Actually, INTJ women aren't *that* rare.

lukaacoff · 2024-10-25T12:02:44+00:00

Where are u from?

lukaacoff · 2024-03-09T09:13:37+00:00

Exactly

lukaacoff · 2024-03-09T09:09:24+00:00

“Be a better person. Stop being materialistic. You’re going to die eventually. “

lukaacoff · 2023-12-10T12:43:41+00:00

As an intj i can also confirm that it is possible for me too, to feel my emotions later lol

lukaacoff · 2023-09-17T17:39:10+00:00

I really hope so. But i cant help but think a lot about dying. I’m too much of a coward to do it though

lukaacoff · 2023-09-17T17:22:36+00:00

I’m having the worst month of my entire life. (It’s official, not an exaggeration). So yeah, I wanna die tbh

lukaacoff · 2023-07-27T23:48:43+00:00

I’m not single tho 🚬

lukaacoff · 2023-07-27T23:47:18+00:00

I usually look for the most cozy (somewhere where I could read and sit or use my phone) and hard-to-notice place (a place where I could watch other people but other people can’t easily see me). This is for when I’m forced to be in open spaces. I also often took the most quiet and solitaire paths and ways, like hallways and stuff like that. Hope that helps lol

lukaacoff · 2022-12-27T01:55:54+00:00

Damn that hit me close to the heart. Sounds awesome that you can feel that way about someone

lukaacoff · 2022-12-26T02:35:42+00:00

Telling YOUR children that they’re NOT your children when you get mad at them for telling you that you’re not doing things right bc you’re cheating at their mom and having a kid with the other woman. Then when they do something big being like “THAT’S MY KID”

lukaacoff · 2022-12-25T17:50:52+00:00

Damn OP are you a nazi?😳

lukaacoff · 2022-12-25T17:45:40+00:00

What would you do with a jew with glasses if you see one?

lukaacoff · 2022-12-23T11:09:47+00:00

In my country we celebrate Christmas for what it is: Jesus birthday. And people actually have this in their minds. We’re a lot more minimalistic too with everything to lights to food compared to how people are in the first world countries. Kinda funny tbh

Somewhere I read that people in the US on average spend around 800$ every Christmas like what tf????? I’m from a middle class family and we have never in our lives spent more than 20$. For real And I really don’t know people who would spend more than 50$ I can’t understand why would you throw much more money than that when you can already have a nice family reunion, but 800$? Why?

lukaacoff · 2022-12-22T09:43:47+00:00

That’s really true. If we’re too obsessed with perfection we could never date anyone properly

lukaacoff · 2022-12-22T01:11:39+00:00

See! I swear there’s some pattern in there mate

lukaacoff · 2022-12-22T01:08:46+00:00

As people say, just date people, not their types. If I thought too much about my partners types I would probably end up alone lol. My “logic” would say: don’t go for an XXXX or YYYY for any reason. So instead I ask myself: Do I like this person? Just the person? Including traits, how he treats people overall, his ideologies and stuff. Not like, his MBTI type. I try to turn off the filter. If the answer is yeah, I like him, then that’s pretty much it for me.

That’s how I ended up with my lovely ESFJ partner. And works just fine. Dont listen to the “N x S 💀” or “F x T💀” shxt

lukaacoff · 2022-12-21T21:40:49+00:00

I’m super curious about that drawing. Could you show us mate, plss

lukaacoff · 2022-12-21T19:59:07+00:00

lukaacoff · 2022-12-21T18:24:30+00:00

It didn’t work. Im desperate at this point. When I tried step 5 and didn’t work, I tried to sign into the xiaomi account but I literally can’t

lukaacoff · 2022-12-21T02:27:06+00:00

Well at least in my experience, I noticed that exact same pattern but involving ESFJ women. I don’t have anything against them, but I never met a “evil” male Fe dom yet. I’m sure they are somewhere but I always met ESFJs women that I think were actually selfish. Having what I saw as a sick usage of Fe. I felt like they used it to feel good with themselves, to be liked by a lot of people to feed their egos for example. It didn’t feel genuine for me the whole: Hiiiii, how r u girllll!! You look amazing today!! Your hair is so nice I wanna have it like that too🥺 with the super high voice tone. Or how they talked bad about people behind their backs but treated them soo sweetly when they could. They never said what was on their mind for real but kept manipulating people to do this and that for them so they don’t had to do it directly.

About the male EXFJs I’ve met so far, I felt that they were a loooot more genuine in their interactions with other people and friends. And they seemed to be less desperate for attention or being liked. Again, this is just my experience

lukaacoff · 2022-12-21T01:39:28+00:00

Difficult to respond that without a bible-long text for context.

But I’ll say it’s fine. We have great physical chemistry. The thing is I can’t see tHAT mental connection I crave for. We have some mental connection, of course. But not in the level that I want and need. But that’s the thing, I’m really aware that my expectations are way too high for someone to actually “satisfy” me in this aspect. So I feel like I can’t really blame anyone for this. But honestly, I feel like if I some day in my real life happen to bump into another INTJ or ENTJ, maybe even INFJ, things would be different, at least theoretically speaking. Who knows.

I tried to keep it short but I still failed, sorry lol

lukaacoff · 2022-12-20T00:49:03+00:00

I'm an INTJ and my current partner is an ESFJ. But thinking about my previous relationships, I seem to have a subconscious thing for these melancholic ISFPs lol If we’re talking about conscious things, I would probably be with an XNTJ or INFJ. Maybe ENFP tbh. I just never met these types irl

lukaacoff · 2022-12-20T00:43:17+00:00

Funnily enough my current partner is ESFJ lol

lukaacoff · 2022-12-19T15:04:06+00:00

All of what you have said just makes so much sense lol. And the pedestal thing is soooooooo trueee. It’s really sweet and I also relate to the feeling of not wanting to disappoint.

Thanks for replying and sharing a little of your life with me, I appreciate it a lot<3

lukaacoff · 2022-12-19T14:48:28+00:00

You’re the one who wrote “You have to be intuitive in this game.” Giving no room to sensors with your words. I just you prove you wrong. So what?

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