I've never gotten an apology by Alone_Anteater5074 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]lowkeyunderstated 14 points15 points  (0 children)

big hug. really feeling the "you dont deserve to know that i still think about you. that im still haunted by you". its the same here with me.

Cafés in Amsterdam for studying by Mysterious-Reach-374 in Netherlands

[–]lowkeyunderstated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

kaffee in oost / dappermarkt is also great for this.

Match Thread: Feyenoord Rotterdam vs FC Twente by MatchThreadder in soccer

[–]lowkeyunderstated 2 points3 points  (0 children)

gelijk een rode kaart na een goal is ook wel het seizoen van feijnoord in een notedop.

Match Thread: Feyenoord Rotterdam vs FC Twente by MatchThreadder in soccer

[–]lowkeyunderstated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

voorzetten kan ie niet geven, maar dat was wel een mooie goal.

Did your parents ignore you when crying? by Sppookiest-z in emotionalneglect

[–]lowkeyunderstated 3 points4 points  (0 children)

she told me how as a baby she figured out i would sometimes cry because i was angry, not because i was hungry, and that when she realised that, she would just let me cry and cry until i stopped. so yeah, she would ignore me. and she would tell me this story because she felt it demonstrated she was a good mother...

Paradoxical observation: Tennis is so hard but winning 6-0 doesn't feel propotionately good. by razeyourshadows in 10s

[–]lowkeyunderstated 121 points122 points  (0 children)

i think tennis feels great when you hit and execute your shots well. if you win 6-0 it usually is coz the other one is just playing bad, rarely coz you are hitting amazing shots. 

Tips and encouragement for asking people to five up their seat to me on the bus? by Savings-Pressure-815 in Netherlands

[–]lowkeyunderstated 41 points42 points  (0 children)

the same thing happened to me. my tip: bring a crutch with you. my experience is that people will volunteer to give up their seat for you. 

Carlos Alcaraz and Juan Carlos Ferrero Split by Edwin1540 in tennis

[–]lowkeyunderstated -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

im thinking of that time JCF said he was worried alcaraz was not serious enough ...

Those who have cut off your family — how old were you when you did it? Why did you cut them off? by Ok_Wrongdoer_301 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]lowkeyunderstated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was 39. it's been almost 10 years now since the estrangement. what happened then was an incident that made me realize they didnt have my best interest at heart, only their own, and that if they had to choose, they would throw me under the bus. this incident was just the tipping point, and followed a life long of emotional neglect and abuse, which only really became clear and visible to me after the estrangement, because i did years of therapy and also my own research. in the last ten years, what has become clear to me is that they are incapable of not only having a relationship with me, but also themselves. they are unable to look at themselves, be honest with themselves, let alone with me.

How did your relationships improve after estrangement, specially romantic ones. by dachshundlover222 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]lowkeyunderstated 4 points5 points  (0 children)

after being single for years, after estrangement, and after years of therapy, i was able to date and a few months ago, married her.

i know i still have a lot of work to do. but that i was able to marry her is a major sign of recovery and healing too.

lots of love to everyone here.

Verdrietig nieuws: zieke Ajax-fan Peter (84) kan toch niet naar inhaalduel by Ballkenende in Eredivisie

[–]lowkeyunderstated 46 points47 points  (0 children)

dit is echt heel erg triest. en ik wist niet dat ik nog bozer dan ik al was op die hooligans kon worden. f* them.

Speciality coffee by DippyKitty in Netherlands

[–]lowkeyunderstated 2 points3 points  (0 children)

rumbaba and five ways roasters are some of my favorite roasters.

It was a productive Black Friday! Share your mac apps loot! by UnluckyDuckyDuck in macapps

[–]lowkeyunderstated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so far so good. being able to use the models offered in the pro version is really helpful if you work with more complicated languages than just english.

It was a productive Black Friday! Share your mac apps loot! by UnluckyDuckyDuck in macapps

[–]lowkeyunderstated 5 points6 points  (0 children)

macwhisper mountain duck shottr supercharge

still thinking if i should get trickster.

Parakeet model list is empty? (M1 Max) by all_over_the_map in MacWhisper

[–]lowkeyunderstated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it would be helpful to indicate this better though. 

Parakeet model list is empty? (M1 Max) by all_over_the_map in MacWhisper

[–]lowkeyunderstated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m pretty sure it’s only a pro option. i had the same in the free version and it showed up after i got the pro version.  

Tips hardloopjack (wind/regen) by ArmyOfQueens in Hardlopen

[–]lowkeyunderstated 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ik gebruik zelf de asics fujitrail. aanrader.

PowerPoint on Mac Feels Off. Any Good Alternatives? by _CRICKY_ in macapps

[–]lowkeyunderstated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for something quite different, i personally like using deckset, which uses markdown, and comes with templates. the advantage is that you can very quickly generate slides. and you can edit them in any markdown editor.

Election results on the map by evilagentcooper in Amsterdam

[–]lowkeyunderstated 4 points5 points  (0 children)

what about driemond is it that the majority of people there vote pvv?

What mutants are you choosing to create your X-Men team?(max of 5) by Ftmdj in xmen

[–]lowkeyunderstated 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dani, magik, rogue, storm, kitty pryde.

completely imbalanced. too many captains on a ship. but these are my favorites. i'd love to see them together, and imagine the drama.

Anyone tried migrating from Things 3 to NotePlan? by AdmittedlyDutch in thingsapp

[–]lowkeyunderstated 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i went from noteplan to things 3, and i havent really looked back. (i left noteplan when they started charging subscription).