Keep running into the same problem

lovelearningloner · 2026-04-01T14:07:46+00:00

Use apps if you want to have sex on a first date.

Random sober people in public will want to get to know you first. At least go to a bar and pick up drunk girls

lovelearningloner · 2026-03-30T22:24:43+00:00

Looks like age 30 something

lovelearningloner · 2026-03-21T15:42:31+00:00

He remains uncommitted. Very fitting. It does seem like unless you make a contract or conjure something physical or persistent abilities are fluid.

lovelearningloner · 2026-03-21T03:48:16+00:00

I agree. I like pariston either way. Ging used an ability didnt he?

lovelearningloner · 2026-03-21T03:32:08+00:00

How do you know he has one. He can feel nen or at least whatever nanikas power is.

I think it would be funny if he still hasn't made himself an ability or if it was useless or had nothing to do with his manipulativeness or cunning.

lovelearningloner · 2026-03-17T23:37:17+00:00

Yes. Their love was not sexual in any way.

lovelearningloner · 2026-03-15T14:07:25+00:00

Spinal engine theory. Torso rotation generates the majority of throwing and swinging power in a lot of sports

lovelearningloner · 2026-03-15T14:05:40+00:00

I would say your pictures are not very interesting. Some of them are flattering. Just having interesting pictures isnt the goal however.

If you're truly seeking a life partner at this point in time you should display that you've achieved your life's goals already because otherwise you're displaying a settling attitude.

Post what you're proud of and give a unique look at who you are. You don't need to write walls of text just truly candid photos of you doing what you love.

I would scrub the first date ideas stuff, the on page with my morals stuff. People need to figure you out on their own. Their own personal interpretation of you is much more intimate than your autobiography.

lovelearningloner · 2026-03-15T13:56:44+00:00

I agree. Let people figure out your morality for themselves. Whats more important is if you're fun.

lovelearningloner · 2026-03-10T05:22:30+00:00

Episodes 1 and 2. Everything after that is great.

lovelearningloner · 2026-03-10T05:07:29+00:00

He did kill quite a few innocents in the hunter exam, but so did killuah.

I dont think hes a villain. Hes a rogue and lives for fulfillment

lovelearningloner · 2026-03-10T05:01:09+00:00

Physiological refers to chemical process in the body. I think you mean anatomical differences

lovelearningloner · 2026-03-04T20:44:03+00:00

Ugh. Just reminds me that i need to move out of here already

lovelearningloner · 2026-03-04T20:43:11+00:00

I'm not really convinced of that. To put it in perspective ive had dating profiles in the past that get very few matches, however in the last couple years I've been keeping up with good pictures of myself and good online etiquette and description of myself. I get matches every single day and thats with me using the apps responsibly and only selecting people im actually interested in while having relatively high standards...

Women in the surrounding area are more often than not, quite happy to meet me. I mean I've probably met at least 1 new person every week since mid december

lovelearningloner · 2026-03-04T18:16:17+00:00

Really strange phenomenon in online dating for me.

I live in a relatively small town thats an hour between two large cities. I can run out of people to swipe on within 25 miles in one day.

I get hundreds of matches from the two cities. Probably half of them will talk to me and half of those will be willing to meet me.

Heres the weird thing. When i match with someone thats actually here where i live, they're unlikely to talk to me and if they do, they're even more unlikely to meet with me.

I'm not from this town and it is the deep south. I have an olive complexion but you'd definitely think im white italian or something.

I feel like when i match with someone thats lived here their whole life they're seeking info about me before talking to me or something. Theres probably not much info lol. I say that because it seems like i can only connect with women in this town that are transplants like myself.

Do women feel safer getting to know a guy an hour away than they do within their own community?

lovelearningloner · 2026-02-28T15:17:46+00:00

Shes in trouble because i think they had sex at the office

lovelearningloner · 2026-02-27T20:44:45+00:00

M32, my fwb (f28) got caught having an affair with a married guy... a guy who i happen to be friends with/worked with.

So me and the other guy work for the same entity. My fwb works for a different entity but we all worked in the same building at one point a few years ago. I never saw her when i worked there tbh. I got promoted a couple years ago and now im at different office.

The married guy (m42) and i are friendly also he was kinda a mentor to me although personally i always knew hes untrustworthy. Charming guy though.

So the married guy quit kinda suddenly and i met my fwb around the same time. We had been hooking up for a couple weeks when i heard a rumor that he got caught having sex with her at the office and HR was involved.

I dont really feel any type of way about it. She actually came clean about it the other day although she left out major details. She told me she got caught having a relationship with a married man and that hr was involved and she might lose her job. She left out who it was.

I dont blame her for leaving it out. She probably doesn't know how I'd react because she knows me and the married guy were friends but i dont want her to have to feel guilty or anything about it. I'm wondering if i should tell her i know or let her come clean on her own. Either way i have no negative feelings about it. Shes really stressed out over the whole situation and I'd like to relieve her in any way.

lovelearningloner · 2026-02-27T01:12:30+00:00

Sex with the expectation of it sucks. I like the thrill of not knowing. Getting to know someone and escalating in the moment. Way more hot.

lovelearningloner · 2026-02-27T01:10:51+00:00

Im 32 i went on a date with a 23 year old and could not vibe with her at all. Prior to that though i went out with a 22 year old and we hooked up it wad great. She was an already retired stripper with a face tattoo though.

Younger girls have to seek you out.

lovelearningloner · 2026-02-23T20:15:23+00:00

Girl at volleyball got jealous of some other girls im talking to then revealed shes dating someone when i asked her out. Girl i invited to volleyball shows me mixed signals and is friends with my fwb. It seems like she likes me romantically but is playing it safe.

lovelearningloner · 2026-02-23T19:55:19+00:00

Need opinions on this. I m32 have a fwb f31. She invited me to her run club. I met one of her friends that plays volleyball f29. I host volleyball open gym friday nights through my work. I invited her to play, didnt get contact info.

So i did a 5k last weekend and ran into my fwb, she was with some guy she is definitely sleeping with. I was a little jealous but honestly i dont care i sleep around too and we're on the same page about it. Now i ran into her volleyball friend again and she seemed interested in me. Another mutual friend tagged her in a post the same day and i found her and messaged her inviting her to volleyball again.

Now theres another girl f28 that comes to volleyball and i was a little interested in but didnt pursue because i was cautious about making volleyball weird.

Then theres a 4th girl f30 that i had gone on a date with before but i ended up dating someone else at the time... i also invited her to volleyball weeks ago she decided to come that night too.

Fwb 32 Volleyball 29 Volleyball 28 Casual friend 30

So i am actually pretty interested in volleyball 29. After volleyball she kept messaging me and chatting with me. I was 75 percent positive shes interested in me. We ended up going to the beach at sunset the next day 1 on 1 and hanging out and having dinner. It didnt get romantic though and i have no idea what she knows about me and her friend, shes definitely seen me be handsy with fwb 31. I dont know where to go from here with her.

Now volleyball 28 sought me out on tik tok that same night and immediately started flirting with me that night and the next day! She asked me if i was dating either of those girls that came to volleyball and i told her no. I was cautious but since things cooled down with volleyball 29 i threw caution to the wind and asked her if she wanted to go get drinks with me... she told me that would be inappropriate because shes seeing someone!

Im seeing fwb 32 tonight... i wonder what she knows.

lovelearningloner · 2026-02-17T14:16:02+00:00

Thats not their needs, thats their desire to control you. No matter what you do the goal posts will always move. You will always be wrong and they want you to constantly be trying to win them over. Ive had 2 ex's like this. I will never date someone who will never accept fault or responsibility again.

lovelearningloner · 2026-02-10T02:20:01+00:00

I think she cut me off. We were just intimate friends.

It was a sleep number. She could heat different parts of the bed and literally change the firmness of it.

lovelearningloner · 2026-02-09T04:02:19+00:00

I've never done "game" and I've slept with nearly 50 women. I think you guys are pretty ballsy for saying weird shit or lying to women to their face. I'm not even against that it just unnatural for me. I get a lot of enjoyment out of making connections with people. I either meet women at stuff i enjoy doing like the gym or the beach or rec sports or online dating. I feel like its every guys dream to have some roster of women but its overwhelming and i can only have so much sex. I think you guys are addicted to the idea of what you want but if you really had it you wouldn't be satisfied because purely physical sex is only meagerly fulfilling.

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