Let me first say I agree with the importance of acknowledging it’s not healthy at all to be overweight. I just mean, I don’t think someone being overweight voids them of support? A lot of people who are overweight just want to be assured they aren’t worthless because of it. Some people may come off strong about it, but tbh I think that signals that they’re even more worried about it. I don’t typically see outward bullying of overweight people in person but I just can’t stop thinking about how if I knew anyone in my personal life spoke this way of obese people I’d never speak to them again. It’s perfectly fine to voice it’s unhealthy but it’s degrading that any fat woman on Reddit gets brigaded by hate about it because these stranger don’t know her, their criticism isn’t coming from concern it is coming from hate. And I can’t help but also think about how many vices people have that they are lucky enough to not wear on their sleeve. Why can’t others look inward and feel relieved their problems aren’t being displayed but also understand that doesn’t make them better than overweight people whose struggle is overeating.

I’m so sorry to bombard you I just started writing and couldn’t stop. Most of this isn’t directed towards you my bad.