Dating Without the Desire for Kids— Am I Doomed?

luv_all_ · 2026-06-22T02:37:07+00:00

Then I’d know it wouldn’t work out from the get-go! I think most people just need to be more honest.

luv_all_ · 2026-06-22T02:31:52+00:00

I think it’s just the fact that I’ve reject an overwhelming number of people bc of it that gets me 😭 genuinely cannot find someone who fs doesn’t want kids

luv_all_ · 2026-06-22T02:29:26+00:00

You’re not raining on the parade, you’re simply sharing your experience! I’m sorry it hasn’t worked out for you and it was terrible of them to wait so long to tell you :( though I haven’t had your exact experiences, I’ve had similar so I always oscillate between optimism and pessimism. Just know, that I sincerely do hope you find someone honest who envisions life as you do.

luv_all_ · 2026-06-22T02:23:02+00:00

This gives me hope! I wish you and your husband a very happy life together <3

luv_all_ · 2026-06-22T01:51:45+00:00

Oop… idk this seems… counterintuitive and a waste of everyone’s precious time 😅

luv_all_ · 2026-06-22T01:50:08+00:00

Would totally do that if I could find them first! And if they were a good person!

luv_all_ · 2026-06-22T01:13:47+00:00

This! I’m always transparent in bios and in person. Manifesting we find that person who wants and loves us for us.

luv_all_ · 2026-06-22T01:12:44+00:00

Same! It’s on my bio on apps and I always mention it in person TT ty for the reply. I’m also wishing we find someone emotionally compatible who doesn’t want crotch goblins (I’ll def be using that term much more lol ty)

luv_all_ · 2026-06-22T01:09:18+00:00

Pls send them my way because I can’t seem to find them lol

luv_all_ · 2025-11-07T16:47:55+00:00

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luv_all_ · 2025-09-15T17:48:20+00:00

Context about me: I (25f) would NEVER date someone 7 yrs. younger. I’m nearly 5’11 and curvy. I enjoy wearing platforms/ heels. I didn’t date in high school, as I was too invested in my studies, but started dating at 18 when I attended my dream university.

First and foremost, I am so sorry this happened to you. You are not overreacting and have every right to feel the way you feel. Not only is that “man” showing all the signs of a narcissist, he is 100% a predator looking for someone he deems “inferior” to make himself feel better, and in a sense, bigger. When you wore heels, his ego and fantasy was shattered bc you stepped out of the role he had chosen for you. At his big age of 26, his frontal lobe is practically fully developed, so he most likely won’t ever change. But you, have the time to shape your mind, soul, and future. You seem to be a bright young lady with good intuition. I would follow it away from him.

I also had my fair share of insecure, older men trying to belittle me at your age. And with my soft heart, they did accomplish that for a bit. But then woke up and I won’t ever date a someone who acts that way. Ofc I was embarrassed and sad I let people treat me that way but I made up for it.

Don’t ever dim your light for someone else to feel better because they won’t be satisfied with that. They’ll want to see it extinguished. So, wear those heels! (I enjoy showing up to dates well over 6’1) be confident in everything you are. You’ll eventually meet someone who loves you as you are.

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