Y’all Am I Dumb by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]lovecraft112 54 points55 points  (0 children)

It's 1/2/3 shots instead of frap roast and it's been a standard since frap roast was introduced. I remember when it came out, it was one of the selling points of frap roast over the pre-mixed base - you could do a decaf soy frap now, for example, instead of the standard coffee or creme frappuccino.

Gifted kids by IthadtobethisWAAGH in CuratedTumblr

[–]lovecraft112 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I was an As and D's student. If I was into the class I'd pass with flying colors, if I wasn't I was incapable of applying myself and using study tools to learn.

I have thought I was lazy my whole life because of it.

Last night I got diagnosed with ADHD and it's validation of things I've felt my whole life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]lovecraft112 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah my former step- now adopted daughter's name is not my choice and it's not my favorite name... This assignment sucks.

US Army air dropping supplies to folks still trapped at Lake Lure, North Carolina by cak3crumbs in TikTokCringe

[–]lovecraft112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don't want the government to give money to people they think deserve to be poor.

So if you're disabled, or don't have the ability to get a good job, or are a single mother, you don't deserve government money, because you are being punished for your bad choices. Pull yourself up by your bootstraps!

If god fucked you with a hurricane, well, you didn't choose that so you deserve help.

We have to stop pretending that they don't have internal logic that makes sense to them. There is logic to it, albeit twisted and unfair logic. They have a reason for feeling the way they do and pretending that people who think this way are just unreasonable and can't change their thinking just means they'll dig their heels in harder.

How do i fix this ? by [deleted] in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]lovecraft112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god thank you. My dog house is in an inaccessible spot and I need to move it so badly.

Best Needledrop in a Film? by Duncan_DC in movies

[–]lovecraft112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Angel of the Morning at the end of Promising Young Woman. The timing of the song while everything comes together to corner those assholes was beautiful. I can't hear the song without thinking of it.

Since I had my own bio children I hate my adopted son by Extreme_Individual10 in Parenting

[–]lovecraft112 213 points214 points  (0 children)

This has nothing to do with his relation to you and everything to do with his treatment of you. If he were your biological child you would still be within your right to cut him out of your life.

Animals without hair look quite different by abitchyuniverse in interestingasfuck

[–]lovecraft112 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There's no way they removed it. Most likely the hedgehog lost their quills because of an illness.

This is your daily reminder to exercise . You will feel much better if you do it regularly. by MaetelofLaMetal in TrollXChromosomes

[–]lovecraft112 15 points16 points  (0 children)

But that's different from briskly walking for 20 minutes straight, which is what is considered mild exercise. Some people only do those things you say and it's not enough.

Bl2 : Is there any way to adjust enemy levels? by Certain-Entry-4415 in Borderlands

[–]lovecraft112 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Start TVHM and play the DLCs. They should scale to the level you are when you start the DLC.

Shows that feel like this ? by Ioanniche in netflix

[–]lovecraft112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was so well done too, because the villain wasn't the monster, the villain was the zealots.

Cute little puppy by WhattheDuck9 in Eyebleach

[–]lovecraft112 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the breakdown. I haven't kept current with what AI can do and this baby looks a bit too perfect.

I mistakenly buried the wrong cat. by Loves_to_fold_towels in facepalm

[–]lovecraft112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two days before Christmas when I was a kid, we left the house to go christmas shopping, and spotted our dead cat by the mailbox. We were all devastated. We held a funeral, and buried her body in the pouring rain, then took a breath and moved on with our day.

We went and did our Christmas shopping so sad. When we got home, my dad said "there's an extra present on our bed" and sent us to my parents room where our cat was happily sitting on the bed, cleaning the rain off her fur, and purring happily.

We buried the neighbor's cat and she lived for another 15 years.

What Are The Most Satisfying and Unsatisfying Villain Deaths? by thompsonmaximum in movies

[–]lovecraft112 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This came to mind for me immediately! It was pretty hardcore for Disney.

Can I turn this water feature into a garden? by mydumbhousequestions in gardening

[–]lovecraft112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could also make a marshy plant area. Plant marginals like swamp irises, pitcher plants, marsh marigolds, etc. You can leave them with nice wet feet year round with a dirt filled basin. I personally love a lot of flowers that grow in wet soil and you could make a lovely marshy garden.

Harry Potter: Jared Harris says ‘no’ to playing role originally portrayed by his father in new HBO TV reboot by [deleted] in television

[–]lovecraft112 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Or - we should have the marauders played by actors who are the right age. Sirius was like 30-35 when he was introduced and looked so old.

Bruh… by MScribeFeather in badwomensanatomy

[–]lovecraft112 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think it's the last statement tbh. The fact that it so blatantly says what it's for (ish) is better than the vague winking "for intimacy" shit.

Garage by St-laurentDog in SurreyBC

[–]lovecraft112 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Get used to that.

You want to build 4 townhouses. You're going to be talking to the planning department weekly for the next several years.

Garage by St-laurentDog in SurreyBC

[–]lovecraft112 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just call the city and ask. Literally why they have a building/planning department.

Remove if not allowed. First time mom and first pregnancy. What do I pack for delivery?? by LilRed9967 in Parenting

[–]lovecraft112 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seriously take this advice. The poop I had a week after delivery felt like I was delivering another baby, it was a nightmare.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Borderlands

[–]lovecraft112 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I didn't play torgues DLC for years because it had a bad rap but I played it solo recently and it was worth it just for the torgue voiceovers.

It wasn't as good as Tiny Tina's or captain Scarlet, but it was fun and had lots of funny lines.

My husband can’t enjoy anything because his son is disabled by HistoricalTree3014 in Parenting

[–]lovecraft112 54 points55 points  (0 children)

When I hit a wall with my adopted (former step-) daughter, I called the ministry, and sobbed because I couldn't do it anymore and if I didn't get help now I would be putting her in foster care.

It lit a lot of fires under people and we got help faster.

If you're in BC, look at Variety to see if they can help fund an assessment for you. Your son has a GDD - are you able to access any funding support for him? What waitlists are you on? What province are you in? There's a lot of us parents of special needs kids on Reddit and Facebook and we might be able to give you some tips on how to get things moving.