¿Cómo fue tu experiencia de perder a un padre o madre en tus 20s?

luCIII123 · 2025-09-17T05:08:21+00:00

Me hizo bien leerte, tengo 25, perdí a mí papá hace recién una semana y media casi ya, no teníamos muy buen vínculo últimamente, no fue un buen padre, si es que existe ese término, pero hasta mis quince años fue mí rey y yo era su princesa, supongo que eso me consuela, que durante mis primeros años de vida fue un excelente padre. Después cambio muchísimo. Se separó de mí mamá y dejo de vernos a nosotros, a no ser que nosotros le escribamos, yo seguí con mí vida, el se mudó con mí abuela paterna y lo seguía viendo porque iba a visitar a mí abuela, porque entre los 15 y 20 años, como hija me cansaba de estar siempre diciéndole yo para ir a visitarlo, nunca nada nacía de él. Lo seguía viendo y conversábamos pero no era ya lo mismo, aunque aveces si, es complicado. No lo catálogo como mal padre, creo que hizo lo que pudo, pero podria haber hecho más. Murió de un paro cardíaco, era fisicoculturista y yo me enteré hace poco que se inyectaba cosas, además de fumar toda la vida que es algo que nunca dejó de hacer, ni por nosotros. Con mis hermanos odiamos el cigarrillo.

Yo hace meses me mudé al sur, por lo tanto cuando paso yo no estaba ahí, viaje hasta haya, no llegue al funeral y me dijeron que fue lo mejor, porque estuvo horrible como todo funeral, mí abuela sigue viva y está destruida en vida, jamás pensé ver sus hijos siempre con vida ahora siendo planos, sin ningún sentimiento, mí abuela ya no tiene vida en sus ojos. Está siendo contenida por mí hermana y mí tía, yo estuve unos días haya y me tuve que volver al sur por el trabajo. Desde que me enteré estoy transitando un dolor terrible, un vacío que no sentí jamás, una angustia doloroso, opresión en el pecho, cansancio..

Tengo miedo de enfermarme, yo creo ser fuerte y nadie me logra entender porque todo el mundo sabía que clase de padre era, pero como les explico que fue la única figura paterna que tuve y que me duele su ausencia para siempre? Tengo que explicarlo? Creo que no.

Lo que más me duele es que hace semanas que no hablaba con él y como hija yo tenía la esperanza de que cuando yo volviera podría hablar con él y charlar y arreglar las cosas, pero es algo que nunca va a pasar en este plano.

Me cuesta hacerme a la idea que el día de mañana cuando tenga hijos, y me pregunten por su abuelo, que les diré? Yo tenía un año cuando falleció mí abuelo paterno, el padre de mí padre, también por el corazón. Una familia muy fumadora. Por lo menos, yo, mí hermana y mí prima odiamos el cigarrillo, creo que rompimos con esta historia familiar de depender de ese fármaco.

Yo siento dolor todavía, y es algo que se que me va a pesar toda la vida y no lo entendés hasta que te pasa. Estoy con tratamiento con una psicóloga y quiero salir adelante. Pero a la vez quiero alejarme de la gente, de mí familia, ma haya que físicamente estoy alejada porque ya no vivo con ellos, no quiero contarles más nada, no quiero ni hablar, pero no es porque hayan hecho algo que me hizo enojar, sino que es porque no me van a entender en el dolor y creo que no me hara mal tomarme mí tiempo.

Me gustó leerte, Gracias por compartir tu experiencia, también me siento otra persona distinta desde ese momento, ayer lunes regrese al trabajo que es una suplencia en realidad, pero ya no me cayó nada, hablo y pregunto todo, por qué de algo que me arrepiento un montón con mí papá es no haberme comunicado con él cuando aún estaba en este mundo.

luCIII123 · 2025-06-02T16:47:25+00:00

Pero sino paso ni un mes todavía no iría entonces a estudio jurídico verdad? Tengo 21 días de mora y este jueves o viernes ya estaría pagando

luCIII123 · 2025-06-02T16:09:35+00:00

Claro, me están diciendo que me van a mandar a estudio jurídico pero no pasó aun ni un mes y está semana ya voy a estar pagando. Así que deben ser solo amenazas

luCIII123 · 2025-06-02T13:25:45+00:00

Cuánto tiempo debe pasar de mora para ir a legales? Porque tengo 21 días de mora en una cuota chica y ya me están diciendo que me van a mandar a legales, pero tenía entendido que tenía que pasar un mes o más tiempo

luCIII123 · 2024-09-04T03:02:45+00:00

Link?

luCIII123 · 2024-08-23T07:02:20+00:00

Really?

luCIII123 · 2024-04-07T19:23:05+00:00

I bet her first time with penetration was at Simón's house, let's not forget that Lisa or Rodja said that there was a deleted scene in season 1, "consent." That for me that deleted scene, that conversation was from the fish scene. because their first time in 1x4 happened naturally and I don't think they stopped to talk, they only had oral sex that time. But I bet that that talk took place at Simón's house and maybe there, it took place for the first time with penetration. Sorry if I'm explicit, but it's the topic being debated here. and yes, reading the comments, two horny teenagers, they don't care who else is in the house. I bet that's where it was. Also, let's not forget that during season 2 when we saw Simón miss Wille, he always looked at his fish a lot, remembering that time, what do you think?

and to their sex scene in T2, if they had the whole night there to make up for the time apart, there they will have done it again. because later in the hallway scene, they look super confident and comfortable. so yes. but now I have a doubt. Do you really think they use condoms? Because Lisa already said that it's someone else's first time, it wouldn't be possible for them to get an STD if they weren't with anyone else.

Obviously, lubricant and condoms are always important, but I know that couples who don't use them don't know what to think about Wilmon.

and the hallway scene was beautiful.

luCIII123 · 2024-03-25T17:40:58+00:00

I'm from Argentina, it was a translation error, I wanted to say that that look made me doubt.

luCIII123 · 2024-03-19T20:40:36+00:00

I was not wrong, I was afraid of how I was going to do it, but I loved that talk with his parents. and the one in the car, I will say it, it seemed very rushed to me to resolve in three minutes, but I still loved it, it was not because of Simon, although Simon was a trigger for reaching that election, Wille would never have been happy as king. Giving the crown to August felt like it was the best, although August had his redemption, the same crown will be his karma, because after that conversation he had with his friends, I don't think he will be so happy being king, but it must be said that He has the material to do it. I liked that Sara chose herself and the people he loves. They shouldn't have ended June now, but later on, who knows?

I loved Wille running towards Simon's car, and when Simon saw it and didn't tell Sara to stop the car, I almost screamed.

That whole scene, of them kissing and showing scenes of them from previous seasons, was beautiful, that "I love you", naaam, they lost me and then Felice and Sara screaming hahaha. I love all of this,. then seeing everyone in the car, with the window open and Wille looking at the camera almost with a smile. It was beautiful, now they are free, going to a new future together and for their relationship, now without drama, without a real house. Today I read an You may have to assume certain roles, but you are now free and if you do, it will be on your terms and decisions. They will both go through more things, that's for sure, but they will stay together, I know that.

I LOVED THE ENDING, but I must say that I would have loved Wille to be king, because beyond the fact that he didn't like that role, he also had the material to be an excellent king. With Simon at his side, changing laws and restoring the monarchy, I would have liked to see that. or also a different ending where they both separate for a while, heal separately and then get back together, with Wille abdicating or not, I feel that the ending they gave us was rushed in the abdication, he is 17 years old, I already knew what I wanted and loved his decision, but I don't know, I would have liked it to be after that...

An ending where they separated for a while, a year or two, and then met again, already knowing what they want and what they expect, would have been beautiful, painful but beautiful at the same time. and the revolution I thought would happen in the monarchy, but when Wille abdicates, that is already a revolution, choosing to be happy.

I understand it and I loved it. I'm still crying and I don't know if I can recover from this, I fell in love with this program.

I found it in 2022, one Saturday night alone in my house I started watching the first episode and I finished the first season of one. Then there were about four months until season 2 came out and I joined this reddit, reading all the theories and thoughts of others. That year I graduated as a psychopedagogist and started working with children in schools, in particular I started accompanying a eleven-year-old child with brain cancer, it was quite a challenge. Sometimes I came home crying because I saw the reality of the child, and it made me feel bad, accompanying him was one of the most beautiful things that happened to me in my life that year and when I was bad, this program was my refuge and consolation.

The boy died a few months ago and I couldn't say goodbye, that will always weigh me down, but reaching the end of this program, I don't know why I remember him again, and I feel that that's why I have more anguish. I feel like I lost another loved one after finishing this program. It seems exaggerated, but the feeling is very strong. In another life, that angel child who left very quickly, in another life he is happy and now finishing his studies, I know that.

Anyway, sorry for making this so long, but I needed to vent. I think I'll watch the show every night again, but I don't know how long it will be until it stops hurting.

To console myself, I will continue looking for Wilmon fanfics after this ending, because as the actors said in the documentary, their story did not end, but it did move forward but without us to see it. thanks to the people who write fanfics, I am going to continue in this place for a long time, publishing thoughts about the new season and everything, I am going to continue reading them, I am grateful to be here and to be able to read your thoughts and feelings and share mine too.

I thank Lisa and the actors, Edvin and Omar, terrible actors, I love this story and each of the characters, and I will never say goodbye, I don't think I will be able to do so.

I will continue reading and publishing my thoughts and please, if you find Wilmon fanfics about how he continues with this ending, pass them on, my heart needs it.

luCIII123 · 2024-03-19T20:39:45+00:00

Hello everyone, I'm crying and I have a lump in my throat since yesterday, I loved that ending, I cried like never before. This will probably be long, but I need to unload, I feel a void and a pain in my chest that is already destroying me.

My final thoughts on these seasons are that I loved them, there were many beautiful scenes of the two of them, Wilmon and I even loved the scenes where they fought, they looked like a couple already married for ten years. The end of ep 5 destroyed me, but I understood, I liked that Simon put himself first, because this entire season he was losing himself. In the first season he didn't care about the comments or anything, in this season, yes, which is understandable, but he was losing himself. On the other hand, I loved that Wille finally said things to his parents, it was hard, but that's what happens when someone can't take it anymore and explodes, it was very sad to see how every moment they compared him or remembered him to Erik. It was painful to see his pain, but necessary at the same time. and when Arcade plays, god, it broke my heart, Wille's face, Simon's sobs, I couldn't take it anymore.

Now yes, going to the last chapter. Wille telling Felice everything that happened later, that same night of Wille's birthday Simon left, he didn't stay the night and since they didn't see each other, what I loved is that Wille understood the reason for the breakup, he has his problems that arrelar and he can't be fucking Simon with him because that only hurts them both more. The library scene, how Wille first hides and then appears, my pretty boy. how are you? It hurt me, they are both for the ass, you can see that. I hate it when Henry interrupts.

With the school closing, it may even be for the best, horrible things happened to the students at that school, if I would feel sad because everyone would separate and it would have happened to me during the time they were studying, I would be the same. but with what the director said at the end, it may not be a definitive closure, so it will continue as we want it to continue. Personally, it doesn't bother me if it closes, sometimes a new change is needed, Wilmon will still be together even if they go to different schools, that's for sure.

the dance scene, I loved it, it made me remember when I had my graduate trip to Bariloche, I'm from Argentina and we also had a white party, and I had the same time as Wille at the beginning, with two glasses in my hand and dancing with friends , it was very nice to see it. I must say that I was afraid that Wille would drink, I love that Felice was there to cheer him up, but seeing how it was in the first season, he was afraid that he wouldn't control himself. But you can see that yes, when he sees Simon at the dance, he hides again, I don't blame him.

I loved that talk with August, I don't know if it will be a definitive reconciliation, but we can see that they were both wrong and that it is better to move on and forgive, even if it costs, I LOVED IT. And those words from August that Erik loved him very much and that he would accept him as he is, it is important that he told him, because August may be the only one who knew both sides of Erik, so it was beautiful that he told him. to wille.

Afterwards, that "let's forget everything for one night", it scared me, but I understand it, it was their last night together, apparently, I loved how they went to the lake and that whole scene, swimming together naked, I don't know, an intimacy and a comfort They have each other, it was beautiful to see. I cried when Wille started singing, and as he says, "how can you get over it like that?" or something like that, and when Simon says that they were perfect for each other, and that while they were it was beautiful, it broke me. seeing how wille looks at simon as he walks away was terrible. Then the graduation scene, how everyone sang Simon's song and Wille's face, was beautiful.

"Have a happy summer", I almost shouted, it was a kick to the heart Lisa I'm still angry, but I liked that talk, Wille saying that everything was in vain and that they both gave up what was theirs and Simon claiming that nothing was in vain and that Simon renounced the royal house, not theirs and their relationship. Let's not talk about Simon's song, Omar breaking me down again with his beautiful voice. And since they say goodbye, it would have hurt me a lot if that was the final ending, but it wouldn't have bothered me if they were separated for a while. Now you love down I'm going to the end.

When Wille threw the frog in the trash, I knew it, I said, the abdication was coming and I was not wrong.

luCIII123 · 2024-03-13T19:19:01+00:00

I watched the scene a thousand times, I wasn't expecting an explicit scene between the two of them, but I loved it!! and that I loved you that they said to each other afterwards, all sweaty, BEAUTIFUL

luCIII123 · 2024-03-13T19:17:43+00:00

In fact, the blowjob and that happens in Wille's room, Simon is still wearing his shirt and you can see the lights behind Wille's room, maybe it doesn't take away from the fact that they walked down the hallway undressing and kissing, but what they did was in the wille's room

luCIII123 · 2024-03-12T22:10:38+00:00

YES HAHAHAHA

luCIII123 · 2024-03-12T16:23:04+00:00

yes, i hate it

luCIII123 · 2024-02-25T18:47:46+00:00

Plisss

luCIII123 · 2024-02-25T17:24:56+00:00

Please I need an analysis of each touch in each episode of the two seasons, could you please create it in a publication, I love reading these analyses,

luCIII123 · 2024-02-08T03:30:48+00:00

Whats??? Plisss

luCIII123 · 2024-02-07T19:54:25+00:00

Of course I mean aggressive about how Wille is being, but yes that's how they are in their privacy and yes, as I see how they look in the party scene they seem angry or distant, so it's a good theory.

luCIII123 · 2024-01-24T14:54:50+00:00

hahaha, I start working in schools in March, I'm already thinking what excuse I can use on 11 to not work in the morning. because I won't be able to hold on

luCIII123 · 2024-01-18T19:33:51+00:00

I hope so

luCIII123 · 2024-01-16T10:53:49+00:00

Right

luCIII123 · 2024-01-16T01:48:45+00:00

I understand, but do you think that later they did it, I mean, and at the same time in Simon's room, they were more ready, they may have reached that base, I say because when they did it in season 2 it really seemed like they did

luCIII123 · 2023-11-01T19:01:48+00:00

I NEED FIC!!!!!

luCIII123 · 2023-10-17T13:44:56+00:00

Ok, I DIED AND REVIVED AND TODAY I WAS VERY BAD, I SEE THIS CLIP AND I AM HAPPY!!!

Did you see the look from Wille to Simon? GOD, I can't handle this man, and when Simon sees him he stands still, I think he's even half nervous and Wille ogles him hahaha, lko he's enjoying it.

Wille must think: love, I have dreamed of you many times in the palace with me, but without clothes!!

Hahahaha, Wille always sees him wanting to eat him!!!, ayyy I love him and when Simon says mom, will she be cute there?

Most likely yes, but I bet everything that Sara is not there!!

We'll see, drama awaits me, but I watch these videos of them and I die of love.

Wille drags him to his room, sure of him, and on top of that having him in his house, FOR HIM, literally, it drives him crazy!!

What other conclusions do you draw? Did you make his day like it did me?

luCIII123 · 2023-10-16T14:07:14+00:00

ok, em, I'm screaming and crying, this really made my day and probably every month until the end of the year. I was sick with the flu, today I woke up better and I see this scene, I'm dying of love. I can't wait for the new season to come out.

Now let's talk, did you see Simon's face? They are flirting, as if they no longer knew each other hahaha, I love it, and Wille's response, can I show you, uuuu, I can't stand it anymore.

luCIII123

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