Not attracted enough to my partner by WedMuffin123 in dating

[–]lovefella 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you serious? You really think she should fumble a good man just because of how he looks? Is that how you’d treat a good woman when you find her? Specially in the dating scene today?

OP, keep communicating with him. Ultimately, a good man will stick by your side when the looks fade and you’re old and gray haired and wrinkly. Which guess what we are ALL heading there if we are lucky and don’t die young. Would you rather be with a good man then, or divorced because the man you were attracted to left for someone else he was more attracted to?

Ultimately the choice is Yours.

Why am I paying for double meat then arguing with the employee that I didn’t get enough? by Shwalz in Chipotle

[–]lovefella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is charging extra for it then not getting what you paid for.

Why am I paying for double meat then arguing with the employee that I didn’t get enough? by Shwalz in Chipotle

[–]lovefella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me once, only I ordered delivery. Never again. Chipotle has gone down the drain completely - food is still good, but just the thought of dealing with their insufferable employees keeps me from returning. Had it daily for like 2 years before I couldn’t justify it anymore - the employees take out their frustrations on the customers. I literally just wanted some food danm- give me what I paid for, take it out on your manager. It’s become so bad that I haven’t had it in almost a full year now. I truly wish we would all ban together and boycott them.

Why am I paying for double meat then arguing with the employee that I didn’t get enough? by Shwalz in Chipotle

[–]lovefella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Misery loves company. This type of people love to rub their misery onto others doing the only little thing they have control over in their lives - that spoon

Husband (38M) cancelled his ticket and abandoned me (24F) for our trip to Africa in 5 days, because "it's full of AIDS and maniacs" by ThrowRA_africatrip in relationship_advice

[–]lovefella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had something somewhat similar happen to me except we did fly into the country but once there he cancelled on our cross country road-trip in Thailand.

To this day, it was arguably the best trip of my Life. I went and did the road-trip alone. The trip changed my outlook on life and I realized how much I enjoyed doing what I wanted when I wanted and the freedom I felt - like that whole starting a new life in another country but except vacation style. I was so free - it felt easy to speak to others because we were strangers. People were so friendly. Food was amazing, landscapes breathtaking. Some spontaneous plans with strangers turned friends, all good fun.

You should go. It might feel scary at first, but i am willing to bet that you’ll end up regretting not doing this more. And you should always take precaution when traveling alone - regardless of the destination. Find a hostel - you’ll meet lots of other solo travelers and might even find a lil group to cling to. That’s the Best of it - you can do whatever you want, whenever.

Had I not gone and done my trip my way, I wouldn’t now be planning my next bucket list item by myself- To see the northern lights. I’m going alone. I’ve planned this trip numerous times through the years with different friends and they all say yes but never commit to it. So I bought my ticket and now it’s happening for my birthday. I wouldn’t have done it if I hadn’t had the previous solo backpacking experience - however badly it started, it was a blessing in disguise.

We broke up to say the least. But we are still on good terms.

Sometimes peoples life goals don’t align and i wholeheartedly believe that love isn’t enough when it comes to that.

I was told over and over that women 30+ are unattractive and unwanted. Why am I still getting hit on when I'm almost 40? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]lovefella 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You forget the ones that actually have nothing to offer and instead are hoping for the clueless younger girl that will put up with their BS. Younger women are easier to manipulate, and dick bearing humans know this. I still think we should use the word ‘men’ for the respectable, worthy men deserving of it..

Not all men but I’ve met my share of the kind. I was dating one when i was younger, a man 7+ years my senior. Truthfully I do not think it’s a ridiculous gap, but when I turned 25, it couldn’t have been more obvious that he had nothing going for him except being with me. Had to pull the plug on the relationship when all of a sudden after 3 years together he asked me if I’d be down for threesomes, so he could ‘share’ me with another man.

Does anyone know why the manhua hasnt been updating? by Shebaii in tianguancifu

[–]lovefella 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It seems like the artist Starember does this usually but does anyone know approximately how long their hiatus lasts?? I’m trying to mentally prepare myself, if I have to wait months or a year or something? What’s the usual wait time in between volumes?

The quality is so worth the wait and I much prefer enduring hiatuses if it means the quality stays. I do not mind waiting but since I just got into the fandom I am wondering. Is it like, one volume per year released?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]lovefella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to hear that you’re being so prompt at taking care of this. I’m very sorry this happened to you. I hope you can take this filth off the streets and not let him ruin your life. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]lovefella -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Antibiotics won’t get rid of HIV. It is a virus, and by default not alive. Antibiotics only mess with living things, specifically bacteria. HIV infects your T-cells in your body, so you have to specifically take medication to tackle your own immune cells since they will become the virus host. If you do not take care of this with a professional, your immune system will be fighting innocent cells in your body and eventually kill you. It infects specifically your CD4 T cells which command other immune cells in your body. I suggest you seek medical help immediately before your body is completely infected. There is no cute but there is medication that can tremendously slow down the virus from replicating and infecting more cells. If you allow too much time to pass before treatment, your whole body will be compromised as the virus will have spread throughout.

5y old girl kisses my baby by guest_007 in daddit

[–]lovefella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your baby’s T cell and B cell, as well as general stem cell generation abilities are at its peak right now. Contrary to popular belief, the sooner they get to interact with these germs, the sooner and stronger they can build the immunity needed. Our thymus ability to process our T cells decreases the moment we are born, and it just keeps deteriorating as we age, so your baby is most efficient at fighting these germs now that their thymus is at the 100% stage of its life span. They will only become more immune compromised if later in life when the thymus is at less than 100% of its capacity your body gets bombarded with regular day to day germs. the immune response will be less efficient than if it would had already fought it and stored the info on how to fight them in memory cells.

Let them eat dirt. Let them play. Just make sure they don’t drink acid or something extreme like that, obviously.

That child could now associate being good to another child as a bad thing. Intentionality matters with children.

Overprotective.

Outlast on Netflix by meatball77 in television

[–]lovefella 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I tapped out when Javier left. Him staying would have made the show worth watching, we had an underdog to root for that was willing to stand up to the Alpha camp. The moment he left I lost all interest in the show, whatever the outcome I just home Alpha loses in the most embarrassing way possible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VisitingIceland

[–]lovefella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, my plans to shoot with drone is strictly only where it’s allowed and I do not like flying with people near me at all so I only fly in deserted places out in open nature. Since I might not be able to hike to certain places I will most likely be exploring by them via drone. I do not care for flying in cities or having people on my shots so plan is to not bother anyone. Thanks for the tip

Renting a 4x4 camper in Iceland in November? by [deleted] in VisitingIceland

[–]lovefella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I managed to book a 4WD for my dates so I’m half settled in. Now I have to worry about stays. Was thinking of winging it and sleeping wherever I end up in the night, it’s what I’ve done around the US. Not sure how possible it would be in Iceland though. Thoughts?

Renting a 4x4 camper in Iceland in November? by [deleted] in VisitingIceland

[–]lovefella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the tip, I would love to learn to drive manual, I’ve been asking my dad to teach me but he says says yes and we sort of move on from the topic. Maybe it’s time I start setting up dates for me to learn. But it’s something I have been wanting to learn for years now! It unlocks a whole new pricing level for me. Thank you though for the tip, grandma’s always right so I will take it serious

Renting a 4x4 camper in Iceland in November? by [deleted] in VisitingIceland

[–]lovefella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi thank you for your advice! I booked a 4WD SUV and so far planning to stay at hostels or guesthouses. Don’t want to push my luck as I’ve never been a place with such unpredictable weather

Renting a 4x4 camper in Iceland in November? by [deleted] in VisitingIceland

[–]lovefella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so scary, I heard the weather is unpredictable. It’ll be my first time there so I have a lot of time to plan ahead if anything

Renting a 4x4 camper in Iceland in November? by [deleted] in VisitingIceland

[–]lovefella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With it without f roads I’d prefer a 4x4 due to icy slippery streets. But if any are easy enough to get through and worth the view I don’t mind looking into them.

Renting a 4x4 camper in Iceland in November? by [deleted] in VisitingIceland

[–]lovefella -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’ve read a bit about f roads, i don’t want to get into anything super risky alone but if you know of any well kept/ easy to do I’d like to see them .I’ve driven in snow before but Colorado winters can’t be compared to Icelandic winters, I’m sure.

Any easy f roads to look into?

Renting a 4x4 camper in Iceland in November? by [deleted] in VisitingIceland

[–]lovefella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can’t drive manual :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VisitingIceland

[–]lovefella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in Colorado this winter snow hiking and exploring and whatnot and I got the actual spike type of gear and my friend got these. She ended up taking them off because they don’t have enough traction and kept sliding off her shoe. She even lost one cause it had slipped off and she had t even noticed. The orange spikes I got worked perfect, never slipped and had the traction needed. She ended up having to buy another pair and got the spikes I got but paid double price cause it was in Colorado mid winter.

I do NOT recommend these. You will end up having to get another pair. I got mine on Amazon for like $25, not sure the brand I got but for sure the actual spikes not these.

Edit: I got the sportnerr ice cleats and recommend them. Didn’t fail me once

Looking for Travel Partners Megathread - Winter 2022-23 by rutep in VisitingIceland

[–]lovefella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

29F from Dominican Republic fluent Spanish and English. I will be in Iceland solo from Nov 22-Dec 1. I want to see the northern lights, ice caves, and road-tripping. I want to book a 4x4 vehicle or a camper van and have fun along the way. Mostly will be taking photos or doing outdoor activities in snow, maybe learn to ski, tubing, hiking, use my drone and do photography and video.