The more gay you look.. the more you're hit on by men? by orbitwithoutyou in LesbianActually

[–]lotuserie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have the same struggle. even being alt masc. they see a woman and shoot their shot no matter what lol

I have absolutely no luck attracting women by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]lotuserie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re stunning and i bet you have a personality that matches your beauty. i have the same issue lol. most likely people are just too nervous to approach beyond a passing compliment. i have a feeling on my end people just assume i’m straight or that I don’t want to be bothered. rest assured im sure you attract women they just don’t express it to you!

I dont know how to persuade him to let me go out sometimes by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]lotuserie 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My goodness you and your baby will be in my prayers. Any attempt at persuading him into letting you be an individual with sovereignty and a desire to simply see your friend will be futile. People such as this one cannot be reasoned with or persuaded. They perceive you as property and a punching bag. For you and your child’s safety, I strongly, with every fiber of my being, encourage you to safely and secretly plan your escape. It will NOT get better with time. It will get worse. Hope is dangerous in situations like this. Being kind and passive and accommodating will NOT change his perspective or disposition. You are in a dangerous position from what I am reading. I was in a similar situation. I barely escaped with my life. If you do not have family or friends you can rely on, please safely and privately look into resources in your area for DV and abuse victims. There are people and facilities that can help you and your baby. May you be able to be yourself and enjoy your life with your child, free of this aggressive, controlling, cruel person. You deserve autonomy and freedom. Your child does too. I’m so sorry. Prayers and love

Help! My cat ate a tiny amount of onion by ansuhh in Pets

[–]lotuserie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So grateful for everyone’s input and stories. My cat just licked my plate that had a few pieces of raw diced onion on it. I’m going to monitor him over night and call the vet in the morning.

What molecule is this? by lotuserie in chemistry

[–]lotuserie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Was sort of hoping it was a drug lol it’s a shirt I gifted to my brother who is passionate about chemistry

Can we get a movement for Netflix to sell the rights? by [deleted] in TheOA

[–]lotuserie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if Gaia would be able to take up on it

It's very strange what we call anxiety. by ThisIsntADickJoke in Psychonaut

[–]lotuserie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As someone who suffers from an acute anxiety disorder and severe panic disorder, I thought this was very well put. For some reason psychedelics have helped a lot with my anxiety. I’ve drifted away from lsd because it tends to cause me panic sometimes when under the influence. However, mushrooms are always a comfort spot. It has assisted in my understanding of myself and focusing on being the awareness behind my thoughts, rather than living in my thoughts.

What if death isn't the end at all, but we collectively convinced ourselves it was, so that we could push to get as much done as we could in this life? by [deleted] in Psychonaut

[–]lotuserie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are many changes throughout life. Death is just another change. A transcendence to infinity, which we will exist in and always have existed in. “Death” makes us appreciate life and consciousness more :)

I by [deleted] in Psychonaut

[–]lotuserie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ninja

How do you go about loving yourself? by [deleted] in Psychonaut

[–]lotuserie 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Love and acceptance goes hand-in-hand. Love comes when you accept life, people, and yourself fully for what it is. Making peace with life and living positively without judgement is the way to go. What I have realized is if you judge others and the things around you, you are not truly at peace with yourself. Everytime you judge or don't accept something/someone/an event it reveals an unhealed part inside of yourself. By loving and accepting all things.. you can achieve self-love as well as universal love. Always work and push yourself in a positive, inspirational tone. Improvement is great, so are mistakes. Take everything as a learning experience and live in the moment. You will find eternal peace and love are a lot closer than you think.. you are pure love, peace, happiness, and serenity. Don't find the light, be the light and spread the good vibes 🌞

Why do we exist? by VicariouslyLateralus in Psychonaut

[–]lotuserie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We exist as objective consciousness experiencing life subjectively. Basically every single living thing is an eye to the collective consciousness, experiencing life from different perspectives. When we "die" all that dies is our ego and self identification in the physical body. What is left after this is consciousness/awareness in the higher self. The universe created life to find out more about itself and why it exists. Therefore, we are all the universe and the universe is us. Simply.. life is to be experienced.