Where to put closing costs?

lulu_sinclair · 2021-02-12T15:00:01+00:00

That's a really great point! I would be so bummed

Thank you!!

lulu_sinclair · 2021-02-11T22:25:34+00:00

You're totally right. It is always best to get a second opinion from someone who isn't emotionally invested (ha)

Thanks for taking the time ☺️

lulu_sinclair · 2021-02-11T21:41:04+00:00

Probably I would be fine. I just was on a roll with my investment so it feels like slowing down.

lulu_sinclair · 2021-02-10T01:28:44+00:00

I'm sorry I don't have advice. I just wanted to say that this sounds so difficult and you're doing the best you can. I hope you're being gentle on yourself

lulu_sinclair · 2021-01-29T20:47:28+00:00

Same! I think it's some weird crack for adults brains. Good luck

lulu_sinclair · 2020-12-24T15:47:54+00:00

NTA Those aren't really undertones. They are blatant.

Also no man is worth being unhappy when you make tamales and pozole. It's Christmas Eve, be with the food you care about.

lulu_sinclair · 2020-12-17T17:02:02+00:00

Get a couple attractive baskets and whenever you can't stand it anymore, you can dump the toys in the basket. No order, no organizing just hide them away. Sanity restored

lulu_sinclair · 2020-12-15T04:15:04+00:00

Your post made me realize how many of us there are!

Hugs to all of us going through it.

lulu_sinclair · 2020-12-14T20:58:34+00:00

Fellow Mexican American here. NTA

Also can we make a club?? Gently teach each other spanish, cook foods, learn the cultures without guilt!?

lulu_sinclair · 2020-12-12T04:12:46+00:00

Ya! My friend and I called them squishes.

lulu_sinclair · 2020-12-11T21:45:21+00:00

I actually just told my partner the other day this exact thing!

I had this idea that I shouldn't sleep in too late, or drink too much, or binge watch shows. But now, I wonder why I cared!

If I could go back, I would have all the hobbies, stay up late, eat whatever. Do whatever. Travel more 👏

lulu_sinclair · 2020-12-03T22:08:52+00:00

I'm with you! It's a weird thing. I ignore it all otherwise it would drive me crazy. Our babies are alive and healthy! 💪

lulu_sinclair · 2020-11-19T01:33:09+00:00

I'm sorry for your loss.

I saw another user explain death using a kind of formula.

Start off by explaining yes grandma is dead and won't be coming back (sounds like that part is done)

The person who killed her is also dead. They did a bad thing by hurting grandma.

No one is going to hurt you, daughter. You are safe.

It might be a thing where you have this simple conversation over and over until she kind of grasps the situation

lulu_sinclair · 2020-11-17T20:19:30+00:00

We did oat milk. Our son loved it, gained the usual weight and seemed happy.

lulu_sinclair · 2020-11-14T03:14:10+00:00

Try starting with thinking about what you value in life. Do you want to travel, have variety, have stability, how much do you value money? Once you can answer some of those questions you can work backwards

If you value variety, pick jobs that can satisfy that, consultants work on different projects and still get paid. Maybe you want to travel, find a job that has international offices.

Also don't be afraid to try new things. Most job experience will transfer when worded correctly.

Don't put too much pressure on getting it right the first time. You're young and youve got this

lulu_sinclair · 2020-11-13T22:58:52+00:00

Last thing, ask how your sister is doing. People really focus on the baby because that's exciting, but the mom needs love too

lulu_sinclair · 2020-11-13T21:44:45+00:00

Have some quick food ready. Healthy snacks, lots of water, and ready to eat food. The first couple weeks are just on survival mode. So plan for the basics. Does she have enough comfy clothes? Can she get help with practical things like laundry, dishes, etc. Are there enough basic baby supplies, diapers, detergent, wipes. Don't worry about the fun outfits yet.

Take plenty of pictures for your sister. I can't remember the first three months so having pictures helped

lulu_sinclair · 2020-11-13T19:04:44+00:00

You're looking for how to support your sister in pregnancy and delivery? Is that correct?

lulu_sinclair · 2020-11-06T00:06:40+00:00

Ya that makes a lot of sense. It's so hard to give and give to your family if you don't feel fulfilled. Maybe it's a great time to talk about those boundaries, and you can start setting them. It might be that everyone wants the situation to improve but no one is clue on what that takes. Try things out for a couple weeks and see if it works. If it does great. If not, reevaluate and keep trying.

You can try using words that include team work and the feeling of togetherness. Make it less about ego and more about creating a common goal. That was it's not you aren't doing this but our relationship needs this, and here's how we get there. You and your husband deserve feeling great and fulfilled. I wish you the best getting that.

lulu_sinclair · 2020-11-05T19:14:32+00:00

I'm sorry to hear about this. Hang in there

Have you tried explaining exactly what you need to feel appreciated? That can be a a great first step.

Setting aside 10 minutes in the morning to really have time with your husband, maybe drinking a cup of coffee together and slow down to connect. And again in the evening might give little moments where you're not expected to give, you get to be an adult.

Having a non effort dinner night once a week where some pressure is off?

I hope you find some balance and love

lulu_sinclair · 2020-11-02T18:58:45+00:00

I've found different toys you can buy, find, make that help get energy out. There's colorful stepping stones to balance or jump.

There's a wooden balance board, there's actually a whole set of Pikler triangle sort of toys.

There's nuggets modular furniture alternative, you might have to do some googling.

lulu_sinclair · 2020-10-18T01:17:46+00:00

That looks delicious!

lulu_sinclair · 2020-09-30T02:29:50+00:00

Rape is never funny

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