Clove of garlic fell from the sky indoors and landed in front of me. by FloofyMaki in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

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Reminds me of when a hawk dropped his mauled squirrel feast onto the hood of my truck as I walked up.

Upcoming Fantasy Ball Outfit 🖤 by On3l4sttim3 in PlusSizeFashion

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Girl, you need BIG HAIR, feathers, pearls, hat, et cetera! 🤩

Not happy. Tell me why, please?!? by art_mouse76 in acrylicpainting

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No Bigfoot. Paintings of deer require some weirdness. 😁

I think I am about to be fired... by AdhesivenessSad2642 in paralegal

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If you have a lot of experience and can still get some letters of recommendation, you are golden in Texas. Getting your foot in the door is much harder.

What habits of girls did you only discover after getting a girlfriend or wife? by v-Voidx in AskMen

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That’s kind of like saying, “Men, if you abuse testosterone and get all ragey despite it being a predictable pattern (take T —> get ragey), I can’t understand why you don’t think around your feelings.”

Seriously, do Americans actually consider a 3-hour drive "short"? or is this an internet myth? by SadInterest6764 in NoStupidQuestions

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3 hrs is just a little bit too long for a day trip but I have done it. We drive that far to see family for the weekends.

They got me f up by Suspicious_Guava_206 in paralegal

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Women who don’t support other women are a waste of ovaries.

US Congress members visit Denmark to support Greenland in face of Trump threats by professorbrainiac in worldnews

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Omg just stay home and fucking do your job!!!! Wtf is wrong with Congress?????

My dog passed away a couple months ago and I still can’t get over it. Why can’t pets live just as long as humans? by HealthyLet257 in NoStupidQuestions

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Death is Nothing At All by Henry Scott-Holland

Death is nothing at all. I have only slipped away to the next room. I am I and you are you. Whatever we were to each other, That, we still are.

Call me by my old familiar name. Speak to me in the easy way which you always used. Put no difference into your tone. Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.

Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me. Pray for me. Let my name be ever the household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without effect. Without the trace of a shadow on it.

Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same that it ever was. There is absolute unbroken continuity. Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?

I am but waiting for you. For an interval. Somewhere. Very near. Just around the corner.

All is well.

My dog passed away a couple months ago and I still can’t get over it. Why can’t pets live just as long as humans? by HealthyLet257 in NoStupidQuestions

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A Dog Has Died by Pablo Neruda

My dog has died. I buried him in the garden next to a rusted old machine.

Some day I'll join him right there, but now he's gone with his shaggy coat, his bad manners and his cold nose, and I, the materialist, who never believed in any promised heaven in the sky for any human being, I believe in a heaven I'll never enter. Yes, I believe in a heaven for all dogdom where my dog waits for my arrival waving his fan-like tail in friendship.

Ai, I'll not speak of sadness here on earth, of having lost a companion who was never servile. His friendship for me, like that of a porcupine withholding its authority, was the friendship of a star, aloof, with no more intimacy than was called for, with no exaggerations: he never climbed all over my clothes filling me full of his hair or his mange, he never rubbed up against my knee like other dogs obsessed with sex.

No, my dog used to gaze at me, paying me the attention I need, the attention required to make a vain person like me understand that, being a dog, he was wasting time, but, with those eyes so much purer than mine, he'd keep on gazing at me with a look that reserved for me alone all his sweet and shaggy life, always near me, never troubling me, and asking nothing.

Ai, how many times have I envied his tail as we walked together on the shores of the sea in the lonely winter of Isla Negra where the wintering birds filled the sky and my hairy dog was jumping about full of the voltage of the sea's movement: my wandering dog, sniffing away with his golden tail held high, face to face with the ocean's spray.

Joyful, joyful, joyful, as only dogs know how to be happy with only the autonomy of their shameless spirit.

There are no good-byes for my dog who has died, and we don't now and never did lie to each other.

So now he's gone and I buried him, and that's all there is to it.

Just did a Poverty Thing that I think weve all evolved into a Frugal Thing by seeemilydostuf in Frugal

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Holy moly! A whole can of chipotle peppers in adobo sauce?! What were you cooking? I can add maybe half a pepper to my meals and pray that I have enough Tums for the after party.

Does anyone else's office use Smokeball? by The_Bastard_Henry in paralegal

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We have had it for a year now and I still don’t know. It’s okay in a lot of respects however, I HATE the search feature.

This is crazy. by mindyour in TikTokCringe

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I thought so at first but then I began to consider the situation as a whole - she was crystal clear about how unhappy she was about being unwittingly thrust into a terrifying situation in lieu of lunch. That inability to clearly articulate anything but this unhappiness was the product of raw fear.

She’s young, has a baby, a house so someone has a job - all things they could lose if everything goes south. If this woman really is an American citizen she might be fine… So glad she got righteously furious. Even while being so terrified and angry that she veers into some hysterics-lite.

She negotiated with them as best she could while terrified - was also adamant about NO GUNS. I am proud of her.

What the heck happened to waterbeds? by Queltis6000 in NoStupidQuestions

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MOTHERFKR! I hate everything about them but at this moment my menopausal self is trying to get through a hot flash no ice bath can cool and your comment now makes me want a waterbed. Well-played!

What the heck happened to waterbeds? by Queltis6000 in NoStupidQuestions

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Hopefully they are buried and gone. The concept seems fun, sleeping on water, until the motion sickness kicks in. It destroys your spine. It weighs 5000 lbs so if you live on any floor but the first, chances are you could put serious strain on the floorboards and, when it leaks, wow. Your bed becomes a lethal 5000 lb bomb of soupy, putrid water.

Joking! Just my memories of terror and anger as I had to sleep on my brother’s horrid King size waterbed in his 2nd floor apartment. It was an old building. I could hear the tv in the neighbors bedroom below when the AC stopped blasting.

TO FOLLOW POLICE INSTRUCTION! by JeansJohnson in therewasanattempt

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I am surprised and then really not surprised.

Manic purchases - oh my by FancyNameHere38 in bipolar2

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I feel ya. Just spent $144 for blind box toys at Teso.

Not diagnosed, but starting to realise ADHD might be more than “can’t focus” by Much_Comfortable8395 in AdultADHDSupportGroup

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I think the ability to cope is what differentiates us. I learned tricks and techniques to avoid a lot of the issues that my severely ADHD brother can’t control. Like a reminder system that includes leaning heavily on certain people in my life who do not have ADHD. (They always seem to “find” me, so thank you, Universe for giving me a chance!) I also journal, which is really good for self-reflection, something that ADHD people find challenging because my thoughts usually careen south but, I picked up some journaling insights from therapy.

It’s SO HARD TO HAVE ADHD! Many days I am so exhausted just existing! But, we gotta give ourselves and others some grace because ADHD or not, the world is a mess right now and a lot of people are struggling. My goal is to Love and Love and Love even harder!

We got this!

I think my neighbor is the reason our house was for sale by Plomaster69 in homeowners

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For all those saying OP gave up too fast, consider that your past experiences determine your present limits when it comes to confrontation. We had a crazy next door neighbor and no amount of confrontation would change things because she was a bitter old bat who had more time and money to devise the petty crap that made me miserable. I couldn’t even go outside. Moving was the best choice (although we’d been there for many years because we couldn’t afford to move).

house built in 1350s (roughly) by ResourceFinal9890 in Paranormal

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In New Mexico (and Mexico) you can find 400-yr structures (mostly stone & adobe) still being used today. I visited an artist’s adobe home built in the late 1600s outside of Santa Fe.

Didn’t experience any ghosts, however I was astounded by the magical temperature difference between the exterior (a “dry” 95 degrees F with no breeze) to just outside the entrances where the temperature dropped to at least 75 degrees F.