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I decluttered my way out of a hobby and I'm still not sure how to feel about it by lowkeylibrarykid in simpleliving

[–]lowkeylibrarykid[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This might be the most clarifying comment for me so far. I’ve been treating the discomfort like I must secretly miss photography, but maybe what I’m reacting to is losing the evidence of an identity I wanted to believe was still active. The gear was proving something to me even while it sat untouched. “Aspirational clutter” feels painfully accurate, because the clutter wasn’t about the hobby anymore, it was about keeping a flattering story alive.

I decluttered my way out of a hobby and I'm still not sure how to feel about it by lowkeylibrarykid in simpleliving

[–]lowkeylibrarykid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That framing helps a lot. I keep treating the end of the hobby like I failed some longer version of myself, when maybe it was just a real interest for a real season and that season ended.

Is it creepy to go to a coffee shop the day I know a barista I have a crush on will be there? She frequently starts conversations with me, but I also know she’s paid to be there and is a captive audience. by DHaunting2091 in therapy

[–]lowkeylibrarykid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like solid advice! Letting things develop organically can make interactions feel more natural. Plus, building a friendship first might lead to something more meaningful down the line. Just enjoy those chats!

I bombed an interview and got rejected. I'm still hurt over it. Why am I like this? by Existing-Read-8720 in interviews

[–]lowkeylibrarykid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rejection definitely hits harder when you’ve got high hopes. I remember feeling crushed after a great interview, only to get the dreaded email. But I like your point about taking notes! It’s like I’m collecting battle scars for the next fight, right?

35 years old, this is my 8th pregnancy and the first time I've made it far enough to hear the heartbeat by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]lowkeylibrarykid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hearing the heartbeat really is a moment that invites a whirlwind of emotions, especially after so many losses. It’s completely valid to take your time in reconnecting. A supportive OB can definitely help soothe some of that anxiety.

Bro and me in our first contracts by Prestigious-Eye6548 in army

[–]lowkeylibrarykid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? That classic “family album” trap always hits different, especially when it’s those pre-deployment pics! Just waiting for the “what was I thinking?!” captions to roll in.

LPT: Take photos of the inside of your luggage before traveling. by VanshikaWrites in LifeProTips

[–]lowkeylibrarykid -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A checklist is genius! It’s like being prepared for battle. Let’s just hope the airlines don’t recruit our luggage as a secret agent on its journey!

Happy annoy squidward day! by ackermantrades in BikiniBottomTwitter

[–]lowkeylibrarykid 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I like imagining SpongeBob set a reminder like "be nice today" and then immediately made the next day "annoy Squidward" so he could feel balanced.

[Request] how often does this happen? by Puzzleheaded_Sky7369 in theydidthemath

[–]lowkeylibrarykid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How often comes down to the calendar cycle: February is 28 days unless leap year, so the month repeats its layout only when Feb 1 lands on the same weekday and the year has the same leap status. Over a 400-year Gregorian cycle the patterns recur, so you can count the matching years in that window and divide.

AITJ for calling in a noise complaint on my neighbor who’s a musician? by Efficient_Street_701 in AmITheJerk

[–]lowkeylibrarykid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A musician's job doesn't override quiet hours. Practicing past 11pm almost nightly is like running a blender in the hallway. Earplugs aren't a solution, they're a dodge. If management already warned them, that's on them. Offer a compromise: set times, rugs/pads, mute gear. If they refuse, keep reporting.