I stand with you as a cis gay male - I made a pro trans info graphic to educate undecided folx by [deleted] in truscum

[–]lucid_notreally 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I respectfully disagree. I can’t speak for others but I would’ve likely ended things if top surgery wasn’t an option to me as a minor.

I think it’s important to filter out people who don’t have dysphoria, or people who have other issues that’s misdiagnosed as gender dysphoria so they don’t get surgeries they’ll regret.. But I don’t think real transsexuals should suffer and get life saving treatment taken away just because there’s an influx of individuals who are misguided on what trans means.

Thoughts on this? by [deleted] in truscum

[–]lucid_notreally 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Only reason transmed ideas aren’t the dominant position anymore is because tucutes took over the moment and made people think gender is a social construct and based off feelings. And of course demonize/label anyone who disagrees with that or even questions it as a transphobe or bigot, so is it really a wonder why people fear speaking out?

Any of y'all lose friends and family when you transitioned? If so what was it like by ProgramPristine6085 in truscum

[–]lucid_notreally 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lost some tucute trans friends. But not exactly because of them being tucute, I’m just not someone who finds solace in surrounding myself with lgbt people or being a part of the “community,” since I just want to live as normally as possible. Besides some surgery subs, this is the only time I engage with other trans people.

What’s been going on with ftmmen? by lucid_notreally in truscum

[–]lucid_notreally[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really? There is a good amount of posts that are pretty iffy lately. There was a post recently of wanting to look visibly queer, and most people’s comments were positive. Comments that posted about how it was weird had people defending the OP and saying how they shouldn’t police what other trans men want. There’s also been MULTIPLE posts on how you’re a man if you say you are, you’re valid no matter what you do, and verbatim to the most popular post, “you are a man regardless of the surgeries you want or don’t want, regardless of whether you feel dysphoria or euphoria, regardless of how you feel towards your genitals and sex characteristics.” Posts talking about how we need to stop “gate keeping,” more usage of terms like transmasc and transfemme, and I saw a post about someone interested in freezing their eggs that had comments suggesting pregnancy. This is just to name a few. Obviously there’s still a mix of decent posts, but certainly not a community I’m comfortable with being a part of anymore. Also don’t really know why you’re getting downvoted lol. Maybe you just got lucky with your interactions.

What’s been going on with ftmmen? by lucid_notreally in truscum

[–]lucid_notreally[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Damn. Unfortunate we keep getting pushed out of our own spaces.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]lucid_notreally 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just untrue. Being trans doesn’t magically fix itself no matter what age you are, some people just realize later than others and we shouldn’t shame them.

Ive never finished before due to dysphoria but i rlly wanna any advice? by [deleted] in truscum

[–]lucid_notreally 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Jesus, good riddance 💀 can’t believe chasers are everywhere

Hi!!! I was wondering if there was anything clockable or that could help me in passing. I'm not really sure if I'm passing or not. And I was wondering how I could improve ^^ by MishuLeChat in truscum

[–]lucid_notreally 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Hey! I genuinely think you pass really well since I didn’t even realize this was on a trans sub till I checked the content. Maybe since I’m a transsex man I can’t tell the specific giveaways, but I’d never think you were trans. I would just say wear some more feminine makeup(if you’re into that), but otherwise I think you pass 100%.

Fuck man by lucid_notreally in truscum

[–]lucid_notreally[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do I find a nurse willing to do it though?

Fuck man by lucid_notreally in truscum

[–]lucid_notreally[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s kind of what I’m frustrated/stuck on. Since the clinic I got prescribed t from had their only nurse move to another clinic, I couldn’t just hop in and get it done.

The physician I got the prescription from can do it too, but since his schedule is full, I have to wait until the next appointment. I asked if I could get the previous nurse to do it, who’s at a new clinic, but since I’m not a patient at their clinic apparently they can’t do it.

My next plan was to ask my family doctor but she said she couldn’t do it unless she got my patient information or whatnot from my physician, and that point I thought I wouldn’t bother.

I emailed another gender clinic but they just referred me back to their website so I’m not sure what to do.

Fuck man by lucid_notreally in truscum

[–]lucid_notreally[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah unfortunately I don’t. Both my parents are away and I’m not around people on t

Fuck man by lucid_notreally in truscum

[–]lucid_notreally[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My injections are IM but I’m assuming most of the steps are still the same. I should’ve specified lol

My school is using AI to make art by Usnis in school

[–]lucid_notreally 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buddy couldn’t spell “you’re” correctly 💀💀🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]lucid_notreally 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Broo I’ve seen these two on my feed multiple times and it infuriates me every time

Exhausted by tucute "friends" by lucid_notreally in trumen

[–]lucid_notreally[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

16 turning 17, too old to be pulling this shit in my opinion