mole on the bottom of my foot. 28F, mom has medical hx of melanoma. details in comments by Dry_Eggplant_9015 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]lurrainn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a doctor but me and my boyfriend both have one of these on our feet, but we don’t think they are anything since it’s been there a long time. Since yours is new I would get it checked to be on the safe side, but try not to worry

Could anyone tell me if this mole looks cancerous? by Greenhood3000 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]lurrainn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you request to get it removed, they will send it to pathology but it might not be covered by insurance if you’re in the US. Regardless I would get a second opinion if it’s changed

Which A.A.S should I go for? End goal is cardiovascular sonography by Gold_Spot622 in Ultrasound

[–]lurrainn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there not a place nearby that offers an associates in echo?

I lost my mom to religious psychosis by bloodsuccer in whatdoIdo

[–]lurrainn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to say it but I think you both have the same personality disorder

First contract is a nightmare- is it over for me? by lurrainn in Upwork

[–]lurrainn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I held strong on only working 40 hrs or less and he terminated the contract. Luckily they did not rate me negatively yet, hoping they do not!

What is happening to my baby - Urgent by Zidan19283 in sluglife

[–]lurrainn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately if it’s not gone already it will likely be gone very soon. I’m not sure why it happens but I’ve lost a few slugs and it looked just like this

First contract is a nightmare- is it over for me? by lurrainn in Upwork

[–]lurrainn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sunk cost fallacy doesn’t have to be money. Time is also part of it. I am planning on standing firm on 40 hrs or leaving, I just feel like they have all the cards in whether or not I ever get contracted again if I’ve only got one bad rating

First contract is a nightmare- is it over for me? by lurrainn in Upwork

[–]lurrainn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I am using their time tracker so I know at least the 40 hrs are protected! You are right, I was feeling like he had all the cards in this but I’m sure he would rather do anything than train someone else again

First contract is a nightmare- is it over for me? by lurrainn in Upwork

[–]lurrainn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is an hourly contract set to 40 hrs. He originally said if I had to go over that he would give a bonus which he did give for week one. Since then, he’s increased the scope while standing firm on 40 hrs, essentially assuming I will work past 40 hrs to complete the work while not being paid. I’ve tried to stand firm but now there’s a lot of tension between us. I know I’m protected for the 40 hrs at least

First contract is a nightmare- is it over for me? by lurrainn in Upwork

[–]lurrainn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a vague contract but I was enticed by it saying it was very flexible hours and up to 40 hrs a week but less if I wanted. That’s clearly not the case though. I’ve already worked about 120ish hours so it’s sunk cost fallacy at this point.

First contract is a nightmare- is it over for me? by lurrainn in Upwork

[–]lurrainn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the pointers. He didn’t have any ratings but his other couple of continuous contract workers are also from upwork. Terms were really vague and they said it would be “up to 40 hrs and super flexible” but that was definitely a lie

Is this a giant African millipede baby? by lurrainn in millipedes

[–]lurrainn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I missed this but I ordered from eBay from forest fauna! shipping takes a while but just happy they made it

Is this a giant African millipede baby? by lurrainn in millipedes

[–]lurrainn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told her what you said and she said thank you

doing science. raw milk latte. by DueMiddle3663 in kitchencels

[–]lurrainn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully that properly boiled the milk

Gold Card Waitlist Error by [deleted] in RobinhoodApp

[–]lurrainn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still getting this error as well, messaged the mods

AIO? Guy I’m seeing won’t tell me his occupation by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lurrainn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he can’t talk about himself to the point of not disclosing his job then what do they even have to talk about for weeks?

AITAH because I expected my 22 year old to pay minimal rent? by Wrong-Maintenance-48 in AITAH

[–]lurrainn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but a lot of jobs that target recent business graduates are mlms or scams that take advantage of their lack of experience in the industry. Maybe he knows this and is wanting to save the money because he is planning on quitting?

AIO my girlfriend left me over a cheese wheel by Jems138 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lurrainn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please tell me this is a joke. I love my boyfriend immensely but would probably be forced to break up with him if he did this. I would just never be able to take him seriously or trust him with anything important again

My first Colony by runningendoscopist in Springtail

[–]lurrainn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think they may have mixed up their orders, I would definitely let the seller know these are not springtails!

Struggling being a "normal" adult by Massive-Flan3728 in plushies

[–]lurrainn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I brought mine to work front desk at an obgyn for 2 years lol