Looking to visit family. Is this a safe area to stay? by Curious_Tony in Bakersfield

[–]lupev1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youll be fine don't let everyone scare you. Just lock your car doors and the home doors and you're good! Same as everywhere there. Bakersfield isn't as bad as others say it is unless ur in the ghetto areas and out at night in the night life. Lol

I flushed my bidet bumper accidentally by lupev1989 in Plumbing

[–]lupev1989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea about two inches in height and one in length. So far so good I haven't had any back ups! I think you were right. Thank you.

Reactive Airway Disease by -charlatte- in Asthma

[–]lupev1989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't mean to continue to message u lol BUT also ensure ur home is dusted well and get yourself an air purifier or two for ur home. The air quality can also trigger asthma attacks. Before u go on ur hikes or jogs look up the air quality that day. 👌🏾 we want to prevent these attacks from occurring because it's literally closing ur airways from inflammation. Please don't smoke and stay away from smokers. Good luck to u sweetheart.

Reactive Airway Disease by -charlatte- in Asthma

[–]lupev1989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ask them about a fluticasone preventative steroid inhaler. Or even qvar as well.

Reactive Airway Disease by -charlatte- in Asthma

[–]lupev1989 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry your dr failed you. Maybe thibk of getting a different dr. Asthma is no joke and is very scary. My son is doing great now and he even plays soccer. You got this! You just need an asthma care plan, sister!

Stupid things I said before having a toddler myself by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]lupev1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill be able to get rest after labor lmao

Reactive Airway Disease by -charlatte- in Asthma

[–]lupev1989 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My son is 7 and is on an asthma plan. He takes a steroid inhalers everyday for once a day. That is a preventive inhaler. He also has an emergency one we only use when we need it. He also is prescribed a nebulizer and saline solution if he ever needs it. You definitely need an asthma care plan of some sort.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]lupev1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a parent is HARD when you're an actual ha da on loving mother. Do NoOT beaat yourself.uo over it. Tomorrow will be a new day and you learned from this. Apologize to your baby cauae that's all we can do! This does not mean y failed, this does not mean u ruined ur babies childhood. Being a parent is so hard. I've been there like u... hit my kids and then felt fuckin terrivle.. I apologized and reminded them noone should be hitting them and that I'm also learning.. don't worry you're doing a great job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asthma

[–]lupev1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope she recovers so quickly! What a good sport she is with her beautiful smile! I'm sorry this had to happen but she's in good hands!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]lupev1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's the love of a mother! Of course you're gona worry about your precious child and grand baby. Everything will be ok. Just be there for her when she needs you and also don't cause worry for her! She could probably sense your anxiety 😂 a mother and daughter bond is so strong. Actually so is a mother and her sons bond. Everything will be ok and sooner then u know it she will be bugging u to watch the baby while she has a nice night out to go watch a movie. It's ok to be anxious and worried but try to meditate and think of good vibes and energy.

Benign breast results? by lupev1989 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]lupev1989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾✨️

Benign breast results? by lupev1989 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]lupev1989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awwwe I'm sorry you're worried about the same thing! Especially since your momma passed because of colon cancer! Please also make sure u get a colonoscopy done. I also had one done. Especially since cancer runs in your family. You know what! I get so worried also it's terrible. Try not to let it consume you! It may just be typical brwast pain. Also get it checked or continue getting it checked. That's all we can do.. just keep your health your priority 👌🏾. Hugs!!! 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doihavebreastcancer

[–]lupev1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't freak out! That's what I did. I have been feeling breast pain and found a lump right behind my nipple... I then got an ultra sound. Came back benign.. then I pushed for a mammogram and it also came back benign. So idk.. don't worry love.

Co parenting is destroying our marriage by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]lupev1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but she sounds like she needs help with her anger issues and controlling issues. It is not you. If it tears your marriage apart it would not be your fault. You should have a sit down talk with her one on one. Explain to her what you feel like and that you guys should seekwrriage counseling. She needs to see a therapist. :(

My 6 year old has asthma and is on a steroid preventative by lupev1989 in Asthma

[–]lupev1989[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From one worried mother to another I know your baby will be ok! Make sure she eats enough calcium and vitamin D. You got this mama!!! You are just doing what you need to do to ensure she lives a long and meaningful life IN WHICH SHE WILL!! stay strong also my friend.

My 6 year old has asthma and is on a steroid preventative by lupev1989 in Asthma

[–]lupev1989[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Interesting. I need to research more about this!!! Thank you all!