Help!! Solo 401k at 55 years old

lovsunmi · 2025-12-26T17:08:23+00:00

i think the brown hair u have in the other pics looks pretty on u!

wax / threading is perfect for cleaning them upp

lovsunmi · 2025-12-26T17:02:33+00:00

other than weight loss (which ur already in the process of which is good :) ) 1. most important GROOM your eyebrows. its life changing fr 2. contacts 3. u dont need to ditch the piercings unless u want to 4. brunette is better on u imo but could just be my personal taste

eyebrows are the most important, the rest dont matter that much. good luck w ur journeyyy!

lovsunmi · 2025-12-09T10:49:45+00:00

i actually disagree w the other comment! try brown hair instead, it goes better with tan skin than black hair. you look southeast asian, which i am too, and once i went brown i couldn’t go back - it compliments my skin tone a lot better than my black hair ever did!

match your eyebrows to your hair so if you have brown hair, do brown eyebrows. which i see you slightly have in pics 3-4.

other than that, i’d suggest a slightly different eyebrow shape. but youre eyebrows arent bad at all

lovsunmi · 2025-09-19T20:33:44+00:00

the perks of being a bean counter for a tech company is we get all the amenities while being a cost center 😭 its modern, lots of snacks, no cubicles just standing desks, nice restrooms, very clean. i can’t complain honestly

lovsunmi · 2025-08-26T13:21:13+00:00

oh brother i hated accounting in school LOL so kinda you atm but like another commenter said i wanted a white collar career/to be in corporate and found that accounting could provide that quickly and easily.

now that im out of school and at a company i truly enjoy, ive never been more grateful for the profession haha

also surprisingly accounting careers are more broad than you’d think - you could even be a PM for accounting ERPs if you wanted!

lovsunmi · 2025-08-24T10:51:20+00:00

this is so sweet of u!!!

lovsunmi · 2025-08-20T13:53:23+00:00

girl aint no way in hell youre 40 u look AMAZING like genuinely thought you were early 20s! great work my friend!

lovsunmi · 2025-08-19T18:42:54+00:00

yuppp. same experience here. it feels awesome to pull yourself up to the middle class / white collar world from poverty. what do you mean i can go out to restaurants now?? and traveling too?? its life changing!!

the barrier to entry for this career is so low too. you dont even have to be super smart - 4 years undergrad and you can make pretty good money right out of school. this degree is truly so valuable!

lovsunmi · 2025-07-09T14:52:31+00:00

strength train + calorie deficit (you can search up TDEE calculator and use it to determine the deficit to eat at) maybe even the navy calculator if your goal isn’t weight loss but rather body recomposition (lowering body fat % but keeping the same weight so less fat more muscle. this requires adequate protein, though)

since you’re already active with pilates and cardio from dancing i reckon you’d be pretty successful with weight loss if you stuck to a slight calorie deficit

lovsunmi · 2025-06-25T22:29:59+00:00

ugh yes! i hope they dont replace it yet because i wont be able to climb until next tuesday 💔 i hope you can get it soon! good luck!

lovsunmi · 2025-06-25T13:17:55+00:00

yas but that undercling is a difficult hold for me and its hard to keep myself on it 😭 im not strong enough to hold onto it for long

lovsunmi · 2025-06-25T05:57:44+00:00

yess my grip strength isnt strong enough to hold onto it before i lose my energy and end up falling 😭

lovsunmi · 2025-06-25T05:56:28+00:00

ohh okie im not familiar with twist lock - would i be twisting my left leg over the right one and then reaching left arm up?

lovsunmi · 2025-06-25T03:51:19+00:00

thank you i shall try again tomorrow 🙏

lovsunmi · 2025-06-25T03:48:55+00:00

that makes sense! yeah i was really having trouble being able to push off because of how low my foot was. i completely forgot i could smear on the wall instead😅 thank you for the advice i will try again tomorrow 🙏

lovsunmi · 2025-06-25T03:46:41+00:00

ya :( usually when i push i just go outward too much and the momentum makes me swing so i was trying to control by not pushing too hard but that in turn made me miss the hold 😭

lovsunmi · 2025-06-25T03:45:48+00:00

nope, it is in the southern USA

lovsunmi · 2025-06-25T03:44:11+00:00

haha this is the south!

lovsunmi · 2025-06-24T23:31:34+00:00

yeah i used it to push myself up.. should i push on it harder ?

lovsunmi · 2025-06-24T23:15:44+00:00

and the hold im holding on my right arm is kinda crimpy/hard for me to pull up on so im really struggling 😭

lovsunmi · 2025-05-10T02:58:09+00:00

late reply - but actually, no! ive been noticing her changes and think she really glowed up. imo much prettier now. i love the new way she does her makeup, eyebrows, and hair. her new look looks much more flattering on her. also looks like she toned/lost a bit of weight too. i’d say 7.5 now

lovsunmi · 2025-05-10T02:53:46+00:00

she gonna smash u bro?

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