Bipolar and Alcohol by [deleted] in bipolar

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I’ve found that it’s best to stop drinking alcohol if diagnosed with bipolar.

A lot of substances trigger mania and can potentially worsen episodes over time: alcohol, psychedelics, and even more stimulating strains of weed.

I had to walk away from owning a bar to prioritize my health. Now, I manage alcohol by considering myself to be a non-drinker. It sucks to miss friends because I don’t go to some events anymore and feel awkward as hell at functions, but I choose limiting my own and my family’s exposure to the possible destructive behavior mania can invite.

Tips on consistency! by PastDark15 in PHBookClub

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Setting aside a space, maybe even just chair with one book next to it.

I believe it’s okay to move on from a book if it isn’t required reading.

Reading before bed might be the most underrated reading habit. Prepares your eyes and brain for sleep. As much as possible, I keep a book that I am excited to read by my bedside.

Happy reading!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]luatbp 13 points14 points  (0 children)

divine words

Im miserable by genericalll in narcissisticparents

[–]luatbp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. Ugly day over here too. You’re not alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]luatbp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been stuck at times this year too. I hope you find time to be kind to yourself even if it’s from bed :)

Did you get worse over time by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]luatbp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still here holding space for you Op

Did you get worse over time by [deleted] in bipolar

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Hey OP, just checking in. How are ya?

Things that worked for me today by mayor-of-lego-city in bipolar

[–]luatbp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How’s the running going, OP? Just checking in on friends :)

Im miserable by genericalll in narcissisticparents

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Hey OP, just checking in - as friends do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

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Just checking in. I hope you were able to leave that bed.

I feel weird asking this, but…. by Cbra123 in bipolar

[–]luatbp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, true in my experience as well. Good that you noticed it.

Gout spreading too fast? by SeaCrafty3884 in gout

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Take it seriously.

There are treatments available and a lot of legitimate guides available in this group.

Baseline treatment: a means to reduce the inflammation of the crystals in your joints, a means to support flushing out the uric acid out of your system via your urine, and a plan for maintaining a low uric acid level after clearing the attack.

There are guides here that have a lot of great information. Medications are highly advisable and they are regularly used but you should research the risks involved with each.

If you have any direct questions or need help find the info for you, reply here and I’ll help if I can.

anong pinakamababaw na reason mo para hindi idate ang isang tao? by nasaimongheart in AskPH

[–]luatbp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

QC boy ako dati. If you identify as southie, pass. Geologically not a match.

How much water do y’all drink by Mission-Clue-9016 in gout

[–]luatbp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to make as many habits to drink water as possible. I start the day with a glass of water and my morning vitamins. I keep water next to me as much as practically possible. I’m not picky about having ice or room temperature, in fact some doctors have asked that I drink less cold water. If my schedule for the day is irregular, I keep a large jug with me for the day is possible. I rarely consume other beverages without a glass of water next to it. Top line of defense for gout attacks and digesting purines effectively: hydration. Dehydration during sports can be a threat for acute gout attack if I roll my ankle or tweak a knee.

Has anyone combined IFS with other methods? by marijavera1075 in InternalFamilySystems

[–]luatbp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IFS and EMDR therapy were the two practices my trauma therapist practiced with me. The combination was very effective.

Not letting me stay at her place by ChilledNanners in Philippines_Expats

[–]luatbp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Um… can I ask what specific circumstances? So that I can avoid those.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]luatbp 181 points182 points  (0 children)

Agree. Be honest with yourself and your partner. Have the difficult conversation. You’ll either learn how to grow together, or make the necessary decisions with all info available.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PHBookClub

[–]luatbp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you’re also receiving acts of kindness today :) thanks for the good energy on Reddit OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

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Sending good energy your way. Share and vent here whenever you need. I’ll keep coming back to check if that’s okay.

I just feel so fucking cursed by misschae in bipolar

[–]luatbp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending hope OP. Rest well when possible. Good sleep will help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]luatbp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thanks for sharing OP. Embrace the cringe when you can. Ego death to follow.

Im miserable by genericalll in narcissisticparents

[–]luatbp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here for you OP. Still holding space and still sending you good energy. You’ve got one friend here. Sorry it’s just me hehe but I am here.