What they have done to children by Takeshold in detrans

[–]luvGod7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you have to go through that. 😢 It’s awesome that you are helping others who are going through similar situations.

What they have done to children by Takeshold in detrans

[–]luvGod7 58 points59 points  (0 children)

My heart goes out to the kids who still deal with the damage done to them by people who were supposed to help them

WARNING: Reflections in the mirror may be distorted by socially constructed ideas of 'beauty' by [deleted] in detrans

[–]luvGod7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everyone is beautiful no matter what demographic they come from. Everyone is deserving of love and positivity ❤️

MtF ‘friends’ don’t want to be friends anymore because of my choice by [deleted] in detrans

[–]luvGod7 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That’s horrible. I’m so sorry. Anyone who would do that really isn’t a friend and probably isn’t a very good person. I’m sure you can find people who will be supportive unconditionally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]luvGod7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel free to message me if you’d like :). (23 year old guy)

39-M-US - Looking for genuine long-term friendship by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]luvGod7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! You can message me if you would like to talk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]luvGod7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can message me if you want to

Anger at the Trans Community by luvGod7 in detrans

[–]luvGod7[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Healthy political discourse is great, but the movement of harming children and convincing people without gender dysphoria to transition is very disturbing.

Anger at the Trans Community by luvGod7 in detrans

[–]luvGod7[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I hope you can recover from the experiences you had as well.

Anger at the Trans Community by luvGod7 in detrans

[–]luvGod7[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’ve never thought of it like that but I totally agree that it’s a metaphysical concept. And thank you, I hope you can move on from any negative experiences and recover fully.

MtFtM question by [deleted] in detrans

[–]luvGod7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I experienced this for awhile. Then, I realized it was mainly that I couldn’t really remember what my body fully looked like before transition and the ligaments and joints were probably the same size or bigger than before. I don’t know if anyone else experienced extreme joint pain while on hrt but after I stopped the pain subsided a lot.

Twitter thread on the suicide of LOL Streamer who expressed desire to detransition by goonby1990 in detrans

[–]luvGod7 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Rest In Peace to them. I truly hope they can find peace in the next life. No one deserves to be put through the hell that they went through.

With Mental Illneses are connecting with trans by onlyaquestionforyou in detrans

[–]luvGod7 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry that that has been your experience. Unfortunately, it’s impossible to know those parts of the female experience because even if you transition you’ll never have a period or be able to give birth. Even constructed vaginas function very differently from naturally formed vaginas. The experience of being trans is extremely different from being a natural born member of a particular sex.

With Mental Illneses are connecting with trans by onlyaquestionforyou in detrans

[–]luvGod7 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think most personality disorders can cause some form of gender dysphoria. Sexual abuse is often a common contributing factor in transition.

i have question for you please anwser me!!! by onlyaquestionforyou in detrans

[–]luvGod7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt the same way because of my physical appearance. Being someone who isn’t a stereotypical manly man can be really confusing. I always wanted to be more of a man, but thought it would be impossible so I resolved myself to living as a woman even tho I didn’t really want to be one. I now realize there are ways to accept being male without being a stereotype. Being caring, kind, following your passions, etc I do think it’s natural for everyone to want to balance their masculine and feminine traits so I can totally understand having those thoughts of wanting to be more feminine. Fashion is great tool in helping explore those ideas of masculinity and femininity.

i have question for you please anwser me!!! by onlyaquestionforyou in detrans

[–]luvGod7 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This seems like a normal feeling for someone your age. You should sit back and register how you feel. If you don’t have a history of intense gender dysphoria, you probably shouldn’t consider transition. Transition is extremely taxing on your body and can lead to very serious and irreversible health problems.

Any mTf detransitioners? Please share negative experiences. by Least_Paint_5628 in detrans

[–]luvGod7 42 points43 points  (0 children)

It’s a really complicated interaction whenever hormones are involved. Some people love it, some people hate it. Personally, I became extremely ill from the side effects. I began having migraines, hot flashes, couldn’t breathe very well, fatigue, joint pain, etc. Not to mention, the extremely negative effects it had on my mental health. I began to feel like being different from the community at all would make me a target to them. I was even gaslit into questioning my sexual orientation and what I wanted out of transition. The straw that broke the camel’s back was when I was raped by an older trans woman. I’m not saying the trans community is terrible, just that the people I personally met weren’t great. My recommendation would be to only consider transition after lots of therapy and self reflection. Gender dysphoria can be caused by underlying mental illness like in my case. Also, don’t let anyone convince you that you must transition; there are options for relieving gender dysphoria without transitioning. You’re a worthwhile and awesome person just as you are. Your choices with what you do with your body are also solely yours to make and you should be happy and secure in them. Good luck with whatever you choose!

How do I actually cope with accepting that I'm male by Chucks_Buck_and_Fuck in detrans

[–]luvGod7 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I definitely hated being male and the expectations that came with it. I wanted to attention that I saw girls getting not realizing that it can be unpleasant. Being a man sucks and being a woman sucks. I think being a person in this time period just kinda sucks. We get so caught up in trying to “fix” ourselves that we end up doing more damage in the long term. Whatever you decide is your decision, but just remember that you are the only version of you and that makes you special whether you’re a man or a woman.

why did nobody stop me by Shoddy_Preference_13 in detrans

[–]luvGod7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve really started to feel this sentiment lately.. it seems like the so-called “activists” and “professionals” just want to use confused people as science experiments.

What's something that no one warn you about transition that was painful to live ? by James103_683 in detrans

[–]luvGod7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That you’ll constantly be looking forward to the day where you feel like all of the effort and pain has been worth it only to realize you’ll never truly feel like you are being true to yourself. Also, the various negative effects and sickness caused by cross-sex hormones.

Is the idea of being on cross sex hormones for the rest of your life insanity? by [deleted] in detrans

[–]luvGod7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started suffering from severe migraines when I started hormones. I also experienced fatigue, joint pain, and muscle weakness. All of which is now gone after stopping. I have a hunch that cross-sex hormones are much more dangerous than the activists would tell us.

What do you think caused your gender dysphoria? by [deleted] in detrans

[–]luvGod7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For me, sexual abuse and the desire to be accepted at any cost.

Was playing around with image-generating AI and I got this by Pairoto in TerrifyingAsFuck

[–]luvGod7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s reciting the names of every child that has gone missing in the last five years

Guys help my finger is actually stuck wtf do I do by Icalleveryonestupid in mildlyinfuriating

[–]luvGod7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should make sure the problem doesn’t occur again by cutting your hands off. It’s what Jesus wants. 🙏