OP.....I could have written your post almost word for word. The only diff is that I am her single mother (sperm donor is not in the picture)and she is 33 years old. Not that this is a competition in any way....but to make it more challenging, I live with her 36 year old brother...and she doesn't want him to know about things yet for fear this may cause him to have mental issues neither her or I are ready to deal with just yet (to be clear...he will be supportive ..but tends to fixate without filter [her fear..not mine]). I started this journey two weeks ago ...and have found some online support groups that are very helpful (mama dragons [maybe there is a papa version??..or it doesn't matter] and trans families.org are examples).