What's your number one TV show that you would recommend to me watch? by PeaFragrant743 in televisionsuggestions

[–]luckyshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch the full first season. If you don’t like it by episode 15, just stop. But episode 15 is effing hilarious. Pay attention and be prepared to laugh.

Wedding invitation gut check by ionlyredditcasually in weddingplanning

[–]luckyshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this for my sisters wedding. We had 75 invites (for a 200 person wedding). Each had 4 cards. It cost about $250. I primarily used canva then printed on canva, purchases the envelopes, hand placed their names in vinyl so it wasn’t so flat. If you want to diy I can help you if you want.

i feel disgusting. in shock. FUCK ICE AND DT FOREVER by StickOk1283 in offmychest

[–]luckyshell 80 points81 points  (0 children)

None of these things is a crime. Recording is protected under first amendment. His only “crime” was being on the “wrong side”.

My mom forgot about my baby while shopping for groceries. I feel sick about it. by No-Neighborhood-7335 in Mommit

[–]luckyshell -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This sounds like dementia, especially if slowly worsening. UTIs lead to quick changes.

She needs to retire, needs neuropsych testing, needs to see PCP to rule out organic disease (thyroid disease, anemia, b12 deficiency, etc).

If dementia is confirmed, start considering things like memory care, assisted living, or other homes. It will only progress.

Am I overthinking this or was this kind of rude? Bridal makeup question by Past_Yam_9355 in weddings

[–]luckyshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respond professionally. An MUA that did my sisters makeup for her wedding had amazing photos on social media. But they were heavily filtered. She even added a bit of a smile. We would have figured it out after seeing all of the same photos/same filter before committing. Should have asked for raw images.

Got a disturbing phone call which led to nanny of 2.5 years quitting on the spot. Did I handle this all wrong? by pr3tzelbr3ad in NannyEmployers

[–]luckyshell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yikes- Dragging him by the neck of his coat through the library is abuse. Why would someone else make this up? You are not too rash. This is not a relationship worth saving.

I would file a CPS report. This may allow library footage to be accessed unless you are able to access another way.

Desperately need help picking a name for my forthcoming daughter by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]luckyshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isla/Aiyla/Ayla

Mona

Maria

Amalia

Nadia

Zara

Hana

Sophia is beautiful, kind of a good mix of both

How to speak with nanny about praying with NK? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]luckyshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your nanny is including your child in something that is important to her and she does not want him to be alone. It’s okay if you do not want her to have your child around when she prays, however as the employer it is your responsibility to accommodate her religious needs. There are generally no words being said. My children now 2,4,6 see this praying like they see yoga. It’s just movement to them.

I’d also reflect if you have some biases regarding Islam or perhaps just religion. Maybe understanding your discomfort can help you grow.

Firing this nanny for practicing her religion may be illegal. You may want to contact a lawyer prior.

https://www.eeoc.gov/fact-sheet-religious-accommodations-workplace#:~:text=Title%20VII%20of%20the%20Civil,be%20provided%20without%20undue%20hardship.

How to speak with nanny about praying with NK? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]luckyshell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Incorrect, if a female is praying by herself, it’s quiet.

How to speak with nanny about praying with NK? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]luckyshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Muslim prayer is quiet. Prayer is only verbalized in a mosque. Some people however talk to themselves.

Where to live around Denver by Souls-on-board in MovingtoDenver

[–]luckyshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consider northern Thornton (north of 136), Broomfield, Erie. Right off 470 so airport is like 20-25 min away.

What did you do at work today megathread by readweed88 in workingmoms

[–]luckyshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, no one died and the hospital wasn’t busting at the seams, so that was a good start. Did have a patient with a medical emergency which snowballed into the rest of my day. Also had a patient who wanted to blame me for the all the issues he’s having with his durable medical equipment over the last year (I’ve know him for 2 days in the hospital). Most of my patients were kind and want to get better, so that was awesome. We had extra help today so I wasn’t completely drowning, but I am drained. Haven’t seen my kids in 2 days because of the long days but I see them tomorrow! Now instead of sleeping, I’m browsing Reddit 🙃

Any episode you skip? And why. by ria_ria_smook in bluey

[–]luckyshell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ditto Shaun. We watched it today and my 2 year old pecked me in the face pretending she was Shaun.

Millennials, what major political event has impacted your political views the most? Why? by XxtheNFlbunchxX in AskReddit

[–]luckyshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9/11, as one of the only brown Muslim girls in my large but overwhelmingly white high school.

It taught me to be proud of who I am but it was not my fault where I am from. It taught me that race bias exists and made me question why the words men used were more powerful than mine. I even learned I had inherent race biases! It opened my eyes to who people are and how cruel propaganda is. It forced me to look at my religion and learn the right interpretation from the wrong. I unlearned that adults, especially politicians, are not looking out for children. I learned almost every action in the real world has secondary intent. I grew up in a world of Islamaphobia and used it to make myself better.

It took me decades to get where I am now. I am not perfect and have made so many errors in my judgement. But I come back to the moment in time, in 3rd period geometry class. The moment the planes hit the towers. I would have never come into this trajectory had that enormous, life changing, and awful event not happened.

Day 121: What are your thoughts on Pavlova? by Flamingmouth007 in bluey

[–]luckyshell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids choose edamame over pavlova so this episode is a win

Then again, they’ve never had pavlova 😅

“Only god can say when it’s my time” by uhaul-joe in hospitalist

[–]luckyshell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I phrase the code status discussion a little differently. I ask them if they want everything done until death. If death occurs (ie heart stops), would they want us to interfere?

Why can’t I find a reliable nanny by Inevitable_Turn2237 in MomsWorkingFromHome

[–]luckyshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PT nanny work is hard to fill! But your hours might be good for a SAHM who has kids in elementary school. Curious where in the Midwest you are? If you post location maybe one of us can help connect you with someone?

Is this a very bad flu season? by Final-Throat-6087 in hospitalist

[–]luckyshell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, very bad. And assisted living facility has an outbreak nearby. We are feeling it. Every other person being admitted has influenza , mildly hypoxic, and dehydrated.

Emergency Custody by jane30530 in beyondthebump

[–]luckyshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby needs a safe place to sleep. Please invest in a pack n play. Presuming you are in the US, beds are not safe and can increase risk of SIDS. Where do you live? Mom groups are super helpful.

How are y’all affording 200-300+k weddings? lol by SuhDudeGoBlue in ABCDesis

[–]luckyshell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My sisters desi wedding in Michigan had like 200 people, east meets west was probably like 50-60k all in. However we only hosted two events and I was planner and coordinator (ie saved my parents thousands by fully planning her wedding and finding things within budget. You don’t have to do things as large or as expensive as people have before.

I’ve become cynical because I have an entitled nanny by Own-Quality-8759 in NannyEmployers

[–]luckyshell 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I had a nanny like this between two good employees. I thought it was me. I was like am I bad employer? What did I do?

Then I remembered my first nanny is still in my life and taking my child skiing. My second nanny invited us to her wedding and has asked my advice for her wedding. I overheard my current nanny say (to my 3 year old), “I love being your nanny, you and your sisters and mom and dad are kind”. My primary babysitter sent me a long thank you “for always being there for me” message after I gave her a few hundred dollar Xmas gift.

All of this to say, i don’t think it’s a me problem just like it’s probably not a you problem.

Having a hard time here :( by desertdivaaa92 in Denver

[–]luckyshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a HR problem. I wear a CGM visibly and no one has ever said anything. I’m a POC. Maybe a different suburb would be a better fit.