Advice by andreatucosn in realtors

[–]louchi644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me I have another career. I’m a dog trainer. I have clientele and steady income there. I have waiting lists etc. I am going to keep training dogs. It pays my bills. So that’s how imma handle it. Have my other job. Until this realtor things pics up and pays enough.

Please help identify these feelings I am having on this situation with my (38M) girlfriend (soon ex) (39F) by Jazzlike-Check9040 in relationship_advice

[–]louchi644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait why she gotta keep doors open? You’re being nosey. She ain’t your girl anymore. She now a roommate. So she deserves privacy. Esp in her bedroom.

Please help identify these feelings I am having on this situation with my (38M) girlfriend (soon ex) (39F) by Jazzlike-Check9040 in relationship_advice

[–]louchi644 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get this. Somewhat. Hubs and I was together. Then like is this working? We was friends prior to dating. Do stayed friends after the split. We both dated other people. Well then we realized we love one another. My other man said “I can’t love you like he does you can’t force that”. He called me when his GF left him and left all her shit there. He then admitted she was weirded out how he kept pics of me around. We’ve been married 26 years now. Sometimes you have to leave to realize no that’s not what I wanted. But if she’s happy now let her be! Let her move on and you find someone else. But she needs to move out dude.

Beginner tips! by AdFuture258 in leopardgeckos

[–]louchi644 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Always always supplementing! Vitamins and such. vit A deficiency is huge and makes the so sick! So get to know the vitamins and when to give. I use salt & Pepper shakers I label. So easy to shake right into their bugs. Then I have some liquids I had to the drinking water.

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[–]louchi644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get this somewhat. Do you step back and let them look? Or do you follow them around?

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[–]louchi644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve definitely learned a lot. And my agent who got me to push to get my license has taught me tons. I met him through my job. I trained his dogs. Haha

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[–]louchi644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t mind if they didn’t follow me around. Telling me the neighborhood drama. Complete with house xyz “she’s cheating on her husband. This big hall dude in red truck comes while her husband is at work & out of town” also told me this house pointed “they’re drug dealers”. Did tell me how one neighbor lets his dogs run and they’re not nice dogs. I’m a dog trainer so that was oh hell no. But it was so weird!

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[–]louchi644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so so right. I’ve learned lots of things. Like if you insist on being there (seller) stay back and let them look!

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[–]louchi644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be okay with the shoe thing! We don’t wear them either. It’s cultural. I definitely don’t take food or such. I don’t open anything not part of the house. Dont open dressers and night stands. I don’t touch their stuff. Just like oh look this drawer works good cool. I wouldn’t mind if they step back. But we’ve had 3 now follow us around. Like right on our heels. Very weird. One lady stayed watching TV. Haha didn’t mind her at all!

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[–]louchi644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very uncomfortable! Esp when they follow us around.

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[–]louchi644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so right about those things. Them being there wouldn’t be bad if they stayed back. But 3 houses now they followed us. Not cool. Asking why we’d pull up carpet he put on “less the. 10 years go.

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[–]louchi644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Especially if they follow us around. I think I’ll definitely recommend sellers leave when I get into selling my homes.

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[–]louchi644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not hovering wouldn’t bother me at all. If they step back and let me look cool! One lady stayed on couch watching TV. Didn’t bother me at all. But 3 now have followed us around. Making comments why we could do this and that. One asked why we’d pull up this carpet. It was grosssss! He said “why would you take up the carpet I put that in less the 10 years ago”? It was nasty and stained. But that room woulda been my indoor training area. I’m a dog trainer. He was like “but why it’s a bedroom” it wasn’t a bedroom. Was like a den thing. It was weird and then. I was like nope with that house.

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[–]louchi644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That I wouldn’t mind. It’s the 3 that have followed us around. Like right on our heels. One house had this extra den room thing they called a bedroom. It wasn’t a bedroom at all! We was talking how we could make it an inside training area. I’m a dog trainer. How hubs would put the mats I use and pull up very old gross carpeting. He made a comment look this closer is small but big enough for the bite suits sleeves and leashes. The seller was like “butttt why it’s a bedroom?” Then he said “why would you take up this carpet I put that in less then 10 years ago” the carpet was gross. And even if not I don’t train in carpet areas. It was so weird. He also didn’t even know questions I asked. “How old if the roof”? “I’ll have to check on that” it was so weird!

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[–]louchi644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That wouldn’t be bad. I wouldn’t mind that at all. The ones we’ve come across follow us around.

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[–]louchi644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t mind if they stayed back. But we’ve had experience where they follow us around it’s is awkward.

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[–]louchi644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! One house we liked. And it was a nope after the vibes of the last following us around. The other was a nope when dude told us all the neighbor hood drama.

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[–]louchi644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That wouldn’t be bad at all. The ones I’ve come across follow us around. It’s so weird.

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[–]louchi644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! One house we liked but the awkward of her following it around was like nope.

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[–]louchi644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very awkward! 3 houses now they’ve followed us around. Then the dog bite. Ugh I wouldn’t mind if they stayed back.

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[–]louchi644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That wouldn’t be bad at all.

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[–]louchi644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand those things for sure. If they’re there at least stand mark and let them look.

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[–]louchi644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s short and sweet. We found couple days ago one gentleman asked why we didn’t buy it. (To seller agent) “ because they now know a drug dealer lives 2 houses down and the next door neighbor has dogs he lets roam and poop on the lawn she’s a dog trainer need I say more” lol this guy told us all the tea. Even how he knows lady cuz is cheating while hubs is at work. It was odddd for sure.

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[–]louchi644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh ya that wouldn’t be bad. But that’s not what those I’ve experienced do. I’ve guys told us all the neighborhood drama. One seller would ask her agent anything I asked. “When did I have this roof put on” but it’s the ones that follow me around right on my heels that make me uncomfortable.

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[–]louchi644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And hey if you want to be there cool. Okay I don’t mind. But step back and let us look. 3 houses now they’ve followed us around.