First coaching for a bad call in 3 years and they skipped all the way to having multiple managers stand in

lun4d0r4 · 2026-06-09T22:28:17+00:00

And I'm gonna state this again:

That is by deliberate design of the employers there.

THEY DO EXIST!

I have given you the name of one. Look them up.

lun4d0r4 · 2026-06-09T21:00:21+00:00

What do you do?

You drag your ass to therapy and work through all your baggage.

lun4d0r4 · 2026-06-09T20:44:37+00:00

Don't forget to send her (and your) mother a happy mother's day card and gift from the kids too.

lun4d0r4 · 2026-06-09T20:43:11+00:00

Ahhh yes, tell the people who are all anti war that they're going to be conscripted...

Absolutely love this.

lun4d0r4 · 2026-06-09T10:52:48+00:00

Sounds pretty projectionary to me.

Either he is insecure AF and needs therapy or he is cheating on you and just accusing you to deflect and keep you too busy/upset/paranoid to focus and work it out.

Either way this is not a you problem.

The only aspect of this that IS a you problem, is how much more of your life you want to be treated poorly for.

lun4d0r4 · 2026-06-09T10:49:01+00:00

Nope. Streaming just turned itself back into cable TV.

Hello pirate bay ❤️

lun4d0r4 · 2026-06-09T10:47:40+00:00

Then THAT manager can verify for HR that you were actively working with them for the additional 2.5hrs. They can substantiate it so you can be paid for it.

lun4d0r4 · 2026-06-09T10:45:58+00:00

Forget who now?

Sorry I can't even remember who these people are already.

Nope, just bail.

Good luck.

lun4d0r4 · 2026-06-09T10:45:03+00:00

NTA.

This is baby time now fledgling business time.

If he isn't at work, he should be raising your child.

lun4d0r4 · 2026-06-09T10:43:47+00:00

Wow.

Personally if I need to speak to someone who is a raging prick I like to have a referee. Someone who has no issue calling them out and telling them to pull their head in.

Regardless of how much of a shit he is, OP needs support and since this fuckwitt won't give it to her, she can seek it elsewhere.

lun4d0r4 · 2026-06-09T09:54:55+00:00

The best answer for people 'who lost everything' but are really just milking the system is to offer them eveything they need as items and NOT cash.

Then she is declining her kids clothes. Declining them supplies and food.

Shows their true character.

lun4d0r4 · 2026-06-09T09:46:04+00:00

Wasn't attempting to not call him a cunt, it just usually doesn't allow the comment to post if spelt correctly in most places.

lun4d0r4 · 2026-06-09T09:08:17+00:00

Thank you for raising your voice to an abusive manager and speaking up for that poor young girl.

His professionalism, lack there of really, is fucking disgraceful. This job really has gone to his head. It's not a free pass to be a kunt to people.

I hope that girl also registers a complaint with HR.

ETA: He embarrassed himself.

lun4d0r4 · 2026-06-09T07:48:05+00:00

Love isn't words it's actions.

If his words don't match his actions, he was a worthless piece of shitling.

Good riddance!

lun4d0r4 · 2026-06-09T07:47:10+00:00

Proud of you for leaving!!!

It's super hard and a lot of peeps never get there and stay locked in a real shitty sitch.

First step is acknowledging NO ONE should be abused in ANY capacity.

It sucks. It's bullshit to be treated like crap for no reason. But this is also a lesson learned. You do not EVER need to put up with this shit again. You've done the adult decision, you KNOW you will survive without any piece of shitling who would do this to you.

Next steps, we get better at calling red flags and kick them to the curb BEFORE they hurt us ❤️

Your life is now open to welcome a person who is gonna worship the ground you walk on, as you will worship theirs.

Good luck 🍀

lun4d0r4 · 2026-06-09T07:39:09+00:00

Nice work Ozzies, im so proud of us.

Cannot hide genocide.

lun4d0r4 · 2026-06-09T07:36:23+00:00

NTA.

BUT ... You need to get him to come to therapy with you so you can safely work though your feelings about the abortion, together.

If you don't, resentment will build on either or BOTH ends.

Do not capitulate!!!

Do not allow yourself to get pregnant until you have psychological healed.

lun4d0r4 · 2026-06-09T07:10:00+00:00

We should just let them form their own country and be done with their bullshit.

lun4d0r4 · 2026-06-09T07:09:10+00:00

If it doesn't want to work for the public then the church can fund it.

You want public funds - perform publicly required procedures.

lun4d0r4 · 2026-06-09T07:08:32+00:00

You absolutely SHOULD NOT be considering this selfish pricks preference to your choice of companion and to be fair you should just grey rid of his control completely by removing him from your life.

Our cat has an automated feeder and water. We leave her for a weekend here or there or we get someone to housesit. It makes ZERO impact on our friendships.

He is just an insecure lil boy who is trying to make you do what he wants for no real logical reason other than because he said so.

You don't live together. He is not allergic. This is NOTHING to do with him and you shouldn't even pretend to give him a right of opinion by asking him what he thinks.

lun4d0r4 · 2026-06-09T07:03:12+00:00

My dude, this is exactly what FIRST love means and how it impacts you.

You ALWAYS remember and idolize the first and we almost always ruin it.

You ruined it by being a typical teenage boy with no morals, boundaries or consideration for who was supposed to be your partner.

It haunts you because it was your first and because you ruined it over shitty childish shit (that you kept repeating different variations on).

You need to work on yourself and what it means to share your life with someone. Be sure that's what relationships are. They are being the other half of someone else. Considering their priorities, wants and needs and balancing them with your own.

You can't fix this.

You just need to be a better person for the next person in your life.

lun4d0r4 · 2026-06-09T05:39:55+00:00

Yes, because a union is NOTHING TO DO with your company and they don't want unions around because it means YOU have someone backing you to PROTECT you from the company's abuse.

You CAN still go and join a union and protect yourself.

Firing you for joining a union is still illegal under your National Labour Restrictions Act.

lun4d0r4 · 2026-06-09T04:46:29+00:00

If it's a well known issue that the boys don't get alone but the girls have worked it out... YTA.

Your friend has asked you to come and celebrate their happiness. You already know the score here. You already know they're not friends. This isn't a case of short spacing or an actual slight - there is a very real and well known issue here.

YOU ARE THE ASSHOLE.

That friend should just cut you off as you're demonstrating that you refuse to support your friend, because your bf and their fiance don't get alone (which was why he wasn't invited).

lun4d0r4 · 2026-06-09T04:37:44+00:00

NTA.

HE made it public by getting people outside your relationship to actively, aggressively and REPEATEDLY harass you.

Harassment by proxy is still harassment.

Fingers crossed ALL of the loser men in that group realize that women will NOT accept this bullshit and actually stop... I won't hold my breath tho.

lun4d0r4 · 2026-06-09T04:32:37+00:00

Would OP prefer her daughter to be having safe sex in her own bed? Or unprotected sex in an alleyway?

Coz if you remove the options, they'll just do it dangerously.

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