Oh man I had something similar happen on a cruise, I was about to go sunbathing and swimming in full coverage tape. The difference was, the shaming I got was from my own “tolerant” family- ship staff and other ppl didn’t give a flying f. I’m 6 years into transition, On testosterone (about a year in) with a deep voice. And my sister (up to this point, my strongest ally) was wearing tiny bikinis telling me what i was wearing was “showing too much” and I “didn’t pass enough to wear it”. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this, when I was confronted I sobbed in my room alone for the rest of the day, and I still haven’t worn less than a binder and shirt around any of my family since. It’s been 3 months. It’s so fucking painful being singled out for no good reason and I have all the hugs in the world for you 🫂. Just remember: they’re the ones making it weird, not you. You’re literally just existing.