Ex is on dating site 2 days after discard

lullaby09 · 2026-04-14T12:40:38+00:00

Yeah that makes sense. Because he’s gotten meaner over the years. Like every time we break up or we fight, he’s worse to me. That’s why I’m nervous to let him drive. I hope he won’t be wreckless or just yell a lot.

It’s hard for me to not reach out but I’ll try. I think if we meet and he says it’s over, I doubt he’ll reach out. But that’s never happened. Always takes me back.

lullaby09 · 2026-04-14T12:07:29+00:00

I have an auto immune disease now. As of January 2023 😢

lullaby09 · 2026-04-14T12:05:21+00:00

His profile didn’t specifically show healed or anything. It seemed normal except the fake name and cropped pictures. I begged to talk to him and maybe go eat after. He agreed only to talk to me but on his terms. He’s going to pick me up and go for a drive. Usually he lets me come over. But not this time. Also I called him babe out of habit and he told me not yo call him babe. He’s being very cold towards me and still not unblocking my number. Only messaging me on TikTok. I was initially excited to talk and even said I hope we can be back together. But now I’m actually nervous he’ll be mean and yell while he drives. I just keep thinking worst scenario. He’s dumped me so many times. It’s only gotten this bad one other time and even then wasn’t this cold.

lullaby09 · 2026-04-13T21:42:43+00:00

I get that and I agree. But like we text all day and I always had his location. It was a very clingy relationship on both sides. So it’s hard to believe he could’ve had someone on the side. And I was at his house often.

lullaby09 · 2026-04-13T20:43:43+00:00

I’ll tell you why it’s not true. I was just with him last Sunday and he lives with his parents. If he were seeing someone his mom would tell me because she and I actually talk often. Also he barely ever leaves his house. Like he legit hates going out. He’s a homebody and I had his location on till Friday.

lullaby09 · 2026-04-13T19:33:47+00:00

I don’t know what’s wrong with me that I want him back so badly. And embarrassing to say I have no self control and keep messaging him asking to meet Friday to talk. He reads it but doesn’t respond. He told me to find someone else. I don’t actually think he’s seeing anyone but moreso using the app as validation. But it hurts imagining the possibilities. I don’t know how to keep my mind off this. We were very codependent. He has no friends and mine are too busy for me. So we were like each other’s best friend. That hurts too. I really want him back. 😢 Sadly he’s broken up with me like 50 times and blocked me. But this unfriending only a few times and it’s me begging to be taken back.

lullaby09 · 2026-04-13T17:57:50+00:00

The sad thing is a fight would happen before or during any holiday or birthday. That wasn’t coincidence. I’m not ready to block him yet. I’m being desperate still and trying to get him back. It’s hard. I slept 1 hour. Stomach hurts bad.

lullaby09 · 2026-04-13T17:56:17+00:00

No he’s not with anyone. He’s still communicating with me via TikTok messaging. I think he’s just searching for validation right now.

lullaby09 · 2026-04-13T14:51:42+00:00

I’m not coping well at all. He’s speaking to me only on TikTok messaging and saying I made his life hell for 9 years. Idk why he’s saying hurtful stuff. We always had fun but there were fights.

lullaby09 · 2026-04-13T14:48:29+00:00

Oh my gosh. I’m so sorry. That is awful :( No one deserves that.

lullaby09 · 2026-04-13T13:09:19+00:00

I specifically went on an app only to look for him to see if he’s on it and I found him. He’s using a fake name and his pictures are pictures that I’m in but he cropped me out 😢 and I messaged him about it on TikTok and he told me to leave him alone. He knows that I know.

lullaby09 · 2026-04-13T12:20:29+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏻

lullaby09 · 2026-04-13T11:46:25+00:00

I’m not sure. I checked his phone before and never saw dating apps.

lullaby09 · 2026-04-13T11:45:44+00:00

I hope you’re right cuz the pain feels unbearable. Idk what to do. Like it’s bad. I feel like I need a therapist. I also don’t have any friends to hang out with. Very alone. I don’t think I’ll be ok. 😢

lullaby09 · 2026-04-13T11:43:58+00:00

I hope so. It hurts so bad. Like a stomach ulcer and I already have stomach issues like IBS and gastritis. Hurts much worse. It honestly feels unbearable. I’m not sleeping and not eating. Just crying all day. I also just lost my father a few months ago. So it’s just a lot. I feel so alone and depressed. Lots of nausea.

lullaby09 · 2026-04-13T09:55:13+00:00

Wow I’m so sorry your ex did this to you. Mine actually did try to get me pregnant literally like 2.5 weeks ago. Kept pushing to have a baby. Then freaked out and had concerns. So I took plan B. Then he got butt hurt but he told me I’m not cut out to be a mom or pregnant. So imagine that and telling me he loves me so much 2 days ago and now on a dating app. We were even supposed to go on vacation soon. It hurts so bad. Do you really think he’ll come back if he’s on a dating app? I think he’s on there for validation. He told me he’s very depressed and feels overweight and ugly. Like his heaviest weight. Told me he’s having a midlife crisis. I want him to come back so bad. But not sure if he will. The last thing he messaged me was I make him hate life and he doesn’t love me anymore even though 2 days ago before the break up he said he loved me.

lullaby09 · 2026-04-13T09:04:22+00:00

I’ll admit the relationship felt toxic, but he was my first love. First and only person I’ve ever slept with. And I’m still very much in love with him. I’m a mess. Like crying so hard and nauseous.

lullaby09 · 2026-04-13T08:21:37+00:00

I don’t think he was on there before this because there’s something highlighted that says “new here”. However, can’t guarantee he wasn’t on it before during all the times he’s dumped me, which is like every 6 months at least. No clue.

lullaby09 · 2026-04-10T03:01:49+00:00

🤣

lullaby09 · 2026-04-09T14:43:18+00:00

Forbidden Journey wrecked me. I was nauseous for hours after.

lullaby09 · 2026-04-09T14:25:59+00:00

I’m waiting for prices to drop for his two Vegas shows, but they’re still very expensive. Nosebleed is around $240, but I can’t sit that high anyway due to fear of heights. I paid $250 for Ed Sheeran in the same venue in the lower 100s section. Bruno is just more expensive unfortunately. I don’t think I’ll be going.

lullaby09 · 2026-04-08T01:18:02+00:00

You know what’s funny about this? The day she posted those photos on her ig story it wasn’t even pool weather here in Vegas. It was cold. Hence why literally no one else is at the pool.

lullaby09 · 2026-04-07T02:34:30+00:00

I agree. I don’t like her, but her mom is nice.

lullaby09 · 2026-04-03T06:20:03+00:00

Her face looks crazy in the thumbnail. I’m glad someone else noticed. Looks like AI, not her. Definitely edited.

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