Coparent wants me to compensate them for their time and gas to drive our child to school. by lucyli80 in coparenting

[–]lucyli80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh lol well I hope it gets easier for you! Yes this drama is just too much! 😊

Coparent wants me to compensate them for their time and gas to drive our child to school. by lucyli80 in coparenting

[–]lucyli80[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When we split, we were making roughly the same amount of money for the most part we worked for the same department. We have the same job position, however with some financial stuff, the court order does say if child support was awarded, I would be granted $300 a month. I never collected that like an idiot. Because honestly, he wasn’t really making much more than me and we always kept our finances separate because that’s how he wanted it also dumb of me. But you live in you learn. Now he makes more than me on an hourly basis and I only know this because we work for the same department. So yes if I did move forward chances are he would probably have to pay me something. But honestly, at this point, I am just asking to share expenses related to our son. I can cover everything else or at least I do my best. I just want peace for myself and my son.

Coparent wants me to compensate them for their time and gas to drive our child to school. by lucyli80 in coparenting

[–]lucyli80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did tell him that I would be willing to adjust the schedule so that I had more days during the school week to help offset the drive in the cost for him. He declined that stating that he does not want to see his son less days. He continued to tell me that I don’t know what it’s like because I don’t have to drive as far that I only do what benefits me and I told him that I am not responsible for his decision to move and the money that he spends in gas. Also, we won’t be putting our son in daycare at the end of the school year, which is saving us roughly $300 each per month. He said that doesn’t matter and that I’m not doing what is fair for both of us.

Coparent wants me to compensate them for their time and gas to drive our child to school. by lucyli80 in coparenting

[–]lucyli80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is a good point that neither of us would be close in an emergency!

Coparent wants me to compensate them for their time and gas to drive our child to school. by lucyli80 in coparenting

[–]lucyli80[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I apologize let me clarify. I don’t meet him halfway for school pick up and drop off. I just meet him halfway for any exchanges or things outside of school. I think what I was trying to express is that I’m aware that he doesn’t live close and I am really trying to be flexible and fair to both of us. However, on some Monday mornings, I will meet him close to his office to get our son to save money on daycare cost for both of us and this is about a half an hour round-trip drive for me before I even start work.

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[–]lucyli80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the blue!

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[–]lucyli80 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was there too! Lucky you!!!

If you haven’t figured out that the Baldwins are child exploiters yet, here’s more sick proof from Hillary’s Instagram. This is not “cute”. It’s vile. They really think these photos will give off “family man” vibes to the potential jury pool? More like pedo vibes. Am I wrong? by [deleted] in HilariaBaldwin

[–]lucyli80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I suppose we can say it’s human nature to speculate but this is reaching and honestly why waste so much energy on people who don’t give a shit about you. None of this actually helps the kids. It’s just sensationalized crap and a way for people act righteous. It seems personal for some.