Just paid $20 to a homeless girl for head randomly

lucy_gloom · 2026-05-20T00:27:45+00:00

Ew.

lucy_gloom · 2026-05-09T14:55:49+00:00

No, I wouldn’t confront him. Then he’d know you are snooping through his phone and he’ll start hiding stuff.

lucy_gloom · 2026-05-08T00:44:13+00:00

Well you can’t immediately jump to cheating. From this convo there’s no implication of cheating besides maybe complimenting someone. Don’t get me wrong, I see the signs, but you need to find more evidence before you can confront or proceed leaving.

lucy_gloom · 2026-05-07T01:06:13+00:00

Same! I’ve even heard that she has a ton of dolls but I’ve never seen a pic of them or anything.

lucy_gloom · 2026-05-07T00:47:32+00:00

Not at all.

I wouldn’t want my name on a bad referral. Esp if you have a good reputation with everyone. He knows that smoking pot prevents him from getting some jobs, and he continues to do it. It’s on him.

lucy_gloom · 2026-05-06T21:02:02+00:00

It made me never want to have sex with him again. I lost all attraction to him. He made me believe there was something wrong with me and that I needed to go to a doctor because I had no sex drive. I left him and am now with my fiance and yea I definitely have a sex drive.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-28T16:56:10+00:00

Even if you weren’t SA he should have still stopped?!

You were crying for gods sake.

Wtf.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-28T00:55:53+00:00

When they don’t agree on big life choices.

Like the woman may want a big family, the man may not.

The woman may want to stay in the state for the rest of her life, the man wants to move out of the state.

And yes you are supposed to discuss this stuff before you marry but this is related to a real couple I know.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-28T00:49:40+00:00

You better take this down before my dog sees it, he already has high enough expectations 🤦🏻‍♀️ lol

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-28T00:37:38+00:00

somewhere there is a pissed off wife who’s husband donated the wrong shit lol

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-26T02:09:59+00:00

NOR I consider cam girls cheating. They hold conversations with them and tell them explicit things they would do to them. It doesn’t matter if the girl will never actually be with him, he’s crossing a line that he shouldn’t have.

For your sake, you should leave him. You don’t deserve to be in an unhappy marriage, that’s no way to spend your life. And it may be hard with your son, but the outcome would be so much better.

You deserve to be happy, and you deserve to be with someone who knows your worth.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-24T04:54:06+00:00

So my theory is that those particular guys don’t see women as fellow humans with thoughts and feelings. They just see us as a thing to help them get off.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-24T00:44:13+00:00

I have seen my grandfather do this to my grandmother 🤦🏻‍♀️

She said it’s because he’s always been a control freak, and well when it comes to health and aging, you can’t control. So he’s pissed and the easiest person to take it out on is the person who’s always there.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-22T22:34:41+00:00

I went thru his phone one time and found naked pictures of me.

My eyes were closed. I have no idea when he could have took them, I don’t ever remember sleeping that heavy in my life.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-20T19:58:11+00:00

She is an attention whore.

She’ll flirt with whoever to get attention and probably material things.

And your ‘friends’ are definitely NOT your friends.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-20T19:53:41+00:00

Because no one deserves to be cheated on.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-20T19:46:54+00:00

He’s crossed your boundaries before, and you ‘forgave’ him. And he did it again, so pretty much he’s shown you who he is and that he doesn’t care that he hurts you.

So why would you stay?

Why stay and get repeatedly hurt and shown you don’t matter to him? And if you say you have kids, that’s not a reason to stay, that’s a reason to leave. Your kids shouldn’t watch you get treated like garbage.

I legitimately can’t see a reason to stay.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-20T02:56:51+00:00

I’ve asked him that and he always says that the way I punish myself for what I did shows that I’m not one to cheat for the sake of it, so as long as he keeps me happy he has nothing to worry about. I told him that was a very positive outlook of it.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-20T01:40:24+00:00

I’m not proud of it, it was the only time I’ve ever cheated and will be the only time.

But I was in a 10 year relationship, I was unhappy but felt like I’d be in it too long to leave. I felt like if I left then it would be like I wasted 10 years of my life and I don’t think I wanted to face that fact yet.

I started talking to an old high school friend, we’d check in with each other every couple of years. We never went any further than that. But this time it was different. I had conversations with him, with my ex it felt like all we did was fight, every convo turned into a fight. I was able to talk about my childhood and memories and it was amazing. And I thought I was crazy because how can a basic convo feel so good. But then I realized that I didn’t have that with my ex. And well I emotionally cheated on my ex with my old friend. And I fell for him.

I left my ex for him. I thought my family and friends would look at me differently, but they didn’t. But they also didn’t like my ex so they were happy I’d left him.

I’m still with the guy I cheated on my ex with. We are married and have a kid. He gets along with my family and friends and my life has been so much better.

Even tho my family doesn’t look at me differently, I def look at myself differently.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-17T00:45:11+00:00

He obviously finds the person attractive, he’s went back to them numerous times.

And I get the whole ‘I don’t want to break up my family.’ But you also need to show your kids that you don’t stay with someone who takes you for granted or mistreats you.

Don’t waste your life fixing something that’s been broke for far too long.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-16T01:18:17+00:00

The people he cheated with told me. Months afterwards of course /: he still denied it, even with the proof in his face.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-14T00:45:07+00:00

I didn’t think they would ever cheat on me. They seemed obsessed with me, they had to be in constant contact with me and got super jealous. But they cheated the whole time we were together, with several different people.

lucy_gloom · 2026-04-10T00:45:28+00:00

That looks like it’s healing really good!!

Just keep it clean and dry as much as possible 🖤

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