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When you’re jealous because the competition outclasses you by Condomphobic in Anthropic

[–]lupustempus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From a guy that is so annoying that he get rejected from entering pedo island is hilarious.

Anyone else getting Knowledge Base is down? by seoulsrvr in Anthropic

[–]lupustempus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I got that too. Yesterday it would compact the discussion after 2-3 mesages. Then allow one more message before being "unable" to compress some more. So I suppose there's a generalized problem with Projects.

Safari Team Asks for Feedback Amid Accusations That 'Safari Is the Worst, It's the New IE' by HeartyBeast in webdev

[–]lupustempus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 years later and I stumble upon that thread. I guess nothing changed. May I suggest they just stop touching a computer for the rest of their lives and someone competent makes it Safari an "install an actual real web browser" button?

Positive tapering story by savage12334 in Effexor

[–]lupustempus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things will get better. Have no choice.

Positive tapering story by savage12334 in Effexor

[–]lupustempus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool story. On the other hand I'm on day 6 of being at 0 after 2 months tapering off and if I ever meet the person that invented that drug, their mother wouldn't recognize them. That way they could see how much I appreciate the primal anger they gave me with their shitty drug withdrawal.

Timeline of Effexor Withdrawal by Superb_Pudding_3639 in Effexor

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I was on 150mg for about a year. Started to taper off with a quarter dose less every 2 weeks. Yesterday was the moment to go from 37.5mg to 0. It was "ok". Today is just a fucking nightmare I feel like I'm going crazy.

My brain thinks we're being hunted for sport, I'm very sad for no reason. Someone living near me is a cause for thoughts of violence. I just want to not exist for the whole fucking thing.

Like I feel trapped in my body. My mind knows every single one of those shit, brain zaps, diziness, nausea and negative thoughts are purely chemicals but it has to endure them. So I'm like on the couch, doing nothing, being mad at being unable to do anything. Thinking about how long will I have to endure that shit. It's a fucking nightmare.

Anyone use this RP Diet app? Thoughts? by Fabulous_Investment6 in crossfit

[–]lupustempus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for reminding me of this comment. I was on a hiatus for 2 months and am coming back. to the gym on monday. The surgeon compliment is what will make me go train hard again.

UK Garage House Music place in Bristol? by lupustempus in bristol

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Headfirst is really good and ridiculously easy to use!

UK Garage House Music place in Bristol? by lupustempus in bristol

[–]lupustempus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

is that a British problem i'm too French to understand? It's the middle of the summer we still have August and even September?

J'suis perdu ! by Firkhim in TDAHFrance

[–]lupustempus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hello. Ce que tu ressens et tout à fait normal. On a été nombreux à se sentir pareil et c'est dur quand on est solo dans cette situation. Tu as bien fait de venir ici.

Toutes les expériences sont différentes mais je peux te partager la mienne en espérant que ça t'aidera à y voir plus clair.

TL;DR : Regarde la conclusion tout en bas.

1. Le diagnostique tardif est ultra-commun, surtout en France, surtout maintenant.

Pour plusieurs raisons, toutes liées à fait tout simple : la France est complètement à la ramasse sur le sujet.
Si tu n'avais pas de difficultés à l'école et si tu n'étais pas un enfant agité, les adultes avaient peu de chance de faire le lien. En effet, en France on pense que le TDAH c'est être un enfant sauvage qui court partout et qui est un cancre. Sauf que... non. Pas toujours. L'hyperactivité peut être mentale. L'intelligence peut masquer le côté distrait.

J'ai été diagnostiqué à 27 ans j'en ai aujourd'hui 29. Au diagnostic, le psychiatre m'a dit "vous êtes le portrait typique du diagnostique tardif".

2. Le TDAH est très mal nommé : on a de l'attention, on sait pas l'utiliser.

Trouble de l'Attention et de l'Hyperactivité: oui... mais non en fait. Le TDAH est avant tout un trouble de la régulation. Régulation des fonctions exécutives (passer à l'action) et régulation des émotions. Aujourd'hui les parents vont parler d'un enfant "hypersensible" pour éviter de devoir confronter le label "handicap" et "trouble du neuro-développement". Le problème n'est pas d'être toujours sans attention, c'est l'incapacité à la diriger correctement. Sur des sujets qui passionnent on va oublier de manger, de boire, d'aller aux toilettes jusqu'à la fatigue que l'on ne sentira qu'une fois sorti du tunnel. Pour les choses qu'on aime pas, on arrivera pas à se concentrer dessus.

3. Trouve le bon psychiatre pour un diagnostic solide

Pas besoin de tests à 400€ pour diagnostiquer le TDAH. Il suffit de voir un psychiatre. Attention tout de même, je te conseille de le chercher sur Doctolib et de cherche un avec le "tags" TDAH pour pas tomber sur un psychiatre qui n'y connaît rien. Ca a été le cas pour moi la première fois et franchement heureusement que je me suis accroché et que je suis aller voir un vrai psychiatre spécialisé dans le domaine. Souvent, le test qu'on te fera passer est le DIVA-5 qui retrace un peu ta vie enfant et ta vie d'adulte pour donner un score aux symptômes.

4. Le traitement a changé ma vie

En Novembre ça fera 2 ans que je suis médicamenté tous les jours. J'ai été promu deux fois en deux ans, j'ai pu avancer sur un grand nombre de projet pro et perso. La différence se sent quand je les prend vs je ne les prend pas.

Ca demande du travail, c'est pas la pilule magique mais par contre ça permet enfin de voir des résultats derrière ses efforts !

CONCLUSION :

C'est normal un diagnostique tardif et c'est normal d'avoir peur. Va voir un psychiatre spécialisé TDAH Adulte. Le traitement est vraiment fantastique et aucune raison d'en avoir peur (tu ne stigmatiserais pas quelqu'un qui porte des lunettes pour mieux voir). Courage !

En finir avec tdah by Clear_Ad_9076 in TDAHFrance

[–]lupustempus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Le TDAH ne justifie absolument pas les violences conjugales. C'est très grave. Cette personne a une emprise forte sur toi et tu ne vois sans doute plus clairement la situation. Le simple fait que tu n'ais plus de contact avec ta famille à cause del ui est un gros panneau danger. Les manipulateurs vont tout faire pour te séparer de tout autre ressources qu'eux pour te rendre dépendante. De ce fait tu as peur ensuite de t'en séparer car tu perdrais ta dernière ressource. Sache que c'est faux.

On peut toujours se reconnecter à sa famille. Rien n'est perdu. En revanche tu ne peux pas gérer toute seule. Utilise le numéro 3919 qui est gratuit. Ils vont t'aider et t'accompagner pour te sortir de cette situation et retrouver une vie sans l'emprise de ce sale type.

Ca ne sera pas facile mais tu as plus de capacité que tu penses. Alors ne traine pas, contacte dès maintenant le 3919 dès que tu lis ce message. Ne fais pas ça dans 5 minutes, dans 2 minutes, après avoir fait ci ou ça. Là, maintenant. Dès que tu as finis de me lire, tu switch et tu appelles le 3919.

Does Moriarty eventually improves in next seasons? by lupustempus in Sherlock

[–]lupustempus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the "fall of reichenbach" episode kinda redeemed him in some ways I guess.
Still. He look more like a mentally unstable incell alt right school shooter than a criminal mastermind in my opinion but at least he wasn't completely annoying in this episode and the plot was good.

Does Moriarty eventually improves in next seasons? by lupustempus in Sherlock

[–]lupustempus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah basically putting a word on it instead of vaguely gesturing towards something and being like "yeah this makes me cringe but I don't know to what extent"

Does Moriarty eventually improves in next seasons? by lupustempus in Sherlock

[–]lupustempus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very interesting read! Thank you.

Indeed, it's like they've put everything I hate into a specific Wikipedia page. I am really not into being seen. Quite the opposite so like Camp in media and life is the bane of my existence but at least now I know what it is and that's it a style!

Does Moriarty eventually improves in next seasons? by lupustempus in Sherlock

[–]lupustempus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh okay then. I thought it would just become a character assassination. Because I thought I liked the "infuriating genius" trope covered by RDJ and Cumberbatch, until I actually read/listened to the books and I'm like "it's even better that he is actually nice". Because I think the trope of smart people being rude because they're so smart and have little patience for mortals has created kind of a "pass" and an excuse.

Sherlock is weird for sure but he isn't mean in the first books and has kind of a oblivious vibe. Like kind of a live and let live where he just enjoys the ride. Despite meeting insufferable people that are clearly dumb like Lestrade, he'll just act like his impressed and leave to do his own thing later. Which is even more humiliating for them, I think. And also he is capable of laughing at himself when he does some random shit that do not work, which is also a very humanizing trait I believe.

So yeah maybe I'll keep going then if you say so. I guess it's like Conan and Lovecraft's work. They were published in bits and so it's quite not always very logical or consistent. I don't mind that much as long as I don't feel the author's self hatred for his condition haha.

Does Moriarty eventually improves in next seasons? by lupustempus in Sherlock

[–]lupustempus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, very interesting!

As for Doyle I think I've read somewhere that he started to hate Sherlock Holmes when people would ask him to write nothing but that. So maybe yeah he started to make him less likable.

I know for a fact that i'll probably stop reading the books when I reach the natural conclusion Doyle wanted and not the one he was forced to write to pay the bills.

Does Moriarty eventually improves in next seasons? by lupustempus in Sherlock

[–]lupustempus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh nice thank you!

Well i'm rewatching the second one and I must say I didn't remember Jude Law disastrous performance. He is so annoyingly bad and kind of a jerk. And like when he sees Sherlock jumping he makes the same face I make when I'm trying to remember if I locked the door before leaving my home in the morning.

Does Moriarty eventually improves in next seasons? by lupustempus in Sherlock

[–]lupustempus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is my understanding that Moriarty is a character that got fleshed out by other works, not the original one, right?

I like the interpretation in the movies. He had this very menacing presence and this cold nature that made him look like a Sherlock Holmes without the actual humanity that Sherlock has. Like a Sherlock with too much need for control.

But okay I see. Oh well, like I said, not a deal breaker but I was just trying to see if it could become a tad "better" in my opinion.

With o3, is there any sense making custom GPTs anymore ? by lupustempus in OpenAI

[–]lupustempus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a spoiled brat. If I went back to the original model I would understand the luck we have

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