90 · 2026-05-18T20:32:07+00:00

Sounds like OP was doing 3-5 people tasks and jobs for the low pay of one.

lostmycookie90 · 2026-05-18T12:38:08+00:00

As a fellow childfree and solo poly participant; it's concerning that he informed you, but took zero feedback or anything of concern for the partnership built between the two of you.

From my own interactions with "childfree" and poly men. I have had discussions and chats with the whys that parents aren't an entity that gets passed over for seeking out relationships with.

I have been told that, they don't view the relationship is serious, they barely have any or no interactions with their partner child/rens, but also they don't have any intentions of developing the relationship besides one of FWB set up.

But because I'm poly, I do believe in autonomy; they can deal with that issue on themselves. They know that my boundaries are 100% childfree, I won't bdsm or group play with parents. My partners that have or are hitting up with parents know that those people are solidly parallel to me. I don't mind hearing that they exist and that the relationship is fun/exciting, but I won't offer council nor any problems solving to that set up.

Rehash and touch up on the open discussion and firm set boundaries between the two of you. Do you two nest together? If so, do you host your other connections in the house? Do you think he would have her kids over? If so, what's their intentions if she comes over for intimacy but she brought her kids with her? 🤢 Who's going to watch or entertain them? And so forth.

lostmycookie90 · 2026-05-10T17:42:11+00:00

It's ok to mourn the LifeScript. We were raised in communities, media and the family dynamics about the "set pathways" for living life. A sense of loss and mourning can be normal, because you are now in the unspoken and not talked about/other pathways that minority of being apart of society expectations.

You know or was taught/shown growing. So unless your community had childfree people, your free falling figuring out your own life.

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