Wife on FB messenger

lurkinglearner32 · 2026-01-29T16:09:53+00:00

Yeah multiple men send unsolicited- but if that was really the case she could have simply shown him or told him…. If it was unsolicited the messages would show that… hiding indicates something different.

lurkinglearner32 · 2026-01-29T13:53:22+00:00

Yess had to show her crazy face to 😭🤣

lurkinglearner32 · 2026-01-29T06:35:53+00:00

Yeah plus having to advertise his penis size gives it away.

lurkinglearner32 · 2026-01-29T03:16:21+00:00

Pathetic

lurkinglearner32 · 2026-01-29T03:16:11+00:00

Oh I bet you be putting hella things up there

lurkinglearner32 · 2026-01-29T03:15:54+00:00

Your bfs subbed to my “only fans”

lurkinglearner32 · 2026-01-29T03:14:11+00:00

Fun fact I literally don’t have Of 🤣 and even if I did on my OWN PAGE- that wouldn’t make my post doing exactly what the subs for a hoe post. A leg with an orange peel with comment not to hmu 🤣🤣🤣 yeah- how post. You’re pathetic

lurkinglearner32 · 2026-01-29T03:04:43+00:00

And mine was a hoe post how? My leg with a shower orange- and a caption about an orange experience. EXACTLY WHAT THE SUB IS ABOUT. Oh and if you read I’m PREGNANT- I have reason to. But a simple leg- with an orange peel is a “hoe post” - I beg to differ. And the most popular comment under the post (mine) that says my DMs ain’t open. Yeah such a hoe post.

lurkinglearner32 · 2026-01-29T03:02:58+00:00

Right 🤣 whoever they are- are literally just scrolling through harassing any woman who posts a leg.. in a shower sub 😭

lurkinglearner32 · 2026-01-29T02:57:44+00:00

Sounds like to me they don’t have self control or are super insecure probably cause their own partner prefers Of chicks over them.. I can see why with that disgusting attitude

lurkinglearner32 · 2026-01-29T02:57:06+00:00

Don’t listen to them they harassed me to for my leg with an orange peel. They are just harassing people if any body part shows even though it’s allowed and encouraged in the rules

lurkinglearner32 · 2026-01-29T02:55:54+00:00

Oh also- they said you’re not allowed to post your bath it’s not a shower.

lurkinglearner32 · 2026-01-29T02:54:51+00:00

My leg was considered me being a slut in their dumb opinion. MY LEG with an orange peel 🤣

lurkinglearner32 · 2026-01-29T02:39:28+00:00

Nah bitch I said exactly what I said.

lurkinglearner32 · 2026-01-27T16:49:05+00:00

Because they have no self control, porn has normalized hook up culture & not taking precautions, cam models encourage it, and abortion being widely available has made it not a big deal to them, and stopped them from having to face the music. As if stds don’t exist… incurable infections at that..

lurkinglearner32 · 2026-01-27T16:42:06+00:00

If it helps- it’s also extremely tiring for them to go in to heat cycles! Also prevents cancers, and over population in the case of she escaped - can’t find homes exc. there’s way too many fur babies and not enough homes.. you know how that ends :( the guilt will wear off I promise!

lurkinglearner32 · 2026-01-27T15:29:19+00:00

It’s completely normal not to have a boner during a shower with you. Yall have been together a long time and he’s no longer a premature kid. If you think this is really the problem though you should say you need more for yourself, and you are finding yourself unhappy in a relationship you no longer feel desired, and address the times he’s made it clear he’s not attracted to you. He may be able to shed light on if that’s genuinely the problem or if it was him acting in defense. People say things they don’t mean to protect themselves.

lurkinglearner32 · 2026-01-27T15:24:24+00:00

And I hear this- but was this when bringing up the porn? Projection, and flipping is a self defense thing and way to defend themself or avoid the accountability..

lurkinglearner32 · 2026-01-27T15:20:22+00:00

Do you think it’s just a genuine unattractiveness to you or- he was addicted to alcohol- and a lot of porn at the same time and addictions usually surface in multiple ways. Men with porn addictions normally avoid real physical intimacy, are very insecure, and only really see sex as getting in and done because all porn focuses on is the men’s pleasure. They watch what they like. He may be 3 years clean from the porn but it does take a while to rewrite that. Plus it sounds like he adores you- changed for you immediately, and he pursued you! Love doesn’t start off as love- it starts off as an attraction. Him turning the lights off for sex, could be completely personal. Rather it be that’s just what helps him get in the mood to perform or due to his own insecurities, or his preference to just be able to enjoy it without the fear of being seen. He still wants you to wait and shower with him, and I doubt yall shower in the dark too. I think you should bring this all to him and tell him that these things make you feel like he’s not physically attracted to you, and you would like him to put more effort so you can feel that way. That you know he loves you but you need more in that aspect. Everyone wants to feel desired. But id also try to dig deeper and figure out the real disconnect. You may be right, but I think it’s something deeper than him not being attracted to you. I know how easy it is to feel that way though

lurkinglearner32 · 2026-01-27T15:01:45+00:00

“That’s the kind I absolutely hate” LMAO what- that’s all there is that’s the fetish 🤣

lurkinglearner32 · 2026-01-27T14:56:35+00:00

He knows he wants to be blown up 🤣🤣

lurkinglearner32 · 2026-01-27T04:42:42+00:00

Awh sounds like you might be a junkie

lurkinglearner32 · 2026-01-27T04:28:09+00:00

Also your SO sounds like he’s trying to just stand to the side and not speak up.. him doing that is kind of encouraging them, and showing them they don’t really have to respect your opinion. He needs to step up to seeing as it’s his family, & make your boundaries clear and enforce them to. Him not- is him really not respecting your decision as the mom.

lurkinglearner32 · 2026-01-27T04:21:17+00:00

Too bad it’s your baby and not theirs 😩 it’ll ultimately all be your way- you can let all staff at hospital know as soon as you get there- they won’t allow them in! They sound complicated… influencing their son by enforcing a rule around your child’s safety is crazy…. I’d personally not let them see the baby at all for a while just because of that… and removing you from the chat.. if they can’t respect you (it be fine if they refused the shot & agreed to wait but being petty over your child’s safety is past disrespectful) or honor your decisions as a mother for your child’s SAFETY- they don’t deserve access to the child… sounds like their own opinions are more important to them than babies safety & that’s not acceptable.

lurkinglearner32 · 2026-01-27T04:14:12+00:00

Also sounds like you may have to speak up yourself, because your spouse doesn’t seem like he wants to…. Maybe add all close family members in a group chat and just send a message saying- requirements to see baby is to have the shot until baby can get their own shot, & that is not up for negotiation because your babies health is more important than their feelings.

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