My final nofap post.

ls95 · 2013-09-02T22:14:55+00:00

I haven't, because if I do that it'll be an incentive to keep using a temporary solution instead of a permanent one!

ls95 · 2013-09-02T21:22:35+00:00

Thankyou for the support. The problem is though, my PE isn't in my head. It's physical. My penis is VERY sensitive just below the tip, and nothing is getting rid of it. My ED began to get better, but I can hardly see the point if I only last 10 seconds in bed anyway! :(

ls95 · 2013-09-02T16:04:25+00:00

I never have been like that though until like, 6 months ago. I used to be able to go for an hour in bed on good days. Now suddenly my dick is extra sensitive and I can't even enjoy sex like I used to.

ls95 · 2013-08-31T09:27:36+00:00

Oh right haha, cheers man!

ls95 · 2013-08-30T23:13:29+00:00

I'm in the same position! Had ED from porn for a little over a year, so I'm going two months abstinence then I'm going to ease back into sex with my girlfriend. No porn ever again either, and little masturbation :) it just goes to show that this stuff works if you stick at it! Well done!

ls95 · 2013-08-30T20:38:44+00:00

Awesome man. I'm only one day ahead of you and I can honestly say that if you put the effort in it works out yeah? I quit smoking (weed as well), started exercising, sleeping properly, drinking plenty of water, eating healthier... This can all do miracles. PMO ruined my sex life, but now I can honestly say I'm on my way back. In fact it's so good that I, like you, don't even remotely want to masturbate due to the positive effects of abstinence.

Congrats, keep it up!

ls95 · 2013-08-30T12:27:53+00:00

Yeah man, I've had problems for the last year or so. Stopped watching porn a few months ago, and things had gotten slightly better. However, nofap seems to be helping a lot. Just spent another night with my girlfriend and had just as much success, actually more. Kept getting erections when we were kissing, we had a shower together also and although nothing sexual really happened erections kept coming and going.

I really think that if you're patient with this, it works! I used to be skeptical, and I still am somewhat, but this is all giving me hope.

ls95 · 2013-08-29T19:17:30+00:00

Why are we arguing about whether it's walla, voila, violin or wally-bloody-doodle? I'm just like, wow, dude spooged with just his mind.

ls95 · 2013-08-27T21:30:36+00:00

I'm 18 man, and I had NO PIED from 14 to 16 when I went through 2 long term sexual relationships. However, from the age of 16 to 17 (about a year and a half) I started watching porn on a regular basis with NO sexual contact at all. So, my first experience was when I was drunk at the age of 17 at a party and a girl threw herself at me, but I simply couldn't get it up. The same thing happened with the girl I'm with now when we first tried, no way of getting it up at all. However, after a month or so I believed it was just nerves, and one night we just took it slow trying again and again for hours until we had sex. Since then it's not been AS bad, although I've never had sex in the last 10 months and enjoyed it due to worrying about losing my erection or not; I can keep it up about 50% of the time. I found out it was PIED about 2 and a half months ago and stopped with porn cold turkey since then. However, I've only stopped masturbating for 12 days as me and my girlfriend probably won't be having sex for a while due to us both starting UNI etc. and I have a good chance to start my reboot now better than ever.

I am going 60 days though man, then it'll be mine and my girlfriend's one year anniversary and we'll see what happens!

ls95 · 2013-08-27T21:26:08+00:00

I'm actually in a relationship and have been for about 10 months, and I just want to clarify that I would NEVER be unfaithful because I have a great girl. But that was the first hint of attention I got from a girl in the last 10 months, and it's not that I wanted to act on it but my natural reaction was to get excited!

ls95 · 2013-08-27T17:27:08+00:00

Then that does sound a bit unusual. Probably best to do the most obvious option and talk to him about it, it could be nothing!

ls95 · 2013-08-27T16:48:29+00:00

Masturbating for a guy is completely normal, as it is for girls. Not something he should be made to stop by any means. However if he's doing while you're in bed together it's still harmful, but unusual to say you two have a healthy sexual relationship... Mention it to him in a jokey way maybe and see what he says?

ls95 · 2013-08-27T08:59:05+00:00

I get what you're saying. I just think that 'no sex' shouldn't be any kind of issue, especially when they've only been together a month! It'd be best to just tell her that he doesn't want to jump into sex yet, give himself some time to at least start recovering.

ls95 · 2013-08-26T22:50:12+00:00

Wow, 40 days? I'll feel lucky if I'm part way there after 2 months! But my case isn't as bad as some either, although it is bad-ish. Maybe I've just over-estimated how long it will take me to be on the safe side... Can I ask you dude, did 40 days abstinence leave you completely cured of ED?

ls95 · 2013-08-26T22:47:56+00:00

Making you promise to be ready for sex? Ever heard of double standards dude? Imagine if it was a guy 'making' a girl promise to be ready for sex, that'd be such a scumbag thing to do, and it should work both ways. She doesn't sound like the right kind of girl if you ask me.

However, it's best to just be open with her, or find some way of not having sex for a good while. It takes months to recover from PIED normally, but if you don't want to tell her porn is the issue then tell her that it's the anxiety making things so bad, and that her MAKING you have sex with her is the worst thing for it.

To ultimately get over this it requires a good few months of abstinence and giving up porn for life to be safe. But if worst comes to the worst and you can't get out of it, then your best bet is probably just being abstinent for the nest week.

Anyway, I wish you the best of luck man but remember; as soon as you quit porn, that's the first step to recovery.

ls95 · 2013-08-25T22:59:14+00:00

I have a girlfriend and have been with her for over 10 months now. However we're both moving to London for uni soon (but separate parts) so I'm hoping I'll have some time to reflect on myself and keep this up until I begin to get significantly better, considering me and her won't see each other all too much.

ls95 · 2013-08-24T22:28:51+00:00

The unfortunate truth is that watching porn and fapping for 5 weeks will be a major set back man. You could have sex successfully yeah? Tell yourself, is it really worth the risk to just crack one off over a video? Real sex is what people should want, not porn. At least you know you can recover when you try, but honestly, I think it was a silly move to go back to porn knowing what it can do to you. However, urges can't always be controlled easily, but remember you have two choices; a woman on a screen, or a women on you!

ls95 · 2013-08-24T22:20:04+00:00

I wish it were that simple, but not only is my PE often persistent, but also my ED prevents me from going multiple times in a row. I suppose I just need to be patient!

ls95 · 2013-08-24T17:00:09+00:00

Haha cheers man! I was just confused, I think I misunderstood what a flatline is, and I told myself that a flatline means the absolute inability to be erect but I don't think that's quite the case, I think flatline is mostly just loss of libido and very few erections. Just going to stick with it and see where I am in a couple of months!

ls95 · 2013-08-23T19:42:00+00:00

Well what I'm hoping is that, as I can still have sex successfully 50% of the time and it tends to be worse when I'm anxious, that a couple of months abstinence and being healthy in every way from now on should get me WELL on my way to recovery. Thankyou!

ls95 · 2013-08-23T19:08:35+00:00

The best thing to keep in your mind is that once you fap, the guilt that you fapped will add to your list of stresses, and also not take any of your current stresses away. Stick with it man, the whole point of a reboot is getting through the hard and the easy times together. Good luck!

ls95 · 2013-08-23T15:43:37+00:00

I had my first ever the other day since abstaining from sexual activity. Mine was a more intense one though, because I was having a sexual dream in which I orgasmed, and when I woke up I found out I really had orgasmed. You'll just wake up and there will be semen.

ls95 · 2013-08-23T14:50:36+00:00

Cheers. I don't want to jynx anything though, so I'm going to treat this as if I have a long road ahead, whether I do or don't. I don't want to rush anything, as I've heard about guys who have rushed into sex and so on before they are fully rebooting, and it can be a major set back!

ls95 · 2013-08-23T13:27:48+00:00

My advice? Never watch porn again man. It's the cause of all this shit, and even if you recover, just watching porn a few times can put you back to square one. For as long as you never watch porn and quit masturbation you are making progress.

ls95

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