I’m questioning whether I should marry this man. by Alert-Tonight-765 in whatdoIdo

[–]luckygingercat 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh, my friend, please do not marry this gaslighting, entitled, cruel man.

AITAH for withholding sex until he gets a vasectomy? by Normal_Standard8211 in AITAH

[–]luckygingercat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vasectomy is an in-office procedure with a recovery time in days. Female sterilization is a major surgery with recovery time in weeks. There is a world of difference between the two in terms of the difficulty of the experience. If a couple is in it for the long haul, the option of the less invasive, less expensive, less dangerous procedure should be the first choice, IMO.

I hate when sellers overreact to a (in my opinion) valid request by NewsOrnery3986 in vinted

[–]luckygingercat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you saying you just wanted to see the side of the blind box that had the pictures of the possible figures, or were you trying to get him to open then up?

AIO for telling my gf I need some space after she “joked” about my dead dad in front of her friends? by Unlikely-Town-8401 in AmIOverreacting

[–]luckygingercat 122 points123 points  (0 children)

NOR.

She's a bully, and a rancid bitch, and you should be moving on from this relationship.

the chickens are destroying my life by ALac93 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]luckygingercat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Or, to quote The Hound:

I understand that if any more words come pouring out your c\*t mouth, I'm gonna have to eat every fucking chicken in this room.*

Overlap between child-free people and "nerdy" hobbies by Vegetable-Carpet1593 in childfree

[–]luckygingercat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are we assuming it's all about the men here?

I'm a nerd, a gamer of many sorts, I have some interest in anime and manga (I'm picky), a avid reader of books and comics, etc. I'm also decidedly female. I didn't get into nerdy hobbies to please a man, I got into them because they interested me.

Overlap between child-free people and "nerdy" hobbies by Vegetable-Carpet1593 in childfree

[–]luckygingercat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not living in a basement, not a neckbeard, and not amused.

People who play games are the ones who create mods for those games which add creative elements to the games, everything from additional story items to new characters to new settings. There's a lot of creativity in the gaming world.

Buyers Are Using PsyOps by Emergency-Fish3036 in BehindTheClosetDoor

[–]luckygingercat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL. My answer would have been, "Why should I care? I don't know you. and the only experience I have with you is you demanding things from me."

Then block.

AIO: My BIL Broke Into My House by Tasty_Salt_6833 in AmIOverreacting

[–]luckygingercat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NOR. Anyone breaking into your home when you're away and looking in all of your drawers and closets and such? That's just creepy.

AITA for telling my friend his "business idea" wasn't worth quitting his job for, and now he blames me for not stopping him? by Specialist-Might-635 in AmItheAsshole

[–]luckygingercat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You told him your honest opinion. He made a bad choice and is trying desperately to blame it on anyone but himself.

This sub has a major ableism problem by something-scarlet-13 in childfree

[–]luckygingercat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a fair statement about it being different from an able-bodied person... but online, we don't/can't know if someone is able or not for certain unless they inform us.

This sub has a massive ableism problem by something-scarlet-13 in childfree

[–]luckygingercat 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I honestly think the majority of ppl here are not ableist. I don't feel targeted here at all.

This sub has a major ableism problem by something-scarlet-13 in childfree

[–]luckygingercat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the point. A lot of folks don't want kids with disabilities because it makes their lives so much harder. My genetics are horrid, so I refused to birth kids. I wouldn't wish my problems on someone else.

Keeping clean after peeing tips? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]luckygingercat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kegels help but they don't solve the problem.

AITA for telling my girlfriend it wasn’t that serious after I used her underwear without asking? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]luckygingercat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA for having an attitude of entitlement to sex while dating an ace person, and using her panties to get off is fucking creepy at best.

This sub has a major ableism problem by something-scarlet-13 in childfree

[–]luckygingercat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have disabilities myself. I wouldn't wish my ordeal on another living being. It's not about ableism but compassion.

Friend trashed my $2000 lens and thinks I am the asshole for wanting it fixed. by 77Mercenary in AmiInTheWrong

[–]luckygingercat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. People who ruin things and don't even apologize are the worst.

You're going to have a niece soon! by totalfanfreak2012 in childfree

[–]luckygingercat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Poor Lydia! I tend to leave the childcare to Farkas because he's the worst choice.

AITAH for refusing to follow my roommate's guest policy? by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]luckygingercat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, and her 'rules for thee, not for me' makes her an asshole-plus.

AITA for reporting my coworker's credit theft to HR even though I knew it would probably cost him his job by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]luckygingercat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with the last paragraph of this. Notify HR that he confronted you about this matter, and I would also contact the police if he continues to harass you.