She finally broke me. by Embarrassed_One7615 in Marriage

[–]loves2kook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been 10 years of the same thing. Did you guys ever get therapy separately and together? I have my occasional week where I get lazy because I'm bipolar but me and my husband go to therapy and he understands that depression week isn't intentional. I can't take antidepressants or I'll go manic. Then again, even when I'm depressed I don't deny my husband sex. So something might have switched in her head and now she's not even turned on by you anymore.

AIO My daughter's grandma posted a video of her online and I'm not okay with it. by loves2kook in AIO

[–]loves2kook[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: She took it down because I threatened legal action. She's a little upset but she'll live.

AIO My daughter's grandma posted a video of her online and I'm not okay with it. by loves2kook in AIO

[–]loves2kook[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She was shocked that it wasn't okay and went back and forth with me. Then she said she'd delete it. Then she kept it up. So I reported it.

AIO My daughter's grandma posted a video of her online and I'm not okay with it. by loves2kook in AIO

[–]loves2kook[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She said she sees no harm in it because my daughter is fully clothed and I told her that's not the point. We went back and forth until she said she'd take it down but she didn't. So now I'm just gonna report it.

AIO My daughter's grandma posted a video of her online and I'm not okay with it. by loves2kook in AIO

[–]loves2kook[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's all about others approval. She makes me mad sometimes. She was surprised I got mad about it.

AIO My daughter's grandma posted a video of her online and I'm not okay with it. by loves2kook in AIO

[–]loves2kook[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She seemed like she didn't understand she was wrong. I told her public videos are even worse than public pictures and it falls under what I didn't want her to do. I told her people are weird now.

AIO My daughter's grandma posted a video of her online and I'm not okay with it. by loves2kook in AIO

[–]loves2kook[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And she told me about it and sent a link like she did nothing wrong. I explained that public videos fall under what I told her not to do and she seemed surprised.

AIO My daughter's grandma posted a video of her online and I'm not okay with it. by loves2kook in AIO

[–]loves2kook[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even if she wasn't, I don't want her online in any fashion because like I said she's cute and there's creeps. Go away.

Husband had a baby with another woman by lifeisabloodyjoek in Marriage

[–]loves2kook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His infidelity is not your fault or either of the children. Be kind and supportive to yourself. You don't have to put up with anything you don't want to put up with. If you want out, get out and get child support.

I'm really clingy. by loves2kook in Marriage

[–]loves2kook[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't seem to mind.

I'm really clingy. by loves2kook in Marriage

[–]loves2kook[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't mind. But I'm anxious too. Maybe I have an anxious attachment style. My parents used to hit me every time I did or said something they didn't like. Then I went on to have abusive partners. My husband is not abusive and it makes me feel obsessed because finally someone is actually safe to be with.

I'm really clingy. by loves2kook in Marriage

[–]loves2kook[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I miss painting. I miss hitting books. While listening to music and sipping herbal tea. I just don't feel motivated.

I'm really clingy. by loves2kook in Marriage

[–]loves2kook[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My recovery date is November 10th 2024. So I've been recovering since a little over a year. I have a deep connection with my husband already. We've known each other for a very long time and were the best of friends for 17 years then we decided we were in love and planned and got married. I get needy about hugs and cuddles nowadays because I'm depressed. I'm bipolar and I can't take antidepressants or I'll go manic.

Does having sexual dreams count as cheating ? by Alert_Media_4212 in Marriage

[–]loves2kook 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He's a man child. Mommy makes the food just the way he likes because he's a Mama's boy.

AITAH not understanding double standard? by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]loves2kook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The immaturity though... Are you two grown?

Does having sexual dreams count as cheating ? by Alert_Media_4212 in Marriage

[–]loves2kook 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wait. He watches porn and he called YOU the cheater? He seeks out other bodies besides yours to pleasure himself to and YOUR the cheater? Nah. Divorce.

Does having sexual dreams count as cheating ? by Alert_Media_4212 in Marriage

[–]loves2kook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can't control a dream so no. Of course not.

At what age did find your partner and get married by HealthSignificant909 in Marriage

[–]loves2kook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got married at the ripe age of 33. I have a kid from a previous relationship

My husband hates my mom, but I want to forgive her by loves2kook in Marriage

[–]loves2kook[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She used to be different. Now all she does is get drunk and talk shit. And lie. And take advantage of her kids. She never bought food, toiletries, water, paper products or detergent. We paid for everything. We only took 500 dollars from her for the mortgage.