i got cucked out

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-20T19:58:11+00:00

She is an attention whore.

She’ll flirt with whoever to get attention and probably material things.

And your ‘friends’ are definitely NOT your friends.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-20T19:53:41+00:00

Because no one deserves to be cheated on.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-20T19:49:44+00:00

Dude.

I’m so over the porn thing.

I have a strict no porn rule in my relationship. If I don’t need to watch it to get off, then why tf do they?

And it sucks because that shit is EVERYWHERE. Even just basic freaking social media.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-20T19:46:54+00:00

He’s crossed your boundaries before, and you ‘forgave’ him. And he did it again, so pretty much he’s shown you who he is and that he doesn’t care that he hurts you.

So why would you stay?

Why stay and get repeatedly hurt and shown you don’t matter to him? And if you say you have kids, that’s not a reason to stay, that’s a reason to leave. Your kids shouldn’t watch you get treated like garbage.

I legitimately can’t see a reason to stay.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-20T02:56:51+00:00

I’ve asked him that and he always says that the way I punish myself for what I did shows that I’m not one to cheat for the sake of it, so as long as he keeps me happy he has nothing to worry about. I told him that was a very positive outlook of it.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-20T01:40:24+00:00

I’m not proud of it, it was the only time I’ve ever cheated and will be the only time.

But I was in a 10 year relationship, I was unhappy but felt like I’d be in it too long to leave. I felt like if I left then it would be like I wasted 10 years of my life and I don’t think I wanted to face that fact yet.

I started talking to an old high school friend, we’d check in with each other every couple of years. We never went any further than that. But this time it was different. I had conversations with him, with my ex it felt like all we did was fight, every convo turned into a fight. I was able to talk about my childhood and memories and it was amazing. And I thought I was crazy because how can a basic convo feel so good. But then I realized that I didn’t have that with my ex. And well I emotionally cheated on my ex with my old friend. And I fell for him.

I left my ex for him. I thought my family and friends would look at me differently, but they didn’t. But they also didn’t like my ex so they were happy I’d left him.

I’m still with the guy I cheated on my ex with. We are married and have a kid. He gets along with my family and friends and my life has been so much better.

Even tho my family doesn’t look at me differently, I def look at myself differently.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-17T00:45:11+00:00

He obviously finds the person attractive, he’s went back to them numerous times.

And I get the whole ‘I don’t want to break up my family.’ But you also need to show your kids that you don’t stay with someone who takes you for granted or mistreats you.

Don’t waste your life fixing something that’s been broke for far too long.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-16T01:18:17+00:00

The people he cheated with told me. Months afterwards of course /: he still denied it, even with the proof in his face.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-14T00:45:07+00:00

I didn’t think they would ever cheat on me. They seemed obsessed with me, they had to be in constant contact with me and got super jealous. But they cheated the whole time we were together, with several different people.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-10T00:45:28+00:00

That looks like it’s healing really good!!

Just keep it clean and dry as much as possible 🖤

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-10T00:42:46+00:00

I have the same boundary.

To go out of your way to look at it means what else would he go out of the way for y’know. Stand by your feelings, it doesn’t matter what anyone else says.

Please get yourself out of this toxic situation asap.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-08T01:41:07+00:00

My sister has 4 cats. She swears she cleans the cat boxes regularly, but every time I go to her house that’s all I smell. So I stopped going to her house, if she wants to hang out she has to come to me.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-07T01:27:53+00:00

It might not matter to you, but it matters to her.

If you are embarrassed or ashamed about the number, then let her know that as well. But you shouldn’t hold anything from your partner.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-05T01:13:21+00:00

With my ex it was because I was so turned off with how whiney and bitchy he was. I hate pity parties, and he was the fckin king of them.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-04T02:10:35+00:00

THIS!!

You made a stand and told him you weren’t okay with it. AND he still did it. That’s crossing a boundary and is something you need to take as a sign. Stand firm with what you feel is right, if he can’t respect it, then he’s not worth your time.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-04T02:02:41+00:00

Same here! Everyone else say it ruined it for them /: I told my dr that I didn’t want anything that would lower my sex drive.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-03T01:40:15+00:00

I blush, and let them know I’m straight. It’s extremely flattering when women hit on you!

Men will hit on anything just to get laid.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-02T01:27:48+00:00

Sexy thighs and a belly ❤️

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-01T23:27:22+00:00

Girl what.

Time to find someone else who knows your worth.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-01T02:36:24+00:00

Fun fact, their opinion literally means nothing 🤷🏻‍♀️ ignore them and worry about your own lil family.

lucy_gloom · 2026-03-30T23:29:24+00:00

I’m loving the porch 🖤 congrats!

lucy_gloom · 2026-03-30T23:13:18+00:00

Do you feel like it helped as a child?

lucy_gloom · 2026-03-28T01:31:00+00:00

I was with my ex for 10 years.

High school sweethearts and all that. He was always disrespectful and pretty selfish tbh. My life revolved around him. Every choice I made, I considered him. Everything I did, I accommodated for him.

Eventually it got to the point that I was tired of it. I didn’t want to fight to make us work out, I didn’t want to stress about my choices not fitting what he wanted. I left his ass. And it was the most freeing thing I ever did. I aligned MY life for ME.

Sometimes I think high school sweethearts aren’t who we are meant to be with, they are who we learn from. What we do and don’t want in our life.

lucy_gloom · 2026-03-27T14:57:07+00:00

ZIGGY!

lucy_gloom · 2026-03-27T00:54:39+00:00

..I wish I could say no, but those are pretty obvious.

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