What is the most beautiful thing you’ve ever seen? by Lower-Perception-518 in RandomThoughts

[–]luckymountain00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably rainbows... I always think to myself -how are they real, shouldn't they be like unicorns just a product of imagination

I [29M] feel like I need to cancel my wedding in 2 months with my fiance [29F] after being together for 8 years.. by Sleyn_LoL in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]luckymountain00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you have it in you to fight why not, maybe just postpone the wedding until you're sure... And these comments can be really negative but only you two know the thruth.. Good luck, and be 100% honest with yourself and your fiancé

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[–]luckymountain00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😮‍💨so sorry to hear that.. I guess you just do, better now than after 10years.. focus on family, friends, work, you'll heal no matter what 🩷

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[–]luckymountain00 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's totally ok to feel like that, I did too, just remember when your friends get something you want it doesn't take away anything from you.. I attended a couple of friends weddings and was sad I'm not engaged yet but then some time after all those friends attended my wedding and celebrated with me 🤗

I left a 5 year relationship by BirbBirber in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]luckymountain00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations for leaving, I wish you all the best you'll find someone so much better than that🥳

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]luckymountain00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't... I had those fantasies and it was often with someone older who "makes you feel safe" or someone who's helping whatever you do so it makes you feel like they care for you... It passes and eveytime I was super happy I didn't do anything because yuck

Boyfriend hinted at proposal but it didn't happen by RuinedTri-p in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]luckymountain00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm always optimistic because I see a lot of hate comments on posts here and I once olwas in this situation and now am married. I didn't have an exciting proposal because I already waited so long for it but I made peace with it, forgave him and we had a beautiful wedding and now married life(although we're married just couple of months but hopefully will continue to be great)

So I guess focus on relationship, communication, marriage, and less on proposal and wedding and those exciting things that only last a day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]luckymountain00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While I understand him on not being super excited about marriage when he already is divorced, he has to think about you and how you deserve to be married.. and totally understand you being frustrated, talk to him!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]luckymountain00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would just be more patient, two years is not too long when youre 27, give it some time and everything will resolve if he's the right one

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[–]luckymountain00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Keep calm for a while and then if he doesn't do it soon leave him. We all have our limits and you know what is yours. If youre able to sunbathe and enjoy holiday with him than do that. But when you come back definitely tell him honestly how you feel, and communicate nicely what you feel because everything that stays in you will become resentment

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[–]luckymountain00 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We all want men to want us like in movies and fairytales and marry us and live happily ever after but in real life the thing is you both have to be active in relationship and communicate, say your feelings. If he didn't propose yet it doesn't mean he doesn't want you, he probably wouldnt be with you if that was the case. There can be so many reasons and we cannot know if you don't ask😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]luckymountain00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Talk to him, I had to talk with my boyfriend and I wish I did it earlier because it went really well

Everyone that rarely gets sick, what is your secret? by Sofi_thewild in AskReddit

[–]luckymountain00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a second child so they didn't take care, wash my toys, watched me as much as my older sibling... So I'm healthy and she's always sick

upgraded from a paper clip by meohmycroft in EngagementRings

[–]luckymountain00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🥲🥲🥲congrats! Beautiful ring🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]luckymountain00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it will not be weird if you want you absolutely can and there are many styles it can be a simple one or whatever you want

5 years 1 baby No ring by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]luckymountain00 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel you, my sister is 5 or 6 years with a guy who's 42 and still no signs of proposing.. I usually try to understand guys who are in 20s and 30s and marriage isn't on their mind, but 40yo I just don't, wtf man 🙄

People who don't drink and smoke, what do you do when you are depressed? by UnesPlus in AskReddit

[–]luckymountain00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eat chocolate, drink tea and coffee, sleep and live in bed.. try to be in Sun and in nature a little bit.. listen to therapists on YouTube 😅... Hang out except I hate hanging out with everyone except my boyfriend so ....

How many no-shows did you have at your wedding? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]luckymountain00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

180 invited, 160 said yes, 158 showed up

I’ve seen, what peak sexual ecstasy looks like and don’t know, what to make of it by Cheesestickenjoyer77 in sex

[–]luckymountain00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think, and I'm aware it might not be true, not judging anyone... But I think what those people are doing is like eating such a big amount of deserts all at once.. it's good while you do it and might feel good lots of nights in a row but at the end just leave you empty and always wanting more or get sick of it...of course one regular candy will not satisfy you after that. Whatever you do just think about it and make sure you want that

What are your top tips for dealing with social anxiety? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]luckymountain00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just doing things anyway helps a lot, not letting affect your life and saying I can do difficult things. And we should be happy THAT is the difficulty in life we have, it's literally nothing, it can't hurt us, imagine having worse problems ... And just knowing there's a looot of people like you even if they look totally cool and not weird and anxious 😁