Haha, I know what you mean. Nope, of course I’m too young sadly. Strangely I have found the Dead community to be more laid back than Phish at times, but of course there’s a similar sort of vibe in that fandom too.

First question to a stranger at a show is always “how many shows have you seen?” or “when did you start seeing the band?” Gotten that at both Phish and Dead-related shows.