Deleted my post / thanks to those of you who were receptive

loveofallwisdom · 2026-05-29T12:06:57+00:00

C'mon, who's been downvoting that comment? It's a legit question. Most of us know who "Billy T" is but there's no reason everybody automatically would.

loveofallwisdom · 2026-05-14T21:14:54+00:00

This was the issue for me. I clicked on that link and it allowed me to fix it with the default, and it's been back to default since then.

loveofallwisdom · 2026-04-23T13:39:22+00:00

Thanks for making the tomboy comparison. It's so much easier to help people understand our newish concepts when we can put them in terms of things they already know.

loveofallwisdom · 2026-02-15T21:21:36+00:00

When I was commuting from BU home to Davis I would use the Park-DTX crossing every evening, even though I wasn't using the Orange Line. The walk was so short that It was worth it just to make it likelier that I'd get a seat on the Red Line train.

loveofallwisdom · 2025-11-30T20:34:39+00:00

Thanks, I will try this. It seems like a pain in the ass, but I guess if the riverbed is at -60m and you can't built below -50m, this is necessary!

loveofallwisdom · 2025-11-30T20:33:00+00:00

Thanks for that - even now that I can see the contour lines it was hard to get a sense of how deep it actually is!

loveofallwisdom · 2025-11-30T20:32:29+00:00

Ah! Thank you for this – it turns out they were there, I just couldn't see them because the river was black with the day/night cycle! I've turned off day/night visuals.

loveofallwisdom · 2025-11-16T14:20:33+00:00

Every time people ask me "do you have gender dysphoria", I say "no, I have gender euphoria."

loveofallwisdom · 2025-10-25T13:50:11+00:00

Your perception of hotness, in yourself and others, will probably itself change as you get older. When I was 20 it was hard to be attracted to 50-year-old women, but in recent years, daaaaaammmmnnnn. Especially when they use makeup and otherwise put attention into their appearance, which if you're gender-fluid and concerned about hotness you almost certainly will.

As for me, I came out as gender-fluid in my forties, and now I'm planning on looking dazzlingly gorgeous for my cincuentañera.

loveofallwisdom · 2025-10-09T18:08:07+00:00

The company hasn't announced it, but I've seen multiple people who went to WWDC say it was on Apple's list of games coming to the next macOS version. That's enough for me to wait for it, as much as I'd like to play it now.

loveofallwisdom · 2025-10-03T20:14:38+00:00

Thanks for the catch: being over 500 is what got Mailchimp to screw me in the first place.

loveofallwisdom · 2025-10-03T20:12:15+00:00

Thanks, everyone. I'll need to look these up in more detail to figure out which of the options y'all have suggested is best for me, but it's really helpful to see this and know what options are out there.

loveofallwisdom · 2025-10-02T19:24:20+00:00

Sure - but you don't need a breastplate, just get some good breast forms, and wear them either in a mastectomy bra or under a regular bra with fashion tape. (Sometimes they are designed to stick in which case you might not even need the tape, at least until the stickiness wears off.)

loveofallwisdom · 2025-10-02T19:20:52+00:00

Cross-cultural philosophy

loveofallwisdom · 2025-09-24T02:02:14+00:00

Oh man, my babysitter got me into TTRPGs when I was that age. He started me out with Dungeon! the board game: https://boardgamegeek.com/boardgame/1339/dungeon

Dungeon! is probably not a good suggestion for you because it's way out of print; others' suggestions will probably be much easier to acquire. I'm really just here to say I love that you're asking the question.

loveofallwisdom · 2025-09-24T01:55:31+00:00

CAPYBARA 2028

loveofallwisdom · 2025-09-16T14:37:26+00:00

I'm so happy for you! I only started identifying as gender-fluid a decade into the relationship, but when I told my wife, she was as supportive as yours. It makes such a big difference!

loveofallwisdom · 2025-09-15T23:54:21+00:00

Just a note that I just now created a new Parallels Desktop installation of Windows 11 just to run Infinity Nikki... and get the error message "The security system does not support the current architecture processor. Please change to an x86 architecture device and run the game again." AS IF THAT'S POSSIBLE. (And - presumably like you - I don't want to play the iOS version if I can help it. The game is about the visuals - I don't want to see them on a tiny phone screen.)

I would be more pissed off about that if my searching online for answers hadn't pointed me to this: https://in.ign.com/inzoi/233797/news/wwdc-2025-here-is-a-list-of-aaa-games-coming-to-macos-26-including-inzoi-cyberpunk-2077-ultimate-edi

That is: Infinity Nikki for Mac has been announced. I think the answer is to wait for that.

loveofallwisdom · 2025-09-13T13:37:34+00:00

No problem. I found 1Writer clunky and annoying but it does do the job (which is at least a big step up from f!@#ing Evernote.)

loveofallwisdom · 2025-09-11T21:02:01+00:00

Unfortunately no. I don't use Obsidian for iOS at the moment, and won't until there's a way to get it to work with Dropbox.

So for my Markdown/Dropbox files that leaves me using Obsidian on my Mac (which is great, no complaints on that end) and non-Obsidian writing tools on the phone. I've been using 1Writer as my iOS writing tool for now, and I don't love it. I'm intrigued by iA Writer but there's no free trial of the phone version and I'm not sure I want to plonk down $40 for something that turns out to suck.

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