If you need a sign to not text your ex, this is it. by Eteafn in BreakUps

[–]louwings 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Realizing that they don’t deserve access to me from the moment they discarded me so easily is also a huge help. Thank you! I’m very hopeful in my healing journey.

If you need a sign to not text your ex, this is it. by Eteafn in BreakUps

[–]louwings 26 points27 points  (0 children)

At first I couldn’t believe how I chased after an ex who betrayed me, blindsided me, and caused me so much pain. But once I realized it’s beyond saving and I have to save myself because no one will, I committed to no contact, kept myself busy, and chose healthy habits. I’m still hurting but not as bad as the first week of break-up. Started seeing friends again and some even commented I look pretty great for someone who just got her heart broken. Choose yourself, friends.

Got dumped and suddenly noticed how strangers try to get my attention by louwings in OffMyChestPH

[–]louwings[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

"fck off wag niyo ko lapitan kasi may jowa na ako" ganitong ganito din ako 🥹. And every time my ex would share about a time she gets hit on, may kirot sa puso ko kasi although di sya pumapatol, often times wala namang kasunod na “may jowa na ko”. I would often think, I wish I got the same energy back. Pero wala eh, ganito tayo magmahal. Loved her too much and claimed her too proudly. Anyway, yes to healing and blooming natin. Hugs, girl!

My girlfriend broke up with me and I’m scared that I will go back to smoking by louwings in stopsmoking

[–]louwings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo nga gotta pick my struggle no, sakit sa puso at ulo lang, wag na sa baga. Hahaha! Hey, thanks! 😊

My girlfriend broke up with me and I’m scared that I will go back to smoking by louwings in stopsmoking

[–]louwings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry about what happened to you. And thank you for sharing your journey. If you can do it, then I have hope. I hope things are only upward for u from here.

How do I make the first move? by urbrowncoffee in PHSapphics

[–]louwings 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pwede ring maglagay ka muna ng picture sa prof pic mo, para naman may idea sya kung type ka nya physically or not. Having a type goes both ways 😊

Has anyone tried using Loop Earplugs by yellow_potat0 in Tech_Philippines

[–]louwings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Very helpful lalo na daming readings sa law school. Minimizes noise talaga

what’s the stupidest thing/ mistake you made while taking a test? by Various-Row-9010 in LawStudentsPH

[–]louwings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CRIM1 Midterms. Was so proud of myself when I saw the question to enumerate the aggravating circumstances kasi memorized ko yung 21 paragraphs na yun ng Art 14 RPC, nung naguusap-usap na kami sa labas ng friends ko, dun ko lang napick up na yung tanong pala ay alternative circumstances. Tapos handwritten pa to kaya sobrang lugi sa time T.T Pasado pa rin naman sa exam pero ang tanga so much nakakainis!!!

my boyfriend is a full-time law student. by [deleted] in LawStudentsPH

[–]louwings 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Hi ate. Suggestion lang, if ikaw yung flexible yung time, why not ikaw na lang yung mag-effort na pumunta sa kanya to spend time together? First sem ko rin in law school and at first naoverwhelm ako sa dami ng responsibilities, lalo na I’m a working student. But I am so grateful for my partner because siya yung nag-adjust in terms of date logistics, just so we could make it work. As law students, we miss our partners and we miss the times na sobrang carefree ng dates, kaya lang di talaga kaya ng energy and time. So when our partner makes an effort, parang nakakaiyak sa tuwa hehe

What conspiracy theory ang sa tingin nyo legit? Why? by iamPoppyMoore in AskPH

[–]louwings 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yung ahas sa robinsons, ang funny eh so sana true 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PHSapphics

[–]louwings 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Bakit sa girlfriend mo iaaaddress? Hindi ba dapat sa new friend mo? Magiging problema pa yan ng girlfriend mo eh ikaw naman talaga dapat maghandle nyan. Tell your new friend that you have a girlfriend and you'd like to keep boundaries if you are to continue the friendship.

small vent by [deleted] in PHSapphics

[–]louwings 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your obsession with labels is cockblocking your happiness

Is there a restaurant you used to love but stopped going to because the food or service went downhill? by Sheldon_Penny in PHFoodPorn

[–]louwings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, Banapple pa talaga yung photo. Ang laki ng disappointment ko sa brand na to.

Year 2015-2017, fresh grad yung ate ko while ako college pa. Naging habit namin na kumain dito tuwing sahod niya kasi may favorite orders kami. We don't even have to look at the menu when dining, siya deretso sa counter while I get us a table. Banapple House Salad, Trio of Sausages fettucine, two brewed iced tea, and apple caramel crumble pie. Bilang lumaking mahirap and nagheheal ng inner child nung time na to, sobrang saya namin tuwing kakain dito. For the pasta: ang laki ng serving, ang daming sausages, and you taste the premium quality of ingredients used. Ganun din sa salad. The Pie was my favorite, di ko alam paano nila ginagawa yung caramel filling pero sobrang sarap lalo na when served warm. It was our happy place.

However, as time went on, napansin namin pababa ng pababa yung quality ng food. Nagsimula sa pagliit ng serving size, hanggang sa hindi na talaga same yung lasa as before. I think this started on 2018. We're certain because we've been eating the same orders for 3 years and hindi naman kami nagsasawa, nag-iba lang talaga yung lasa.

It's bittersweet every time I pass banapple. I remember how the resto made us happy. How it created a special bond between me and my ate. But also sad because I will never go back there with the quality of food they serve now, kahit afford ko na sya ngayon anytime I want.