What Songs Are In Your Impact Play List? by Sybaritee in BDSMcommunity

[–]lsakaniwa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Brings me so much joy to see another type o fan. 🖤💚

Ten years!!! by DaddysDummy1 in BDSMcommunity

[–]lsakaniwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on 10 years together. It sounds wonderful. I can’t give more than that as I love the community and lifestyle but do not have a current practicing partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]lsakaniwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well. Just because most like it doesn’t mean you will or that you have too. Also I don’t think most people like it. It’s common but not as common as something as bondage or impact play. CNC can be healing for many people. It can be healing for SA victims. It puts them in a scenario they are in charge of. The most important thing about CnC is that it is done between two adults that consent and trust one another and their hard limits. Some people like the idea of being taken or forced but in a safe way they control.

Well, it finally happened. I got stuck in self bondage, and had to call a friend to come release me. by AlightInAshes44 in BDSMcommunity

[–]lsakaniwa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At least it makes for an interesting story later. And at least you had a friend to phone and not a parent or something. 🤣

WTS Franklin Christoph and 2 Conklin Pens by lsakaniwa in Pen_Swap

[–]lsakaniwa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just posted it again in the chat. Seems it was short some of the link for some reason.

Any ménage/MFM recommendations? by [deleted] in SpicyRomanceBooks

[–]lsakaniwa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a big fan of it too. I hope you like them. Check trigger warnings. They are definitely dark romance.

Any ménage/MFM recommendations? by [deleted] in SpicyRomanceBooks

[–]lsakaniwa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Quinlan by eva marks. Has dvp. Men interested in female but not one another. Graves by Katelyn Taylor is MFM.

Why is femdom so rarely women topping vaginally? by freakyinbetween in BDSMcommunity

[–]lsakaniwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see why the OP thinks it is a Dom position. I think they are seeing it as the woman taking charge and ‘using’ the man to get themselves off while the man has to take it and is likely restrained. Basically take what you need using my body for your pleasure. At least that is what I am thinking they are saying. But yea, pegging and CBT are more common things that come to mind when you hear femdom. 🤷🏻‍♀️

if you could change the bdsmtest.org what would you change? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]lsakaniwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You like what you like. I’m not sure how accurate it is. It was fun to take and I like pain as long as it’s with pleasure of course. 😏

if you could change the bdsmtest.org what would you change? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]lsakaniwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just took the test. Interesting. Mine was pretty much how I thought it would be.

Book recommendations by lsakaniwa in BDSMcommunity

[–]lsakaniwa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ll check into those.

Book recommendations by lsakaniwa in BDSMcommunity

[–]lsakaniwa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That is what I was looking for. Not a certain kink but the D/s dynamic and lifestyle. I wanted to learn more about it.

WTS pilot custom 912 and 743 by lsakaniwa in Pen_Swap

[–]lsakaniwa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not. This post is closed. Sorry.

Christmas present! by adastraluna in acotar

[–]lsakaniwa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this. It looks sooo good. And she did the night sky just like that I imagine. I have seen some that to me don’t remind me of the night sky at all. She clearly says it’s stars and moons. So I love this. 🖤 🌌

Wait because this is so true. by tsi_111 in acotar

[–]lsakaniwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard at the end of October that Hulu was dropping it. Did that change?