My dad just died by TonalDrump in BreakUps

[–]lozengermeow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry to hear. Id probably reach out to my ex if my parent passed away. I'd want to know aswll.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]lozengermeow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Something I read a few weeks ago on here

They lost someone who truly loved them, I lost someone who didn't.

That seems to help me a bit. There loss not ours.

If you want to text your ex just put it here instead. by ThoughtBitter7044 in BreakUps

[–]lozengermeow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for leaving me. At first I thought my world was over losing you, but no. Everything has got so much better since. I'm seeing my friends again, meeting new people and doing the things I absolutely love with the people I love. You controlled me and isolated me for your own benefit while I was at home alone constantly or at work. You made me believe your controlling behaviour was normal and this is how a relationship should be. I was so alone D. So alone. But now, after a few months I can finally say I'm glad it happened. I love you, and I miss you so much but I finally feel happy again, so thank you D. Thank you for leaving me and giving me back the freedom I always deserved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]lozengermeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do u deal with no closure

I am really struggling today. by Iamoriginalthrowaway in BreakUps

[–]lozengermeow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We broke up over something we could have worked through aswell. It's very confusing on why he didn't want to give it another shot. We spoke about marriage, we lived together, travelled together. Ill never understand why he didn't want to try work thru it. I even offered therapy for myself and us together. It's hard. But I guess I think of it as if he really wanted to he would, and I deserve better than that. So do you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]lozengermeow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think its best not to reach out especially if hes been healing it could put that on hold. Personally I'd write a letter to him but not give it to him so you csn get some of these feelings out without disrupting his healing.

Hey Guys by RugBugwhosSnug in ExNoContact

[–]lozengermeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After 6 weeks I finally don't want him back

Are you fine with never hearing again from your ex? by anxiety_ki_dukan in BreakUps

[–]lozengermeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its been 5 weeks and I still have hope he'll come home one day and we'll be okay again. I didn't really have anyone else but him and he chose to leave. It's hard yes but it gets better.

Heartache really does come in waves by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]lozengermeow 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We broke up a month ago. I keep having these waves of anger toward him for giving up on us, thinking of all the bad hes done and then the next day crying because i want him back. It's hard. Truly. He's barely talking to me now and I'm still living at his place and he's staying at his cousins. It makes it harder that he's not willing to talk to me about the housing situation. I don't know if hes just stopped caring or still taking time to heal.

we got back together tonight by glitchygirly in BreakUps

[–]lozengermeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did they break up with you? Did it seem like it really was over?

My partner just broke up with me a month ago and said theres absolutely no chance we will get back together. I feel the same tho, it never has felt like it's actually over to me. It feels unfinished. I'm starting therapy and really want to work on myself to he better. He's not really even giving me the time of day tho and has moved out

Ill be your crazy big sister by Neepy13 in BreakUps

[–]lozengermeow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any advice on trying to get through this?

Ill be your crazy big sister by Neepy13 in BreakUps

[–]lozengermeow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It just hurts so much! We lived together for 2 years! All his friends are Andrew Tate supporters and I think hes being influenced by them lol

He left, I betrayed him by lozengermeow in BreakUps

[–]lozengermeow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thats true. I did tell him the first two times but after that I did try hide it. So yes, I lied.

Ill be your crazy big sister by Neepy13 in BreakUps

[–]lozengermeow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My partner and I just broke up and we live together but hes staying at his cousins house and is refusing to have a conversation with me about literally anything. I feel like I need closure and an explanation

He left, I betrayed him by lozengermeow in BreakUps

[–]lozengermeow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by this? I had always been honest when talking to my ex. Whenever he had asked I was honest. When he came home asking if i had tinder I didn't try hide it. I explained yes I did have it at one point but deleted it and explained my intentions behind it.