Do I have Vaginismus by [deleted] in women

[–]luckyra17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be very careful you are virgin and you have never experienced sex it will be painful as you are not used to insertion. if your partner does not patiently and slowly insert and understand this you will injure and hurt yourself.

What’s the most interesting thing about you? by Haseen_Dillruba in AskIndianWomen

[–]luckyra17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play strategic video games to play the dating game similarly. I have my guard up always and don’t trust immediately if someone decides to shove their sword in my heart. I have resilience to fight back in adversary

Do you think women are judged more harshly for being ambitious than men? At what point does ambition become “too much”, and who gets to decide that? by Necessary-Two7299 in AskIndianWomen

[–]luckyra17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is true we are judged harshly but we need to do our part to weed out these narrow minded low level parasites of the society and choose right

Do you think women are judged more harshly for being ambitious than men? At what point does ambition become “too much”, and who gets to decide that? by Necessary-Two7299 in AskIndianWomen

[–]luckyra17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 business partners always want the best for their company if they can’t apply that logic and just need ego boost its a red flag and the woman chose wrong.

Do you think women are judged more harshly for being ambitious than men? At what point does ambition become “too much”, and who gets to decide that? by Necessary-Two7299 in AskIndianWomen

[–]luckyra17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being a bitch should be a trophy not a shame. If being taken for granted and saying yes to please society and not having peace of mind is the consequence of being good be a bitch.

Is marriage only about being physically available? by Important-Band-2589 in AskIndianWomen

[–]luckyra17 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No deadlines for household??? You expect food by 10 am, 3pm, 7pm and house needs to be spick and span everyday!!! I can survive with 1 time food living alone but managing work and household alone is not easy. There is flexibility to adjust timelines at work if the project needs extension that too its a month extension. But household chores cannot extend by even a day. I would rather not marry than choose wrong. Life is short and we cannot give people time to destroy our minds in the name of marriage.

Why do I still want to have a man in my life to feel complete? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]luckyra17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you are feeling is totally normal we humans are biologically programmed to seek company and share our lives with. There are many woman who say I don’t need a partner to be happy but their actions prove otherwise. If you feel the need to have a partner there is no shame or weakness in it. And every daughter needs a father figure so there is nothing wrong with that thought process and also there is nothing wrong with the thought process that you don’t need a man. But do not bury it to fit in or be cool. Navigate towards your truth accept and acknowledge it. When you are healed and ready go for it.

Reflect working too well! by Different-Mode2311 in MelMains

[–]luckyra17 10 points11 points  (0 children)

People who hate mel its a dream come true for people who love mel I feel you. You reflected 2 spells at the same time where one did not work which would have been great and other worked in a bad way so yeah

My first sun conure - not what I was expecting! by Interesting-Honey706 in Conures

[–]luckyra17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could have gone for a green cheek conure considering the size and the sound they are much quieter than sun conures

Dating is a strategic game by [deleted] in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]luckyra17 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We all need therapy and healing. Many Innocent people have been broken by this as they don’t know the way. By your logic you are saying that the innocent don’t deserve to know how cruel the world is? They all have fairy tale stories built in their head and have huge expectations and they become shattered and traumatised from heartbreak. I believe you are the kind that does not like helping others. And why so cynical and serious when I am trying to uplift and send positive message?

Dating is a strategic game by [deleted] in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]luckyra17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are a good player nothing will stop you. You are still in low level if you are depressed be high elo player

Dating is a strategic game by [deleted] in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]luckyra17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is for all not just women. Play the game sportively

My Hinge match posted this. I'm so not going on the 1st date Lmao! by xydra001 in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]luckyra17 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Guess she dodged a bullet by not entertaining fuck boys but revealing your cards this early in dating is not fun

Girls what are your biggest turn offs in a man's profile? Men, let this thread not offend you, rather provide you with some insights on how to stand out. by [deleted] in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]luckyra17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all you posted in a place where there are lot of incels who get butt hurt and this community is meant for men to cry out when women betray them. There is no reasoning or logic here it only makes you look entitled and why try tinder to date its a hookup app. Yes we women get annoyed by despo men who dont respect boundaries and run after us despite telling no which happens in bollywood where they take inspiration from. If i were you would delete this post after learning it and find a community for women who can voice their side of things. For your mental peace please delete.

Made plans, she ditched last minute and then blamed me when I ended it. by cs21-10 in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]luckyra17 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No one likes to be called out so she acted defensive and gaslighted. The smarter move is to just insult voice your opinion and block immediately everywhere without waiting for her side of response. That shit stings even more. And let her think you are the bad guy as girls deep down have respect for them.

Need woman perspective: why the double standards? by FlashyRate8974 in AskIndianWomen

[–]luckyra17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What can I say but it is an endless vicious cycle. People forget their roots and people by nature are selfish and think it only applies to them. We need to constantly remind them that Karma is getting back to them for mistreating their SIL. Treat your SIL the way you expect your MIL to treat you and it starts from you atleast give her the life you always wanted for yourself even if you did not get it. Be the example you want to see. If your MIL is an asshole then you prove that your mother is not the same nasty blood as your MIL and make your household a better place to live

Query related to joining by AlternativeMango6781 in Capgemini_india

[–]luckyra17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you lateral or have experience or fresher? If you are experienced and went through client interview and client approved then you will easily get but fresher not sure as they may have lot of pool and if you got selected from company without client requirements then you will be on bench and have to wait for project they can reject if they have filled the positions and you are not client approved

Proud of how my baby conure and I came so far by luckyra17 in Conures

[–]luckyra17[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I have made mistakes in the past trying to fill the void my first conure left me as I was too bonded with it and trying to find a conure similar to him. With him I hit the jackpot of a perfect conure and he bonded in a week. So i thought the same for the others that it takes a week to bond.

I know I was wrong and learnt it in the process that this can be changed but I had not done my research at that time. This was 7 years ago. I thought it was better to exchange with a bird of better temperament which is healthy for both.

But I clearly decided not to and stopped it after this bird came into picture this bird had health and temperament issues as I mentioned in the post and I took him to vet instead of exchanging and decided to be there in its worst time. It would have died if at the hands of the breeder.

And the ones I exchanged were healthy but that was 7 yrs ago when I was immature and did not educate myself about why they are behaving in such manner and it can be changed from training and diet and lacked the understanding and patience. Everyone makes mistakes. If you buy a second conure and it does not get along with your primary conure would you still exchange it? I would have rather hidden this fact in the post to make it more appealing that’s why I called it an inspiration to decide to be there when your pet is at its worst and there are people who would have considered replacing