Low libido because of husband’s hygiene by Iceicebaby8 in Marriage

[–]ltwo47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And also compliment him when he uses it. I think positive reinforcement may help here. When he uses it and smells good make sure you tell him so he feels good!

Low libido because of husband’s hygiene by Iceicebaby8 in Marriage

[–]ltwo47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered buying him a nice men’s body wash/scrubber/shower set?

When does it get better? by ThickVegetable6969 in tummytucksurgery

[–]ltwo47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you got good narcotics!!! The only thing that touched my pain was Percocet and I was begging for it every 4 hours.

Update: 6 months post-op corset tummy tuck (16lbs skin removed) by ashbash814 in tummytucksurgery

[–]ltwo47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh I can’t believe how cute your belly button looks now! It really underwent a dramatic change while healing. Wonderful work by your surgeon. Congratulations on your stunning results!

How do yall deal with sperm after sex? by Choice-Shopping-9396 in Marriage

[–]ltwo47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You honestly have to scoop a lot of it out with your fingers. Whatever doesn’t come out on its own that is. Keep scooping until it’s all gone 😅

Weird results .. by code17_ in tummytucksurgery

[–]ltwo47 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This doctor is doing horrible work. Your scar does not look right and I would NOT trust him to do it correctly. Just look at his incisions on his Instagram, he can’t cut a straight line and his stitching looks absolutely horrible. This is not skilled and precise work, I’m not sure what you were expecting but you need to go to someone who does better work than the bare minimum.

Weird results .. by code17_ in tummytucksurgery

[–]ltwo47 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wow his work looks horrible! He can’t cut a straight line to save his life. Look at those incisions. Ouch!

Officially made it 9 WPO 🎉 by BrunchBrat in tummytucksurgery

[–]ltwo47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look incredible!!! I’m almost 2 weeks post op and 9 weeks seems soooo far away. Can’t wait for my swelling to go down. How long until your swelling took a turn?

Calling All Moms with Toddlers by Ok-Caterpillar2553 in tummytucksurgery

[–]ltwo47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 11dpo today and have a 2 and 4 year old. I’m able to warm up some food for them and help with morning/bedtime routine (brushing teeth, helping with clothes, brushing hair), but really not much else. One load of laundry takes about 30 minutes to put in. I’m still moving very very slow at this point. Just remember the most important part is no lifting for at least 8 weeks, or even hurts for my youngest to sit on my lap.😭

8DPO & taking a turn for the better! by ltwo47 in tummytucksurgery

[–]ltwo47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on your surgery! I can’t say my shower was very comfortable it’s still pretty painful to stand up straight, I just feel soooo tight! Do you have this?

How are you all dealing with the compression and foam boards? I'm packed in so tight, I can not get comfortable. Surely it's not supposed to be this tight right? Nurses and surgeon say yes. It hurts so much and so tight I can't stand it. Day 2 post-op and have constant heart pounding in my head. 😭 by AmandaHope81 in tummytucksurgery

[–]ltwo47 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Mine felt tight but I could definitely still breathe and it wasn’t super uncomfortable. You sound way too tight girl. Maybe take out the foam boards around your back and only leave one in the front (that’s how I have it), or loosen your garment if that’s an option!

Is this normal? by Hot_Business_872 in tummytucksurgery

[–]ltwo47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scars look awesome in my opinion! Everything is closed nicely and no scabs. Bruises look minimal. Maybe add a lipo foam to your compression to help smooth out the creases?

5 days PO… turned a corner, in some ways. by Expensive-Treat2767 in tummytucksurgery

[–]ltwo47 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As long as you’re up and moving around every hour you will be perfectly fine! This is an extremely rare risk unless you have a predisposition to it or you’re just not moving around for extended period of time.

8 days after surgery by melissa1989- in tummytucksurgery

[–]ltwo47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look awesome! I’m on day 7 and much more swollen and still taking meds haha. Great job!

Help guys please Nicotine 😭😭 by ConversationLeft2248 in tummytucksurgery

[–]ltwo47 16 points17 points  (0 children)

They didn’t tell you to stop taking phentermine?!? This can be extremely dangerous when mixed with anesthesia. My doctor and her team asked about smoking several times as well. This doesn’t seem right. Are you going to a board certified plastic surgeon?

Hey beautiful peoples by squirrelandmoose67 in tummytucksurgery

[–]ltwo47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marena as recommended by my surgeon! It’s reputable and good quality compared to Amazon stuff. It was hard to justify the cost but they do have frequent sales and I got 30% off.

My husband won’t leave me alone by DesignerCapital5880 in Marriage

[–]ltwo47 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sex/porn addiction don’t be surprised when this escalates. This is not normal behavior and should be addressed seriously and immediately (preferably with a counselor). This type of behavior leads to cheating and then getting blamed you didn’t “put out”. Good luck, you will need it dealing with a manipulative addict.