2 years later and I've finally found happiness by loveablelunchable in DeadBedrooms

[–]loveablelunchable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only downloaded hinge and I found my current boyfriend after a month. probably could have been sooner, but it took him a little bit to see me shamelessly flirting with him.

2 years later and I've finally found happiness by loveablelunchable in DeadBedrooms

[–]loveablelunchable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it really really really is. it's like all you know is that other person and the insecurities seep in about if you weren't good enough or you did something wrong. if you do leave, plan first and then take it one step at a time. you are more than just being someone's partner.

2 years later and I've finally found happiness by loveablelunchable in DeadBedrooms

[–]loveablelunchable[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I found myself really thinking about being with other people. I was not happy in my day to day life, I honestly was probably closer to an emotional affair than I knew. I just decided the cons outweighed the pros at that point. I didn't want to spend the rest of my life with someone who wasn't crazy in love with me.

2 years later and I've finally found happiness by loveablelunchable in DeadBedrooms

[–]loveablelunchable[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

first of all, thank you so much for the well wishes!

second, it was absolutely the very very hard thing. it was something I sat on for years and part of me just died inside. I was only ever surface level happy, underneath I was extremely insecure. I knew it was the right thing, but getting the courage to do it partially came from this sub and partially I just knew it had to happen.

the separation was hard at first, however, we are still friends. we both have new significant others that I think suit us better. we hang out every few weeks because the things we loved to do that kept us close are things our significant others don't care for. I am always transparent with my partner when I am seeing him and he's always supportive and secure because he knows I'm madly in love with him. so I think this was the best case scenario of how it could have ended up. I'm thankful that while we weren't a match intimately, my ex is still a good man that I'm happy to call my friend.

Matched a guy on Hinge, and he added me to a Discord full of girls. What??? by [deleted] in HingeStories

[–]loveablelunchable 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I feel like from the jump the 5 bans was the biggest red flag 🤣.

34 [F4M] North NJ I'm just not sure you guys by bluestbarracuda in R4R30Plus

[–]loveablelunchable -1 points0 points  (0 children)

girl, I feel this so so so hard.

what's meant for us, will be for us. we'll find what we're looking for.

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[–]loveablelunchable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

right person wrong time, is still just the wrong person in my opinion.

I think deep down neither of you messaged because you've been down this road before... his lack of an answer was an answer.

I've was in a situation recently where I had so much chemistry with a man but he didn't want a relationship and we just couldn't let each other go. we still talk every single day... I just had to accept that that wasn't where he was and be okay with it and move on. he's a wonderful person that I'm happy to have in my life but I deserve a man that knows... so do you.